Ngaphezulu komama omnye oya kuyazi izibonelelo lullaby. Kwaye kwabo mama abangazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni na, ku Madreshoy, siyakuxelela. Fumana indlela yokuthuthuzela iintsana endlwini.
Izibonelelo ze-lullaby ziye zabuzwa, kuba kucingelwa ukuba yinto elula. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukusisindisa. Kukangaphi sizifumana sizulazula sikhangela indlela entsonkothileyo kwaye impendulo yayilula? Ngelullaby kwenzeka ntoni. Into elula, phantse elula, kodwa yintoni izisa izibonelelo ezininzi emntwaneni nakunina.
Yintoni lullaby
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale ngokuchaza izibonelelo zokuba sisilumko, makhe sichaze ukuba yintoni na. Oomama abaninzi, baninzi, babecinga ukuba ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokubamba usana ezandleni zabo nokumgona. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba ayisiyiyo kwaphela leyo. Unqabiseko Ingubo eyenzelwe umntwana ngokukhethekileyo. Kwaye uza kuthi ngengubo ... ingubo nje? Kanjalo.
I-lullaby yingubo efudumeleyo, edibeneyo. Yenziwe ngelaphu elithambileyo kunye nomphumo wokugubungela. Ngaphakathi apho, sibeka umntwana, ukuze alale, aphule okanye alula, ukuze ambambe ezandleni zakhe kwaye azole. Bahlala benemibala efudumeleyo kunye noyilo oluhle. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba iluncedo kwiintsana, ibalulekile kuthi.
Izibonelelo zeLullaby
Xa sisongela umntwana kwilulabhuli, zininzi izibonelelo. Kodwa izibonelelo zelullaby azibonakali kuba zikufudumeza. Kodwa kuba iphinda iphinde ikhusele kunye nokuzibandakanya eyayinako xa yayingaphakathi kunina. Ngokuziva bubushushu, usana luthuthwa luye kwimeko yoxolo olupheleleyo.
- Yiva ubushushu bokuwolwa okungapheliyo. Bafudumele kwaye banxibelelana nelaphu elithambileyo.
- Bayakhulula ukukhala, xa baneentlungu, okanye umkhuhlane. Okanye xa kuphuma amazinyo.
- Ukuba bayoyika, kuyabathoba, ngenxa yesenzo sayo sokuphumla.
- Iyamthintela ukuba avuke ngokukhawuleza ebusuku, kuba imhambisa ukuzola okuninzi.
- Uyakwazi ndilale ngokukhawuleza, kuba yamkela isikhundla eyayinaso, esibelekweni.
- Kuziva kuzolile kwaye kukhuselekile. Ngaloo mizuzu ungathatha ithuba lokutya, ukusukela ngoko uya kulala.
Uyibeka njani i-lullaby
Emva kokwazi izibonelelo zokuthamba, masikubonise Madreshoy, uyibeka njani ngokugqibeleleyo.
- Sibeka umntwana embindini we lullaby. Ngentamo, ehambelana nomphezulu. Ukushiya intloko ngaphandle.
- Sigoqa amazantsi, ukugubungela iinyawo zakho.
- Sitsala kwelinye icala kwaye sisonge ngokuqinileyo (ngaphandle kokuqinisa), icala elinye lomzimba, xa uwela, kwelinye icala. Sigcina isihlanti, phantsi kwengalo.
- Senza okufanayo, kwelinye icala. Siza kuba nohlobo lwe-burrito. Usana luya kusongelwa kakuhle kwaye luya kuqala ukuzola.
Ngoku ukuba uyazazi izibonelelo zokuba sisilumko, qiniseka ukuba ufumana enye thuthuzela umntwana yendlu. Uya kubona ukuzola okukuzuzayo, ukuzola. Kwaye oko kuyakukunika ukukhululeka okubalulekileyo, kuba uya kubona ukuba umntwana wakho uzolile kwaye wonwabile.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwabelana nathi ngezibonelelo zokuba sisilumko? Siqinisekile ukuba yenza ukuba umntwana wakho aphumle ngokungafaniyo nezinye. Kodwa musa ukuyeka izimvo ezingezantsi, amava akho ngayo, ukuba injani kwaye imenza kakuhle njani umntwana wakho ukuba aphumle.