Imithetho yokuhlalisana kubalulekile kusapho, ukunceda ukulawula indlela abantwana abaziphatha ngayo ngokubhekisele kwixabiso losapho. Ngale ndlela, abantwana bafunda ukuziphatha ngokwemigaqo emiselweyo, kwaye okoko nje bengaguquguquki, babanika ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba.
Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba imigaqo yokuhlalisana inentsingiselo kunye nokunxibelelana, ukuba abantwana bayakwazi ukuqonda. Ngale ndlela, abancinci baya kufunda ukuhlala kunye kuluntu ngendlela echanekileyo kwaye isekwe kumaxabiso afundwe ekhaya. Nokuba ezi ntlobo zemigaqo ziyanceda ukuseka ubudlelwane obomeleleyo bosapho ngokusekwe kukuhloniphana.
Imithetho kunye neenkqubo zibonelela ngokhuseleko
Abantwana kufuneka babe Imigaqo emiselweyo ephawula umendo wakho, kuba abayazi nangoku ukuba yeyiphi imigaqo esisiseko yokuphila kunye. Ukuba nemithetho ecacileyo, elungiselelwe ukuqonda kwabo kunye nokukhula kwabo, kuya kubanceda balawule indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Ukwazi izinto abanokuzenza nabangenakuzenza kubanika uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokukhuseleka.
Nangona kumaxesha amaninzi abantwana bangayaphula le mithetho, kubalulekile ukuba ibekho. Ngaphandle koko, abazi ukuba isenzo ngasinye sinesiphumo, ke kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kubo ukuqonda into abangakhange bayenze kakuhle.
Baququzelela ukulungelelaniswa nokusingqongileyo
Ubudlelwane boluntu bunzima kumntu wonke, ngakumbi abantwana abafunda ukunxibelelana nehlabathi. Imithetho esekwe ekhaya kwaye ufunde ukuyithobela, ibanceda ekuziqhelaniseni nesiqhelo ngaphandle kwekhaya labo. Zombini kubudlelwane noontanga okanye nabanye abantu, njengakwimfundo yabo yokufunda, kufuneka bathobele uthotho lwemithetho.
Ukufunda ekhaya kuya kubanceda ukuqonda ngcono imeko yesiqhelo nakweyiphi na enye indawo. Ke abantwana baya kulilungela ngakumbi ikamva labo.
Bakhuthaza imikhwa yombulelo
Ngemithetho yokuhlalisana, abantwana bafunda uthotho lwezifundo ezisisiseko ekukhuleni kwabo, ezinje nge uvelwano okanye imikhwa yombulelo. Bafunda ukusebenzisana ekhaya, ukwenza imisebenzi ethile ukuba bandise ngokokukhula kwabo kwaye bazixabise izinto ezifumaneka ngomzamo. Kwaye zonke ezi zifundo bazifundayo kwimithetho yosapho, bazisebenzisa kamva kubomi babo ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Ezinye izibonelelo zokuseka imigaqo yokuhlalisana:
- Uncedo ku setha imida phakathi kwamalungu osapho
- Bayanceda ekusasazeni imisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye uxanduva nganye
- Ukubonelela ngendawo ezinzileyo
Imithetho ebalulekileyo yokuhlalisana kusapho
Njengoko ubona, imigaqo yokuhlalisana kubalulekile ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane bosapho. Kodwa kwakhona, ukunceda abancinci kulungelelwaniso lwabo ekuhlaleni. Imithetho yokuhlalisana kufuneka isekwe ngokweemfuno zosapho ngalunye, ixabiso lakho kunye nendlela yakho yokuphila. Kodwa ezi zi-limigaqo esisiseko Ofanele ukufundisa abantwana bakho ngako:
- Buza izinto nceda kwaye rhoqo Bulela
- Bulisa kwaye uhlala usithi ndlela-ntle
- Ungangxoli ukuqaphela ngaphezulu kwabanye
- Thetha ngentlonipho kwaye hlonipha ithuba labanye
- Musa ukwenza into embi kwabanye, nokuba kungengamazwi okanye kungathi kwenziwa izimbo zomntu ezihlasela
- Cela uxolo xa kukho into eyenziweyo engalunganga okanye umntu othile onzakeleyo, nokuba yenziwe ngabom
- Kufuneka ukuba mamela abanye xa bethetha, nokuba awukhathali nokuba bathini
- Kukho oko hlonipha amadoda amakhulu
- Xa bephethe abanye abantu, kunyanzelekile thobela kwabo bantu, nokuba ababazali
Ekugqibeleni, ukumisela imigangatho ekhaya kuya kunceda ukuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu ahlukeneyo. Kodwa ukuze zisebenze kakuhle, kufuneka zihlangatyezwe zombini ezi ndlela. Abantwana abayi kuyiqonda intsingiselo yemithetho yokuhlalisana xa abadala bengayihloniphi kwaye bengayithobeli. Ke kubalulekile ukuba xa kusetwa le migangatho, abantwana babandakanyeke kwaye banike uluvo lwabo.
Ke baya kuziva behlonitshwe njenge amalungu asisiseko osapho.
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