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Inani lentombazana eluntwini, ngaphandle kokufumana indawo engcono, iyaqhubeka ukwahluka kuleyo yenkwenkwe kumanqaku aliqela, umqondiso osisigxina xa ikhula. Abazali nabahlohli kufuneka bakhuthaze ixabiso lokulingana apho intombazana iyinto ayithandayo. Umncinci akufuneki ajongelwe phantsi, kodwa kunoko mbeke ngegunya analo.
Iimpawu amantombazana
Ngokwesiko Njengamantombazana bakhulele kwimeko yobuthathaka, ubu ethe-ethe, nokungenisa, inqwelomoya yesibini okanye ubuvuvu. Ukusuka kumantombazana amancinci akhula emamela amabali ngamakhosazana asindiswa yinkosana. Inkosana iya kubanika ubomi ababufunayo kuba bebodwa baya kuba phantsi kobomi obubi. Musa ukuvumela intombazana ukuba icinge ukuba ayinakulinganisa, nokuba ingaphezulu kwendoda. Ngoku amakhaya amaninzi afundisiwe ukulingana, ngokufanayo nakumaziko emfundo. Utata nomama kufuneka baziveze kwimisebenzi ekwabelwana ngayo ukuze intombazana ibone kwaye iqonde ukuba ayingomama kuphela ekufuneka ebengumfazi wekhaya ozincamayo.
Kude nenyani, umama uyavuka kwakhona kwezo zimvo kwaye ufuna ukuba intombi yakhe ingazifaki ezi zihloko zibonakaliswe kakubi. Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, ukuvuswa kwezizukulwana zamazwi ababhinqileyo kuyabonakaliswa kwaye kuyaliwa ukuthathelwa ingqalelo njengomphelelisi wendoda. Ngokucacileyo uninzi lwabasetyhini lubonakala ngaphandle kwizikhundla zamandla noxanduva oluphezulu apho amadoda ephethe. Into ekufuneka yenziwe ibe yesiqhelo ngokupheleleyo kwaye ifakwe.
Ndifuna ukuba ligorha, hayi inkosazana
Njengomama, kufuneka nophule iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo malunga nendima yendoda nebhinqa. La i-madre ukubonisa ukumelana kwakho nentombi yakho kuya kuyenza icinge ukuba inako ukwenza nantoni na. Ayizukuba ngumsebenzi onzima kuba umama, ngaphandle kwenkcaso, umzobo ogcwele isibindi kwaye amandla emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Xa emncinci, omncinci uya kubamba iimfundiso azinikiweyo.
Intombazana kufuneka ivunyelwe ukuba ithathe isigqibo kwaye ibe. Inyani yokuthenga yokudlala ithathelwa ingqalelo kuphela njengentombazana kwaye imhlutha enye njengenkwenkwe sele ichaza imiqobo, kuya kwenzeka okufanayo ngemibala yeempahla okanye iimpahla. Amantombazana kufuneka afundiswe kwaye aqeqeshwe kuthando lommelwane kunye nenkululeko yokucinga. Inkqubo ye- amantombazana Kuya kufuneka baqonde ukuba umntu wokuqala ekufuneka ebathande iziqu zakhe kwaye akukho namnye unelungelo lokubathoba. Amantombazana anokuba ngamantombazana, aneemvakalelo ezinamandla kunye novakalelo, kwaye abe nesibindi kwaye abe nesibindi.
Fundisa kubomi obutyebileyo kwezempilo nakwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha
Intombazana kufuneka iqonde ukuba ilizwe lisezinyaweni zakhe kwaye linokuya koko likufunayo ngothando, iinzame, ubukrelekrele kwaye ngaphandle kwezithintelo ezimnqandayo.
Kuyancomeka ukuba intombazana esemncinci kakhulu bafundiswe ngoxanduva, inkululeko, umgudu, ukuphucula ..., ngaphandle ukulinganiselwa akukho kukhuseleka. Intombazana kufuneka iqonde ukuba ilizwe lisezinyaweni zakhe kwaye linokuya koko likufunayo ngothando, iinzame, ubukrelekrele kwaye ngaphandle kwezithintelo ezimnqandayo. Njengabazali, intombazana kufuneka inikwe iinjongo ezinceda ukomeleza ukuzithemba kwazo kunye nokufaka ukhuseleko kuye. Intombazana kufuneka izithembe kwaye ingoyikiswa mntu.
Kule mihla akukho kuphela oonodoli abahambahamba ngeenqwelo zabantwana okanye banxibe amakhosazana okanye iilokhwe zomtshato. Uninzi lweempawu esele zithengisa oonodoli abanxiba iimpahla zeqhawekazi kwaye balungiselela ukugqibezela uthumo, ukukhwela amaza nokusindisa umhlaba kubenzi bobubi. Amaxabiso ocalucalulo kunye neendima eziphawuliweyo zesini azibonakali kangako. Umzekelo wentombazana kufuneka ibe ngumntu okwaziyo ukutya umhlaba. Ngapha koko, i-cinema kunye nomabonwakude nabo babheja kolu luvo. Abalinganiswa abaphambili bamabali zezesini sabasetyhini kwaye ngamagorha alwayo, abafazi abakhayo, abaphandayo, bangena kumahlathi omlingo nobumnyama ...
Utitshala wentombazana: Umama wakhe
Kwintombazana owona mzekelo mhle ngunina. Ewe uyinkuthazo yakhe yokuqala kunye neqhawekazi. Ngubani onamandla kunomama, umntu ongadinwayo kunye nedrive engenakuthelekiswa nanto kwabanye. Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba bayalingana, ukuba iinkolelo eziphelelwe lixesha zezinto okanye ezingezozamantombazana azenzi ngqondo. Nangona kunjalo, kuninzi okusamele kwenziwe.
Inyaniso yokuba intombazana phantse ihlala ibona umama wayo epheka okanye ehlamba ngokuqinisekileyo iya kumkhokelela ekubeni abe nolwazelelelo olukhulu kwezi ntlobo zeethoyi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukungenisa ngaphakathi, ngaphandle kokuchazwa ngenye indlela, ukuba yeyabafazi besini. Ukuba intengiso okanye iindawo ezithile zentlalo ziyatshintsha Kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha imeko yabo basondeleyo kuloo ntombazana.