La Umbutho waseAragonese wooMama boMhla Kuthunyelwe kutshanje kwiphepha lakhe likaFacebook, ungeniso endifuna ukwabelana nawe ngalo, Phambi kokuba ndiqale ukukuxelela ngakumbi ngooMama boMhla; sisixhobo esimangalisayo esenza ukuba kube lula ngoxolelwaniso lomsebenzi kunye nosapho, ngelixa libonelela ngokusondeleyo, okumnandi kunye nemeko yokufundisa abantwana kwi-0 ukuya kwi-3 yeminyaka ubudala.
“Oomama boSuku, siliqela labasetyhini, iingcali kwaye uninzi lwabo ikwangomama, benenjongo enye nombono malunga nokuba ngumzali…; sikulungele kwaye / okanye abantu abanamava abasebenza kumakhaya abo ... "
Kodwa yintoni esiyaziyo malunga nale modeli yokhathalelo lwabantwana abasaqalayo ukuba kwamanye amazwe ngumsebenzi olawulwayo?
Ngumntu oqeqeshiweyo owenza indlela yakhe eSpain, ukuphendula kwiimfuno zeentsapho ezinabantwana abancinci kakhulu abangafuni ukuba abantwana babo baye esikolweni kwangoko. Ke ngoko, ibekwe njengenye indlela efanelekileyo kwizikolo zabantwana abancinci (kwimfundo yabantwana ukusuka kwi-0 ukuya kwi-3 yeminyaka ubudala) okanye indawo yokugcina abantwana; Kwaye, asithethi ngabantwana abagcina abantwana okanye abantwana. Kwaye ndiyathetha le yokugqibela, kuba oomama bemini abangahambi nje kwaye babakhathalele abantwana abaphantsi kwabo. Bakwaphuhlisa inkqubo yemfundo ehlengahlengiswe kwindaleko yomntwana ngamnye..
Ukongeza ekubeni neprofayile efanelekileyo yokwenza imisebenzi yabo, benza umsebenzi wabo ngokusemthethweni njengabasebenzi abaziqeshileyo, okanye abaqeshwa bequmrhu (umbutho) elibamele.
Oomama boMhla: ukukhula okuhamba kunye.
Njengoko benditshilo, aba bafazi (kukho namadoda, ndibakhankanya apha ngezantsi) bafanelekile. Nangona kungekho sikhokelo sikarhulumente esilawula iimfuno zokwenza lo msebenzi, Oomama boomama badityaniswe baba yimibutho apho kwenziwa khona izindululo zoqeqesho kunye neemeko zorhwebo ezisekwayo.
Bahlala benesidanga kwizengqondo, ukufundisa okanye ukufundisa; kwaye ikwaqaqambisa ukwamkelwa kweereferensi zemfundo esekwe kwiimfundiso zokuhlonipha abantwana (ezinje nge Montessori, IPestalozzi, iWarldof okanye iPickler). Oko kukuthi, ukongeza kuqeqesho olusemthethweni kwizifundo ezibafaneleyo ukuba basebenze, baqhuba izifundo kwezi zifundo ndithetha ngazo.
Sele ndivakalisile ukuba akukho mmiselo umanyeneyo welizwe, kwaye nangona kuyinyani oku, kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele imeko yeNavarra kunye neLizwe laseBasque, elinolawulo lwengingqi olulawula ezi nkonzo kangangeminyaka eli-10. Umzekelo, elona nani liphezulu labantwana kutitshala ngamnye (4), isidanga kunye nemigaqo yokhuseleko ekhaya iyaqokelelwa.
Ukukhathalela, ukondla, ukulala, ukuthuthuzela, ukuququzelela ukufunyanwa kunye nokudlala, ukutshintsha nokuhlamba abantwana, ukugcina unxibelelwano oluvulelekileyo nabazali
Le yeminye yemisebenzi yoomama abasemini, ejolise:
- Qinisekisa impilo-ntle yeentsana.
- Ukubeka izithuba ngokweemfuno zamantombazana namakhwenkwe.
- Unonophelo olubanzi kunye nokuhambelana ngokwesingqi somntwana ngamnye.
- Ukuququzelela uphuhliso lwezakhono kunye nezakhono.
Umoya wosapho kunye nentlonipho yabantwana abangekayifuni intlalontle.
Kuba ngubani othe phakathi kwe-0 kunye ne-3 iminyaka intombazana okanye inkwenkwe ifuna ukuba oontanga bayo bakhule okanye bafunde? Kwaye yiyo kanye into eyenziweyo ukusuka kumjikelo wokuqala weMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo (nokuba siyathetha ngomnatha wonxibelelwano okanye izixhobo zabucala): ukufundisa ngokusekwe kwiinkqubo ezisemthethweni nokwazisa abantwana kwiindawo ezixineneyo oko akunakulunga kuphuhliso lwakho.
Kodwa esi sithuba asifanelanga sibuze izikolo zezingane okanye indawo yokugcina abantwana, njengoko ndiyazi ukuba kukho iingcali ezifundisa ngokuhlonipha iimfuno ezisisiseko, kunye neemodeli zokufunda ezingakhokelwanga. Yintoni eyenzelwe ukubonisa oomama emini, njengenye indlela eyamkelweyo neyamkelweyo kwiifrentshi, e-UK okanye kwiintsapho zaseJamani, phakathi kwezinye izingqinisiso.
Umama wosuku uba ngumntu oqhotyoshelweyo kwaye kutheni kungenjalo? uya kuba ngumama, nangona ezona ziphambili ziya kuhlala zingumama notata
Funda kwaye uphuhle kwimeko yokwamkela neKHUSELEKILEYO
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuba sikhankanye ukuba oomama basebenza ngamakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ama-4 ubuninzi ukusuka kwi-0 ukuya kwi-3 yeminyaka ubudala; kunye neeyure eziyi-8 ngosuku uninzi
Iingcebiso ezilandelayo zilandela imigaqo kuloo mazwe apho elo nani lobungcali linakanwa kwaye lamkelwe ngokupheleleyo. Indlu yomsebenzi Kufuneka ibe yindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye ixhotyiswe ngeendawo ezahlukeneyo ezahlukileyo: ukuphumla, indlu yangasese / ucoceko kunye nemidlalo / ukutya. Kukho ubungakanani obaneleyo ngendawo yokuphumla kunye nolungiselelwe imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo.
Ezi zezinye zeempawu inkonzo enazo:
- Ingozi kunye ne-inshurensi yemfanelo yoluntu.
- Ukulungiswa kwendawo yokuhlambela
- Ukukhanya okuhle, ngakumbi kwendalo; umoya kunye neenkqubo zokufudumeza.
- Umbutho wezithuba kunye nefenitshala, eyilelwe iintsana (izixhobo, ubukhulu).
- Ukufakwa kwezinto ukuthintela iingozi, ezinje ngabakhuseli, ii-anti-skid okanye iibhlokhi.
- Isicimi-mlilo, isixhobo sokuqala kunye nesicwangciso sokuthintela umngcipheko emsebenzini.
- Indawo efanelekileyo yokulungiselela ukutya okwenziwe ekhaya
Ezinye izindululo zokubonelela ngesiqinisekiso kubasebenzisi kukuba ikhaya linesiqinisekiso sokuhlala kwaye amalungu osapho ahlala nomama ngexesha lokuvuma kwenkonzo. Ukufunda kunokwenzeka kwakhona ngaphandle kwendlu (ipaki, umzekelo) ukuba abazali beentsana bayayigunyazisa.
Izinto eziluncedo zooMama boMhla
Ezi ngcali zibona indlela umsebenzi wabo obuzwa ngayo kunye nokufumana ukugxekwa kwamanye amacandelo. Okumangalisayo kukuba, ootitshala baphakathi kwabo babuza umsebenzi woomama bemini, njengenxalenye yemfuno yokuba uLawulo lubonelele ngeendawo ezoneleyo zoluntu kweli qela leminyaka. Ngokuchaseneyo Ndiyakholelwa ekubeni kufanele ukuba kubekho iindidi ezahlukeneyo onokukhetha kuzo, kwaye umntu ofundisayo osebenza ngasese akaniki ziqinisekiso zingaphantsi kwesikolo sikamasipala sabantwana abancinci.
Ukongeza, umyinge usezantsi kule nkonzo sithetha ngayo, kwaye oko kuqinisekisa ingqalelo yomntu
Into yokuba abantwana bafundiswe kwaye bakhathalelwe ekhaya ikwayinto yokudibanisa; Njengokusetyenziswa kwe uqhelaniso lokufundisa oluhlonipha ngokwenene iimfuno zomntwana ngamnye.
Ndithatha eli thuba ukwabelana nabo esi sicelo sikawonke-wonke sokuba iSebe lezeMpilo, iiNkonzo zeNtlalo noLingano lilawule kwaye lixhase oomama nootata emini. Kuba ewe, kukwakho nootata bemini, okoko ukuba ngumzali ayisiyonto yabafazi kuphela.
Ngokuzalwa kwabantwana, ngakumbi ngakumbi esiphelweni se- Ixesha lekhefu lokubeleka, iintsapho zenza izigqibo ezahlukeneyo ebavumela ukuba baxolelane, kodwa kwangaxeshanye iintsana kufuneka zinakekelwe. Nazi oyekayo kwaye uzinikele ekukhuliseni, othatha ikhefu lokungabikho emsebenzini, ofuna indawo yokugcina abantwana kwiinyanga (nangaphambi kokuzalwa) ehlangabezana neemfuno zabo ...; Kwaye kukwakho nethuba lokuqesha umama wosuku. Imibutho eyahlukeneyo eSpain ineebhloko kunye namaphepha e-Facebook (ukusuka apho kulula ukuyifumana khona).
Ukusuka apha intlonipho yam kunye noxabiso koomama bemini: Ndiyazi ukuba wenza umsebenzi omhle kakhulu, nangona ungabonakali kakhulu. Ndiyazi ukuba ukwenza ubuchwephesha xa kungekho mgaqo kunzimaKungenxa yoko le nto ndincoma iinzame zakho kunye nezakhono zombutho. Ilizwe lethu lisezantsi kuxolelwaniso, kwaye ekuqwalaseleni abantwana akunakutshiwo ukuba singumzekelo kuye nabani na; Oku-ngokucacileyo-kunempembelelo kwimbono engathandekiyo abanye abantu abanayo ngooMama boMhla, kuba into entsha kuthi, iyasoyikisa.
Imifanekiso-Zonke zinikezwe ngesisa ngu Oomama abasemini boMbutho weAragonese. Kuya kufuneka ndibulele intsebenziswano yakho ukuze le post inokwenzeka.