Ukuba ngumama okwishumi elivisayo kunokubangela umngcipheko omkhulu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo ekunzima kakhulu ukubuyela kuwo. Ukuba nomntwana kunokuba sesona sihlandlo sihle ebomini bomntu. Kodwa kude nokuba ngumama ofanelekileyo, ukuba ngumama okanye utata kubandakanya uthotho lwamadini kunye notshintsho olusisiseko kubomi bawo nawuphi na umntu, ekufuneka ijongane nokukhula kunye nengqondo elungileyo.
Uluntu lwanamhlanje alufani njengoko lwalunjalo kumashumi ambalwa adlulileyo, apho amantombazana ahlala khona bekhulelwe njengabafikisayo, kwiimeko ezininzi babengenayo inkxaso yosapho. Nangona kunjalo, nangona umntu ofikisayo enokuzifumana ngoncedo losapho, ukukhulelwa Ukufikisa kuyaqhubeka ukumela utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini beli bhinqa liselula.
Ukukhulelwa kwabakwishumi elivisayo
Kukho izinga eliphezulu lokufa kwabantu abakhulelweyo abakwishumi elivisayo, kunye nenqanaba eliphezulu lokuphazamiseka ekukhuleni komntwana ongekazalwa. Ingxaki ilele kwinqanaba lokukhula komfazi omncinci. Ngexesha lokufikisa, utshintsho olusisiseko lwenzeka kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo. Ngokwasemzimbeni amandla okuzala afunyenwe, ukudlula ngokweemvakalelo ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya ebuntombini kunye nokukwazi ukufumana ukuzimela kwezoqoqosho kuyenzeka.
Ezi zinto zikhula ngexesha lokufikisa, zibeka emngciphekweni omkhulu kwimpilo yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zowasetyhini omncinci. Ngokuphathelene nenqwelomoya, umzimba usafuna iimfuno zesondlo ebuntwaneni, ezinokuthintela ukukhula kwemveku engekazalwa kunye nonina uqobo, kuba umzimba awulungelanga ukunika zombini izondlo ezifunekayo.
Kwinqanaba leemvakalelo, kumfazi omncinci ekukhuleni ngokupheleleyo, ukukhulelwa kungamthatha ukuphuma kwesikolo kunye nokuzahlula eluntwini. Iimeko ezingenakwenzeka kuzo zonke iimeko, kodwa ngandlela thile zichaphazele ubomi bomntu ofikisayo.
Ukuba ngumama okwishumi elivisayo
Ukungavuthwa kokufikisa yingxaki eyongezwe kwimeko entsha kamama. Okokuqala, kuba kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba ukuba ngumama ayisiyondawo yee roses, nokuba ingaba imnandi kangakanani. Ukujamelana nokungabikho kokuphumla, ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana imini yonke kunye Ukunikezela ngemisebenzi yakho ukuze unakekele umntwana akukho lula nangayiphi na imeko.
Kuncinci kakhulu kunye ulutsha olufikisayo olusandula ukufumana inkululeko yokuzimela. Ukuba ngumama okwishumi elivisayo unokuphelisa okanye ubeke bucala amaphupha amaninzi obomi bomfazi omncinci. Ukuba ngumama okwishumi elivisayo kuthetha ukubeka ecaleni ubuqili bexeshana elifutshane. Ngokukhawuleza, uyayeka ukuba yintombazana ekufuneka ikhathalelwe kwaye ikhuselwe, ube nguwe ekufuneka ukhathalele kwaye ukhusele omnye umntu.
Kwaye nangona kungenakwenzeka kwaye kukho izigidi zoomama abakwishumi elivisayo abaye boyisa iingxaki zokuqala kwaye babenakho ukuhambisa kwakhona ikamva labo elidlulileyo okwethutyana, isesisiphazamiso ekufuneka sithintelwe. Lo nto, imfundo ngesondo ebanzi ibalulekile, eklasini nasekhaya. Kuba ekuphela kwendlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa kolutsha kukuthintela.
Imfundo yezesondo
Ukufundisa abantu ngesondo kulutsha akuthethi ukuba bayakufundiswa ngezesondo. Imalunga nokubenza abathathi-nxaxheba be bonke ubunzima abaya kujongana nabo ukuba abanabo ubuni bokwabelana ngesondo kwaye isempilweni. Kuba ukukhulelwa kunokuba yeyona nto iphantsi kwiingxaki zakho, ukungaziphenduli ngokwesondo kunokuvelisa ezinye iingxaki ezinje nge isifo esidluliselwa ngesondo.
Kubafana, le migaqo ayiqhelekanga, bayayiva kumabonwakude kwaye babukele imovie ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi yonke into efunekayo ukuze ube neentlobano zesini, kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ukuba basebenzise ukhuseleko kwaye enyanisweni, ukuba baziva belungisiwe bangaphila ubomi besondo obuphilileyo ngaphandle kokubeka impilo yabo neyabanye emngciphekweni.