Ukubuyela emsebenzini emva kokuba ngumama, ihlala iyinto yoxinzelelo kwaye ibuhlungu kuye nawuphi na umfazi, ngakumbi xa kunjalo okokuqala umama. Abantwana batshintsha ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo, izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka ziguqulwe kwaye umbono wakho wobomi utshintsha ngokupheleleyo, ubuncinci kwiinyanga zokuqala. Ngesi sizathu, xa ikhefu lokuya kubeleka lifikelela esiphelweni okanye ngaso nasiphi na esinye isizathu, kuya kufuneka ubuyele emsebenzini, lixesha lokuba ujongane nazo zonke iimvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga.
Ukwenza ukubuyela kwakho emsebenzini kungabinalo uxinzelelo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ucwangcise kwangaphambili. Ngale ndlela, ngokwakho Uyakwazi ukuthatha uxanduva olutsha ngaphandle kokulahla lonke ixhala lakho kusana lwakho kwaye ukhathazeke. Ngaphezulu kwako konke, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho angabinaziphumo zoxinzelelo lwakho, kuba oku kunokuba nefuthe elibi kwimpilo yomntwana wakho.
Nangona usapho ngalunye luhlelwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo, izikhokelo kufuneka zifane kuzo zonke iimeko. Ngokulandela la maqhinga, ukubuyela emsebenzini kuya kuba yinto ebuhlungu kuwe nakumntwana wakho.
Cwangcisa ukubuyela kwakho emsebenzini kwiiveki ezininzi kwangaphambili
Ukupaka ecaleni kwezinto ezikuxhalabisayo awuyi kwenza nto ngaphezulu kokunyusa uxinzelelo kunye nexhala. Uyazi ukuba kungekudala uza kubuyela emsebenzini, ke, uyazi ukuba iindlela zakho ziya kutshintsha. Kubalulekile ukuba iiveki phambi kokuba ulungiselele ukubuyela kwakho emsebenziniKe, umntwana wakho akazukuhlupheka ngokungabikho ngesiquphe kwaye awuzukuhlupheka ngokwahlukana kosana lwakho.
Eyona nto iluncedo kukuba cuqala ukusebenza ukuba nomkhosi nosana lwakho ngokuthe ngcembe. Zama ukuhambahamba, uye ezivenkileni, okanye uziqhelanise nezinto ozithandayo, ngaphandle kwenkampani yomntwana wakho. Ngale ndlela, unokuqhela ukwahlula phakathi kosana lwakho. Oku kuya kunceda nomntwana wakho, oya kuthi aqhelane ukuhlala nabanye abantu ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngenxa yokungabikho kwakho.
Khetha umntu oza kukhathalela umntwana wakho
Iintsapho ezininzi zixhomekeke kuncedo olungathethekiyo koomawokhulu babo, ukuze bakwazi ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nobomi bosapho. Nangona abanye abaninzi bengenako oku ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo kwaye kufuneka babuyele kwiingcali okanye kumaziko emfundo yabasaqalayo. Nokuba injani imeko yakho okanye iimeko zakho, kubalulekile ukuba Inkqubo ihamba ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye umntwana wakho uyazi kwaye uqhela kumongi wakhe omtsha.
Nokuba sisizalwane kwaye umntwana wakho uyayazi ngokusengqiqweni, kunyanzelekile ukuba chitha ixesha uwedwa naloo mntu, kancinci kancinci. Ayifani nokudlala nomakhulu nomama ophambi kwakho, kunokuchitha iiyure ezingama-6 nomakhulu engekho umama.
Hlela imisebenzi kunye nokucwangcisa ukutya
Xa ubuyela emsebenzini, iindlela zakho ziya kuphinda zitshintshe kakhulu kwaye kuya kufuneka uqhelane nokunqongophala kwexesha kwakhona. Kubantu abaninzi, ukungahambelani nomsebenzi wasekhaya kongeza uxinzelelo. Kuyafana nokutya kunye nokulungiselela imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Ukuba le yimeko yakho, Sukulinda usuku lokugqibela njengoko uzokongeza uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwimeko yakho entsha.
Cwangcisa imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko, yenza ikhalenda apho wonke umntu enemisebenzi ayabelweyo. Kukwabalulekile ukucwangcisa ukutya kunye nokuthenga ukuze ugcine ukutya okunempilo ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elithile usenza izinto ezahlukeneyo iimenyu zeveki, ukuze ube nakho ukwenza lula uluhlu lokuthenga.
Khumbula ukuba umsebenzi wasekhaya unokulinda, oko Indlu yakho ayiyi kukukhumbula kwaye ayiyi kukulinda yonke imihla. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana wakho uya kufuna kwaye uza kufuna ukuba uchithe ixesha kunye naye, ukudlala, ukuthatha uhambo, epakini okanye ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye.
Kungekudala uza kuyisebenzisa le meko intsha kwaye uza kuziqhelanisa neendlela ezintsha, into ebalulekileyo kukuba uyenze ngaphandle koxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo oluncinci olunokwenzeka.