Xa utata esebenza ekufundiseni amalungelo oluntu emntwaneni, angayenza ngamabali, amabali kunye nokuchaza izinto azenzayo mihla le.
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafundise abantwana babo besebancinci kwiimpawu ezenza iimpawu zomntu ohloniphekileyo ovelayo nonceda abanye. Makhe sibone ukuba umxholo wamalungelo oluntu unokusetyenziswa njani ekhaya nomntwana.
Amalungelo abantu
Eyona nto ilula kwaye isebenzayo kubazali xa bezama ukucacisa umxholo wamalungelo oluntu ebantwaneni kungenxa yemisebenzi, amabali kunye nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Ngokwesiqhelo amabali ayenziweyo kwaye avezwa Dlula kunye nomntwana kubomi bokwenyani kwaye uphele ngomyalezo ngohlobo lwesindululo. Ukusebenza kunye nale migaqo mincinci ekhaya kufezekiswa ngeendlela ezilungileyo, ngomzekelo.
Umntwana kufuneka awazi amalungelo akhe nawabanye abantu kwaye abe nenkululeko eyoneleyo yokuba kunye nokwenza. Fundisa umntwana ngentlonipho, ukunyamezela, ukulingana, isisa… Iya kukuvumela ukuba uqonde amalungelo abanye ngokunjalo. Umntwana uya kuyazi ukuba kungcono ukuphatha abanye ngendlela athanda ukuphathwa ngayo. Eminye imiba ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo xa kusetyenzwa kumalungelo oluntu ekhaya nomntwana:
- Utata nomama bayafana: Ekhaya, umsebenzi wasekhaya kunye nokhathalelo lomntwana kwenziwa ngabo bobabini. Kucacisiwe emntwaneni ukuba amadoda nabafazi bayalingana xa bejongana nale misebenzi. Umntwana kwimihla yakhe uya kuba nakho ukwenza ngale ndlela kwaye asebenze ukuhlonipha abahlobo bakhe kunye nabo afunda nabo.
- Ilungelo lokuthetha ngeemvakalelo, vula, unike uluvo, yahluke, phikisa: Ilungelo lomntwana lokuba abe nguye kwaye ngaphandle kokulimaza nabani na ukuba enze kwaye athethe into ayivayo.
- La Libertad kwaye ilungelo lomnye alithethi ukulimaza okanye ukuthintela ilungelo kunye nenkululeko yomnye: Kuya kuba lula emntwaneni ukuba aqonde kwaye angabinangxaki ukuba kuchaziwe kuye ukuba, njengaye, abanye abantu banokungavumi ukwenza into. Kungenxa yoko le nto engumntu ombi, yile yokuba akafuni okanye angaziva engonwabanga.
Khusela amalungelo ngendlela engqinelanayo
Ukufundisa umntwana ngentlonipho, unyamezelo, ukulingana, ukupha ... kuya kumvumela ukuba aqonde amalungelo abanye.
Ukuze utata akwazi ukuthetha naye malunga namalungelo oluntu, umntwana kufuneka azive enomdla wokwazi nokuba nenxaxheba. Ubudala kufuneka buthathelwe ingqalelo kwaye anganyanzeli ukuba ucinge kwaye utolike izihloko ezikude nolwazi lwakho nomdla. Xa umntwana esenza ngokwendlela aqonda ngayo kwaye esebenzisa iimfundiso zakhe ezintsha, kufuneka aqhwatyelwe izandla ngempendulo yakhe entle.
Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba unamalungelo kwaye kufuneka awalwele ngendlela echanekileyo nenyamezelayo. Akufanele usebenzise ifayile ye Ubundlongondlongo, kodwa ngokuzithemba. Oko kukuthi, nxibelelana ngokuqinisekisa uluvo lwakho, ucebisa, kodwa ungalimazi mntu. Olu hlobo lobudlelwane lusekwe kukuzithemba kunye nokhuseleko lwamalungelo. Ngale nto, umntwana ngokwakhe, uyazihlonipha iinkolelo zakhe. Ungayichaza indlela oziva ngayo, nokuba intle okanye intle, kodwa ngokunyaniseka nangaphandle kobundlongondlongo. Kuyathethwa ngenyaniso, ngaphandle koloyiko lokuba omnye uza kuthini kwaye ngaloo ndlela umntu uya konwaba.