Uncumo yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebantwini, Olunye lweempawu ezenza ukuba umntu abe ngaphezulu okanye kancinci kwi-charismatic. Ngokuncuma ungabonisa zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo, uthando, uthando, uvelwano okanye inkxaso. Ukufumana uncumo lomntu, owaziwayo okanye ongaziwayo, kunokukunceda ukuba utshintshe imeko engalunganga.
Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu kunye nezinye ezininzi, kubalulekile ukuba kubekho uncumo kwiintsapho. Abantwana bayakwazi ukuziva kunye nokufumana ukungakhathali okudluliselwa ngumntu omdala, ngakumbi kubazali babo. Wonke umntu uneengxaki, iintsuku ezimbi xa yonke into ofuna ukuyenza kukulala ungaboni omnye umntu. Kodwa abantwana akufuneki baphile kwindawo enexesha elinzima nelibi, uncumo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yophuhliso lwabo.
Namhlanje kubhiyozelwa Usuku lweSmile leHlabathi, usuku olunikezelwe kuvuyo, ububele kunye nobuhlobo. Olu suku lwesikhumbuzo lwesenzo sendalo njengoncumo, lujolise ekwenzeni abantu kwihlabathi jikelele babone ukubaluleka kokuncuma, Isiphumo sonyango esisibangela ebantwini.
Abantwana kufuneka baphile kwindawo yolonwabo
Enye yeemvakalelo ezilungileyo kubomi bomzali wakutshanje kukuncuma kokuqala kosana lwakho. Kukho into ephilisayo ngoncumo lwenkwenkwana, ekwenza ulibale ukudinwa kunye neengxaki. Ukuhleka kwabantwana abadlalayo kwaye bonwabele ubuntwana, kuvusa ezo ntsuku zokuba msulwa apho zonke izibophelelo zakho yayikukudlala nokuzonwabisa.
Ootata kunye noomama banemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu ukubonelela ngendawo eyonwabileyo, apho uncumo, ukuhleka nokuhleka kugqugqisile. Kungenxa yokuba akukho nto ibaluleke ngakumbi emntwaneni kunokwabelana ngokonwaba nosapho.
Impilo yosapho lwakho inokuphucuka ngoncumo
Isenzo sokumomotheka singenalo, yinxalenye yezenzo ezingalindelanga zomntu. Bonke abantu banakho ukwenza lo msebenzi wokuqala, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yeemeko, kancinci kancinci uyaphela. Abantwana bancuma kancinci kancinci, abanalo nexesha lokwenza phakathi kweembopheleleko ezininzi noxanduva. Unokucinga ukuba isenzo esilula esinje asinakuba nokubaluleka kwezempilo, kodwa kukho izifundo zesayensi ezixhasa le ngxelo:
- Uncumo lunceda ukuphuhlisa uvelwano. Uvelwano yenye yezona mpawu zibalulekileyo ngokubhekisele kuphuhliso lwezakhono zentlalo.
- Ukuhleka kuyanceda yomeleza amajoni omzimba. Ukuhleka kwandisa imveliso yeeseli ze-T egazini kwaye ke yonyusa ioksijini.
- Ukuphucula ukusebenza kwenkqubo ye-lymphatic. Ukunceda ekupheliseni i-toxins kwaye ke kunciphise ukubakho kokubandezeleka komzimba kunye nezifo zentliziyo.
- Inceda ukhululeke. Ukuhleka kubangela ukuba ii-endorphins zikhutshwe, eziyihomoni eziveliswa ngumzimba ukuvelisa imvakalelo yempilo-ntle, ukuphumla nolonwabo.
Hleka yonke imihla, wosulele abantwana bakho uhleke nosapho
Nokuba awuziva uthanda oko, nokuba kunyanzelekile ukuba unyanzele uncumo kwaye uxhokonxe intsini engeyiyo, Ingqondo ayihlukanisi phakathi kokuhleka ngokunyanisekileyo kunye noko kungenjalo. Ingqondo yakho iya kuqhubeka ngokuzenzekelayo ikhuphe ezo khemikhali zivelisa imvakalelo yolonwabo. Ngale ndlela uyakuvelisa isiphumo esifanayo kubantwana bakho, ukhulule uxinzelelo kwaye udale ukonwaba kosapho kunye neenkumbulo.
Namhlanje usuku lokuncuma luyakhunjulwa, ungaphoswa lithuba lokuncuma nabantu oza kubawela esitratweni, kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Mhlawumbi uncumo lwakho lunyango olufunwa ngumphefumlo isuka kumntu oyifumeneyo, kuba akukho nto ingakumbi unokubulela ngayo ngaphandle kokufumana uncumo ngenxa yalo. Thatha ithuba loku kunye nayo yonke imihla ukubhiyozela ubuhlobo kunye nokuhlekisa okuhle.
Nika abantwana bakho uncumo kwaye Yonwabela ubomi kusapho, nabahlobo kunye nabantu abakungqongileyo.