Abantwana abadala, abaneminyaka esi-8 ukuya kweli-10, ngokuya befuna ukuchitha ixesha elincinci bedlala kunye nabazali babo. Besiya ngokuzimela ngakumbi kwaye bathanda ukudlala ngokukhululekileyongakumbi ukuba baziva ukuba umsebenzi ungowokufunda kunokudlala. Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukujonga imisebenzi yemfundo kunye nemidlalo abantwana abadala abanokuthi baqhubeke nokufunda ngayo, kodwa ngendlela emnandi ebandakanya ixesha elifanelekileyo njengentsapho.
Ngokubanzi, kule minyaka kunzima ngakumbi ukufumana imisebenzi yokwabelana nosapho. Ngesi sizathu kunye nokwenza uququzelelo nokucwangcisela imidlalo yemfundo nabantwana ukuba ibe lula kuwe, sikuzisa olu khetho lwemisebenzi onokuyenza ekhaya. Into ebalulekileyo kula maxesha, kuba imeko yangoku yezempilo ifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ekhaya.
Imidlalo yokufundisa abantwana abadala
Zininzi izinto onokuzenza nabantwana abadala, imidlalo yokufunda enomdla kwaye iyonwabisa kubo. Kule meko, endaweni yokusebenzisa izinto zabantwana, ungasebenzisa imisebenzi yabadala ukwenza umdla kunye nengqwalaselo kubo. Nazi ezinye zeembono ezikhuthazayo, kodwa khumbula ukuba nokucela abantwana ukuba bakuncede ekuthengeni ngumsebenzi wemfundo kubo.
Funda ukupheka
Ukunceda abantwana bakhule ngomnye wemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu yabazali. Nangona ihlala ihoywa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana bafunde imisebenzi enjengokupheka, ukuzilungisa ngokufanelekileyo, okanye imfundo yokuqhuba, ukukhankanya nje ezimbalwa. Ukufunda ukupheka kubaluleke kakhulu kukuzimela kwakhoKuba abazukufunda ukuphatha ukutya kuphela, kodwa baya kufunda nokutya ngokuchanekileyo. Kwikhonkco sikushiya neengcebiso ezithile fundisa abantwana ukupheka.
Tyala igadi yemifuno
Ukwenza igadi encinci yindlela elula kwaye emnandi yokwenza abantwana bathathe uxanduva kunye nokuzibophelela. Ukuba bona ngokwabo banethuba lokufunda ukwenza eyabo igadi, bekhetha imbewu abafuna ukuyityala, bade bayenze ngokwabo, Ngokuchukumisa umhlaba kwaye ubukele izityalo zakho zikhula, baya kuba nako ukuzibophelela kuloo msebenzi. Bayakukhumbula ukunkcenkceshela izityalo zabo kwaye ukuzibukela zikhula kwaye kuphuhlisa ngamava abo.
Bhala ibali
Omnye wemidlalo ekhethekileyo yezemfundo yabantwana abadala abanokuyenza kukufunda ukwenza amabali abo. Bambalwa abantwana abanomdla wokufunda kuba, ngokubanzi, abazali nabahlohli ngabo ekufuneka befundise lo msebenzi ebantwaneni. Kodwa Ayifani ukuba ufunde ngaphandle kwesibophelelo, kunokuba ufunde into oyithandayo kwaye iyakukhuthaza.
Ukulungiselela abantwana kancinane kancinci ukuziqhelisa ukufunda, yeyiphi indlela ebhetele yokwenza bafundise ukuzenzela awabo amabali emva koko banokufunda amaxesha amaninzi kangangoko bafuna. Kule khonkco Uya kufumana lonke ulwazi oluyimfuneko kunye neengcebiso ukuze udale amabali abo nabantwana bakho kwasekuqaleni. Ukusuka kukhetho lwabalinganiswa, kwimifanekiso okanye ekubophelelweni.
Yenza eyakho imidlalo ekhaya
Kwimarike ungathenga ukungapheliyo kwemidlalo, ibhodi, ulwakhiwo, ubudala, ukhetho alupheli. Kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuthenga imidlalo ukuze abantwana bafunde kwaye bonwabise. Ukwenza eyakho imidlalo ngokwakho sele kungumsebenzi wemfundo ilungele ukuphucula izakhono zakho. Ukongeza, banokuba nemidlalo eyahlukileyo eyahlukileyo, bacinge kwaye bayile ngokwabo.
Ngezixhobo ezinokuphinda zisetyenziswe ungabanceda abantwana bakho ukuba bakhe imidlalo eyonwabisa njengegaraji yeemoto, isekethe yomdyarho, uloliwe ongumzekelo, unodoli nayo yonke ifanitshala nezinto zokuhombisa, ikhitshi elincinci lokudlala, ivenkile enkulu yokuthengisa ukutya kwaye ke ufunde ukubala. Izinketho zibanzi njengokucinga kwabantwana, hlala phantsi nabantwana bakho, nibonise umbono wokudala umdlalo kunye kwaye izimvo ziya kuqala ukuhluma kwimizuzu embalwa.