Nawuphi na umfazi okhulelweyo, ixesha lokumitha lijika libe li-roller coaster yeemvakalelo. Ingakumbi koomama abatsha, mihla le inkxalabo entsha, uloyiko kunye nokuthandabuza okuninzi kuvela, zonke zisengqiqweni ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kwayo yonke into ezayo. Uloyiko ngexesha lokuhanjiswa, inkathalo yosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, utshintsho olwenzekayo emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo, njl
Namhlanje kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukwazi ukukwazisa ngayo yonke into onokuyifuna. Ukuhamba ulwazi olufana nolo sinikezela ngalo mihla le Madres Hoy, kwiiforamu zoomama ababalisa amava abo okanye ngokwamaqela athi ngamanye amaxesha enziwe kumaziko ezempilo, ukuze abasetyhini abakhulelweyo babelane ngamava. Kodwa enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokusombulula amathandabuzo akho ziincwadi.
Ukuba uyakuthanda ukufunda, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba ukhangela iincwadi ezimalunga nokukhulelwa, ukuzala umntwana, usana olusanda kuzalwa nayo yonke into oza kuyifumana. Unga Fumana iintlobo ngeentlobo zeencwadi ngalo mbandela, ezinye zisuka kwimbono yesayensi kwaye ezinye zisuka kwingxelo yangoku, into eyonwabisa ngakumbi. Inqaku kukuba kukho iincwadi zazo zonke izinto ozithandayo, olu lukhetho lwethu.
«Yintoni onokuyilindela xa ulindele»
Ngu-Heidi Murkoff (uhlelwe eSpain ngendlu yokupapasha yasePlaneta)
Umfanekiso: I-Infantilandia
Le ncwadi sele umlinganiso wezigidi zoomama bexesha elizayo kwihlabathi liphela. Kuthathelwa ingqalelo njenge "ibhayibhile yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo", ngaphezulu kwamaphepha angama-600 unokufumana ulwazi ekucwangcisweni, ekuveleni kokukhulelwa iveki ngeveki, ukukhulelwa okuninzi, njl. Ngale ncwadana ineenkcukacha zokukhulelwa, uya kuba nakho ukusombulula onke amathandabuzo anokuvela malunga nokukhulelwa.
"Ukutya kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo"
Ngu-Marta Anguera (uHlelo lwe-La Esfera de los Libros)
Umfanekiso: Relibrea
Ukondla kubalulekile ukuze ukukhulelwa kukhule ngokwesiqhelo kwaye umntwana akhule omelele kwaye esempilweni kude kube ngumzuzu wokuzalwa. Le ncwadi ibhaliwe ngusosayensi owaziwayo uMarta Anguera, kwaye unokufumana kuyo iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo malunga nesondlo ekukhulelweni. Ukongeza, unokufunda ukwenza imenyu esempilweni yokuzikhathalela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nexesha lokubuyela emva kokubeleka.
Ngala macebiso axabisekileyo, unga rukunciphisa ukungahambi kakuhle njengokuqhinwa, isilungulela okanye ukutyeba kakhulu phakathi kwabanye.
"Ndiphuze kakhulu: indlela yokukhulisa abantwana bakho ngothando"
Umfanekiso: Rogues
NguCarlos Gonzalez (Imicimbi yokuHlela yanamhlanje)
Oku kufanelekile incwadi esecaleni kwebhedi yabo bonke abasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Kwincwadi, umbhali uyazikhusela ngokwembono yengqondo, zeziphi iimpembelelo zokukhulisa ngokungqongqo kunye nokuhambelana okuncinci kwiintsana. Ukhuselo oluqinileyo lokuba ngumzali onembeko, olusekwe kwithuku. Umbhali uthetha ngokubaluleka kokubamba umntwana wakho, ukumphuza nokumwola kwaye umbonise lonke uthando lwakho, ukongeza kwizibonelelo zeemvakalelo ezibandakanya ukuphuhla komntwana.
«Ukukhulelwa nokubeleka: yonke into ekufuneka uyazi»
Umfanekiso: Pequelia
Ngu-Emilio Santos Leal (uHlelo lwe-Anaya multimedia)
Umbhali ngugqirha wezifo zababhinqileyo kunye nogqirha wezifo zengqondo, oyingcali ekuzalweni kwendalo. Kumaphepha ayo uyakufumana lukuphendula imibuzo malunga neemvavanyo zonyango apho kuya kufuneka ungenise, ukubeka esweni ukukhulelwa okanye inkqubo yokuhanjiswa phakathi kweminye imiba emininzi. Isikhokelo sabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bokuqala abafuna ukuqikelela yonke into ezayo.
«Iiveki ezingama-39 kunye namava am njengomama omtsha»
Umfanekiso: Ilifu lomntwana
Ngu-Esther Gili (Abahleli beLunwerg)
Le ncwadi imnandi ibhalwe ngumama omtsha, umbhali webhlog ehamba ngegama elifanayo nencwadi. Umbhali umbalisela iihambo nezinto ezingalunganga njengonina omtshaKonke oku ngendlela ehlekisayo kuyonwabisa oomama abakwimeko efanayo. U-Esther Gili ujongana nemiba ebalulekileyo enje ngotshintsho lweemvakalelo, ukuncancisa, kunye neminye imiba anokuthi maxa wambi umama omtsha abe nayo.