Ukujonga ukuba umntwana wakho une-nervous tic kunokuba nzima, ngakumbi ukuba yinto eza ngesiquphe. Amakhalane ziintshukumo ezingazibandakanyi ezinokuba yimoto, njengokuqhwanyaza, intshukumo egxalabeni okanye entanyeni. Kwaye zinokuba phezulu, ukucoca umqala rhoqo, ukuphindaphinda kwamagama okanye ingxolo. Ezi tics ziqhelekile kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo.
Bahlala bebi kakhulu kwiimeko zoxinzelelo, xa abantwana befunda ngexesha lokugxininisa okukhulu, i-tic engazibandakanyiyo ithande ukuba mandundu. Nangona inokwenzeka xa umntwana echitha ixesha elininzi phambi kwesikrini, ikhompyutha, iselfowuni okanye umabonwakude. Iitics kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo ziqheleke kakhulu, kodwa ngaba ziyalusizi?
Kutheni i-tic disorder ivela?
I-Tic nervous inokubangelwa zizizathu ezahlukeneyo, kuba Imiba yezengqondo, iimeko zokusingqongileyo kunye nokuba, kwi-tics kukho icandelo lofuzo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuba umntwana wakho une-tic, kunokwenzeka ukuba omnye wabazali bakhe wayenayo ebuntwaneni, nokuba uyaqhubeka nokuyigcina ebudaleni. Ukufumanisa i-tic kwaye ufumane unobangela wezonyango, kuya kufuneka ubonane nodokotela wabantwana.
Gcina umntwana wakho kakuhle ukubona xa i-tic ivela, ukuba inxulumene neemeko ezithile kwaye ukuba iya isiba mandundu ngamaxesha athile. Lonke olu lwazi lubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ugqirha wabantwana angenza uphando kwaye afumane isifo. Kuba, nangona kwiimeko ezininzi iyinto ehamba ngendlela efanayo naleyo ibonakala ngayo, inokuba inxulumene neengxaki zemithambo-luvo kunye nezinye iingxaki zonyango, ezinje ngezifo zamehlo.
Xa i-tic tic ihlala ixesha elide, ngaphezu konyaka, kwenzeka ukuba kugqitywe njenge-nervous nervous tic kwaye kuxa ifumana uqwalaselo olunzulu ngakumbi kwicala leengcali. Kungenxa yokuba olu hlobo lokuhamba okungazibandakanyi lunokuhambelana nokuphazamiseka okunje I-ADHD, I-Tourette Syndrome okanye i-Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
Ndenza ntoni ukuba umntwana wam une-nervous tic?
Ngokukodwa kubalulekile ukuba uhlale uzolile kwaye uphephe izimvo ezinokwenza ukuba i-tic ibe mandundu. Isikolo somntwana sinokukucaphukisa, sikukhathaze, kwaye sikukhokele ekubeni uzame ukusilawula ngenkani. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba umntwana akanako ukusilawula esi senzo somzimba wakhe, nokuba yeyomzimba okanye yesandi. Ke endaweni yokuba ucaphuke kwaye uzame ukwenza umntwana ukuba ayilawule, jonga izizathu ezinokubangela.
Ukuphazamiseka kwetic kukuhamba okungazibandakanyi, oko kuthetha ukuba akunakulawulwa. Yintoni enokuba yiyo sebenzela ukunciphisa isantya kunye nokuqina, kodwa oku kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde. Xa kuziwa ebantwaneni, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba nomonde kunye nokuqonda, kuba kubo kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukuziva uxinzelelo kwinto ongakwaziyo ukuyilawula kuya kuyenza nzima imeko.
Enye yezona ziqhelekileyo zihlala zifumaneka kwiingxaki zombono. Ukuba umntwana wakho une-tic esweni, yiya kwiofisi ye-ophthalmologist njengokhetho lokuqala. Nciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwezikrini, kuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko aziloncedo. Zama ukubeka ekugxilwe kuko, yintoni ebangela i-tic kumntwana wakhoNgale ndlela unokumphazamisa umntwana ngaphambi kokuba imeko ibe mandundu.
Kwimeko apho i-tic tic ihlala ixesha elide kakhulu, chitha iinyanga ezimbalwa kwaye uqaphele ezinye izinto ezinje ngokutshintsha kwemood, ukungabikho koxinzelelo okanye umntwana wakho akhule ngeemanaas ezininzi, yiya eofisini yabantwana. Kuya kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kwimikhwa yokulala komntwana wakho, ukuba unokoyikisa ebusuku, unengxaki yokulala ubuthongo obunzulu, unentloko ebuhlungu okanye utshintshe indlela aqhuba ngayo esikolweni.
Yonke le miqondiso ingaba yiflegi ebomvu, jonga umntwana wakho, bhala phantsi yonke into enokubaluleka kwaye uqhagamshelane nodokotela ngokukhawuleza. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, yinto encinci okanye akukho nto ixhalabisayo kwaye iya kuhamba ngokwendalo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Yithathe lula, jonga umntwana wakho kwaye nakuthandabuza okuncinci, yiya kugqirha.