Kubafazi abaninzi, ukufika kwabantwana kuthetha utshintsho olupheleleyo kubomi bobuqu kunye nobungcali. Ngexesha elithile, bonke oomama bayazibuza ukuba bafanele ukuqhubeka nokusebenza okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka bayeke umsebenzi wabo wobugcisa ukuze bazinikele ngokupheleleyo ekukhathaleleni abantwana. Kubalulekile ukuqala kwisiseko sokuba, nantoni na oyikhethayo, ayikwenzi ube mandundu okanye ube ngumama ongcono.
Ngayiphi na imeko, oomama ngokwabo bonke bangabasebenzi, iingcali kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo apho amava esiba sisidanga. Kodwa ukongeza kwimisebenzi yosapho, uninzi lukhona Oomama abathi kule mihla bathathe isigqibo sokujoyina ubomi bokusebenza emva kwekhefu lokuya kubeleka. Kwaye oku, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo anokuyenzela wena, kuthwala uthotho lwezibonelelo ezibalulekileyo kubantwana.
Sikwixesha apho Abasetyhini baya besanda ukubanga indawo yabo emhlabeni. Ngokwandayo, nangona kuhamba kancinci, ngabafazi ababambe izikhundla zoxanduva kumacandelo ahlukeneyo. Abasetyhini abathi, ukongeza ekubeni ziingcali ezinkulu, ngoomama, abathi ngaxa lithile bathathe isigqibo sokuba mhlawumbi ngalo mzuzu lithuba lakho.
Umzekelo omkhulu kubantwana
Unokucinga ukuba umsebenzi wakho uthatha ixesha elininzi ukuchitha nabantwana bakho kwaye oku kubangela ukuba uzive unetyala kakhulu. Kodwa kufuneka uqaphele owona mzekelo mhle wokuphucula, ukunyamezela kunye nobungcali oza kubanika abantwana bakho.
Amantombazana anomama osebenzayo kunokwenzeka ukuba ayiphinde loo pateni. Bangamantombazana akhula kunye nomzekelo wentsika yabo ebalaseleyo, amantombazana azakukhula eyiyo bazi ngokubaluleka kwemfundo yabo ukuba babe ngabasetyhini abanobuchule, nezikhundla zoxanduva. Oomama abasebenzayo ngumzekelo omhle ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kwaye lo ngumzabalazo wabo bonke abantu basetyhini namhlanje.
Umlo othe ngqo ngokuchasene nokungalingani
Ngokubanzi, kwizindlu apho umama asebenzayo, kukho ulwabiwo olusebenza ngakumbi lweembopheleleko ekhaya. Indima yokuba ngumama ayisenguye lowo weminyaka edlulileyo, apho oomama babengamakhosikazi asekhaya ababhaka amaqebengwana kwaye agcina ikhaya lingenabala kumyeni nakubantwana bakhe. Enkosi kwindima entsha yomama osebenzayo, abantwana bakhula besebenzisana kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye oku kubonisa umlo omkhulu wokulwa ukungalingani.
Imfundo ibalulekile ukuze amakhwenkwe namantombazana afunde ukuba akukho madoda okanye abafazi ekhaya, kodwa Amalungu osapho olunye ekufuneka basebenze kunye ukuze kuzuze wonke umntu. Kwaye le yinto ifezekiswa ngenxa yomzekelo wokuba nomama osebenzayo.
Umama osebenzayo uhambisa ukonwaba kwakhe ebantwaneni
Ukunika ubomi bobungcali akukho lula kwaye inokuba ngunobangela weengxaki zeemvakalelo kunina. Ke ngoko, abasetyhini abagqiba ekubeni basebenze emva kokuba ngoomama baya konwaba ngakumbi kwaye loo mvakalelo iya kugqithiselwa ebantwaneni babo. Abantwana bakho baya kukuthanda ngendlela efanayo, nangona uchitha ixesha elincinci kunye nabo okanye kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kude nekhaya.
Ukuba ngumama akukuthinteli ekubeni ngumfazi, ukuba namaphupha, iinjongo zomsebenzi kunye nezobuqu, kwaye konke oku akukwenzi ube ngumntu ombi ngakumbi kwaye ungabi ngumama ombi. Logama nje sisigqibo sakho, iya kuba sesona sigqibo sihle kwintlalo-ntle yabantwana bakho. Kwangokunjalo, ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuhlala ekhaya kwaye uzinikele emzimbeni nasemphefumlweni ekukhathaleleni abantwana bakho, uya kuba ngowona mama ubalaseleyo kubo.
Ewe awuyi kuba nakho ukunqanda ukuba ulungiselele kakuhle ixesha lakho ukuze ubanike ixesha elifanelekileyo kubantwana bakho. Impumelelo isekwe kwibhalansi kwaye ngenxa yoku kuyakufuneka ufunde ukucwangcisa nokwabela abanye. Kuba awuzokwazi ukukhathalela yonke into kwaye awunakho kwaye akufuneki ukongeza uxanduva olongezelelweyo emqolo wakho.