Umsebenzi wabantwana uthintela abantwana iimfuno zabo namalungelo abo, oko kuthetha ukuxhaphaza.
Abantwana bafanele ukuba babe kwaye baphile ubuntwana babo ngokonwaba kunye neyona ndlela yokungakhathali inokwenzeka. Xa umntwana eneembopheleleko ezinzulu ngakumbi, engakwazi ukonwabela inqanaba lakhe, into ayihambi ngokwendalo. Masibone apha ngezantsi ukuba yintoni intsingiselo yekota yokusetyenziswa kwabantwana.
Umsebenzi wabantwana
Iminyaka apho izigidi zabantwana zibhaptizwa ekusebenzeni kwabantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-12. Umsebenzi wabantwana kuthetha ukuxhaphaza omncinci ngaphandle kokujongana neemfuno zabo. Uhluthwa amalungelo akho njengomntwana. Kwixesha elidlulileyo oku bekungabonwa njengento embi. Abantwana kwafuneka bancede abazali babo ngokuzisa imali ekhaya. Yayilisiko ngoko, ukuba basebenze emasimini. Ekugqibeleni ukusetyenziswa kwabantwana kwalelwa ngumthetho. Abantwana kufuneka bakhule kunye juego kunye nokufunda.
Ukwenza umsebenzi onzima ubudala bomntwana kufuneka bufike kwiminyaka eyi-18, eli-16 kwamanye amazwe. Umsebenzi owenziwa ngumntwana, ophuncuka kwimisebenzi yakhe yesiqhelo njengomntwana, ukubeka ukhuseleko lwakho, impilo-ntle yomzimba kunye nengqondo emngciphekweni kwaye ichaphazele amanye amathuba kunye namaxesha, ubize igama elithi ukusetyenziswa kwabantwana. Umsebenzi wabantwana uchaphazela ukukhula kwengqondo kunye nokukhula komntwana. Uninzi lwezi meko umntwana kufuneka azilahle ezabo iiklasi ukungakwazi ukudibanisa zombini iinkalo, ngokungabikho kwexesha kunye nokudinwa.
Icandelo elingalunganga nelonakalisayo
Abazali okanye abagcini kufuneka baqinisekise ukhuseleko lwabo kunye nentlalontle yomntwana, ebavumela ukuba bafunde kwaye bonwabe, hayi ukusebenza besebancinci.
Ezona ndlela zinzima nezingahlambulukiyo zokuqeshwa kwabantwana zezo zikhokelela ekuhenyuzeni, ukurhweba ngabantu ngokungekho mthethweni machiza, Ukucela kwizinto ezininzi eziguquguqukayo (ukwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho, ukuba, ukuphanga imali) okanye ukuthengisa esitratweni ... Umntwana ujongelwa phantsi kubuchule bakhe, kubuhle bakhe, kubukrelekrele bakhe nakwintando yakhe. Uthintelwe ekukhuleni ngokwengqondo nangokuphuhla ekuhlaleni ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba abantwana banceda abazali babo okanye izihlobo iiyure ezithile ngeveki, oko akuthethi ukuba isiphumo esibi, asibachaphazeli ngokweemvakalelo.
Omncinci baya kubethwa ngokuziphatha kwaye mhlawumbi ngokwasemzimbeni, baxhatshazwe, uluvo kunye neemvakalelo zabo aziyi kuthathelwa ngqalelo, kungaphantsi kwabo amalungelo. Ke ngoko, abagcini babantwana kufuneka baqinisekise ukhuseleko nentlalo-ntle yabo. Umntwana akanako ukubandezeleka emsebenzini ongathandabuzekiyo ngenxa yeminyaka yomntwana, iiyure okanye iimeko abaya kuzifumana bekuzo. Nabani na owaziyo okanye ofakazela olu hlobo lwesimo sengqondo kubantwana, kufuneka azise abasemagunyeni abanesakhono.