Amaxesha amaninzi kukho utyekelo lokujongela phantsi umsebenzi woomama nootata, uthathwa njengonganyanzelekanga ukuba ngumsebenzi onyanzelekileyo, ofunyanwa xa ubani esiba ngutata okanye umama. Umsebenzi osisigxina, yonke imihla evekini, ngaphandle kwekhefu okanye ikhefu lokugula. Umsebenzi wokuzincama kodwa ungathandabuzeki, onoyolo onokubakho.
Kodwa kunqabile ukuba lo msebenzi uxabisiwe, omnye ngumama okanye utata kwaye ngenxa yoko unembopheleleko yokufezekisa indima nganye ayimisileyo ukubeleka. Okukhokelela ekubeni ungabuleli ngaloo mzamo, kuba kunqabile ukuba lo msebenzi uxatyiswe kwaye uxatyiswe ndibizwa ngokuba ngumama okanye utata. Kwaye ayisiyonto ilula ukuba abantwana bakho bakuxabise, kubalulekile ukuba lonke uluntu luxabise bonke ootata noomama ngayo yonke into abayenzela abantwana babo yonke imihla yobomi babo.
Usuku lomama kunye nootata
Namhlanje uJuni 1 Usuku loMama noTata behlabathi lubhiyozelwa, usenokuba awazi, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungakhankanywa ndawo. Kanye njengokuba usuku lukamama okanye lukatata lubhiyozelwa ngesitayile, ukukhankanywa okukhethekileyo kwenziwa kumabonwakude kwaye amaphulo entengiso anoxanduva lokukhumbula ixabiso lesipho kumzali wakho, oomama nootata usuku lwakho lungaqwalaselwa.
Ngo-2012, umhla woku-1 kuJuni wabhengezwa njengoSuku loMama nooTata kwiNdibano yeZizwe eziManyeneyo. Injongo icacile, ukunika imbeko kumsebenzi we abantu abakhathalela impilo yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zabantwana, ngentlalo-ntle yabo, ngokubabonelela ngemfundo, amaxabiso abaya kukhula ngawo njengabantu abadala abanovelwano, abaxhasayo okanye abanesisa.
Irhafu kubo bonke oomama nootata
Ngoku ukuba umhlaba wonke ushushu kukulwa neCovid-19, Umsebenzi wabazali uxabiseke ngakumbi. Ukongeza kwimisebenzi yesiqhelo, ootata noomama baye baba ngootitshala, iingcali zonyango, abantwana, kunye neengcali kwezobugcisa kunye novavanyo ekhaya. Yonke loo misebenzi ihlala kwabelwana ngayo phakathi kootitshala esikolweni, ootitshala, iitheraphisti zabantwana abaneemfuno zemfundo ezizodwa, njl.
Abantwana bayaqhubeka nazo zonke ezo mfuno kwaye ngoku ophetheyo ukubakhusela bonke ngoomama nootata. Kodwa ukongeza ekunyamekeleni yonke le misebenzi kwaye bekhathalela abantwana babo, abazali bayaqhubeka nokwenza imisebenzi yabo, basebenza ngomnxeba kwakusa. ukwenzela ukuba ungathathi umzuzu wexesha kubantwana. Ukujijisa ukuze amanani adityaniswe kwaye abantwana abazi nokuba imeko inzima.
Ukudlala, ukwenza imisebenzi, ulingo lwasekhaya, ubugcisa nayo yonke into esekhaya, ukwenzela ukuba abantwana bahlale bonwabile, bengazi konke ukubandezeleka ukuba lo bhubhani ubangela amakhaya amaninzi. Kwaye konke oku, okusisinyanzelo sokuziphatha njengomama okanye utata, kwenziwa kolona thando lukhulu, luthando kunye nokuqonda kwabazali abadiniweyo abangayekeli ukujonga okona kulungileyo kubantwana babo.
Wenza kakuhle kakhulu
Ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye (mhlawumbi ngaphezu kwesinye ngosuku) uzibuza ukuba uqhuba kakuhle, ukuba ungumama olungileyo okanye utata olungileyo, ukuba unika konke okusemandleni akho kubantwana bakho. Impendulo nguewe, ungathandabuzi umzuzwana, nakweyona mizuzu mibi yokuba buthathaka. Unika okona kulungileyo kuwe, utsala amandla mihla le ukuze umntwana wakho onwabe, ukuze angakuqapheli ukungabikho kwabo afunda nabo, imidlalo yakhe epakini, okanye ukunqongophala kootitshala bakhe, kuba uninzi ngaphezu koko. Uya kuhlala ungumama okanye utata, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba unikezele ngembeko, kuvuyiswana nabo.