Usana luqala ukuthatha amanyathelo alo okuqala ukusukela kunyaka wokuqala wobomi. Ngaphambi koku uyokwazi ukuhlala nokugaqa, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka ekuzithembeni kwakho nakwibhalansi. Nangona ezi datha zibonisa kuphela kuba kukho abantwana abaqala ngaphambi konyaka kwaye omnye ulibazisekile kude kube li-16 okanye kwiinyanga ezili-17. Kungenxa yoko le nto kukho abazali abafuna ukugqibezela iintshukumo zabo kwaye fundisa umntwana wakho ukuhamba.
Xa uziva ukuba ngunyana wakho uyakwazi ukuma nkqo, Emva koko unokuqiniseka ukuba uqala ukumfundisa ukuhamba okanye ukumnceda anike loo nto. Uyakuyiqaphela kuba Ndifuna ukubonisa ukuma nkqo kwaye kuthatha ixesha elide nangaphezulu ukuma, iya kuthi ibambe kuzo zonke iindawo nakwifenitshala eyirhangqileyo kwaye yolule izandla zayo ukuze uyincede ngamanyathelo ayo amancinci.
Ndingamfundisa njani umntwana wam ukuhamba?
Kule nqanaba, xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba kunokuba yinto enomdla kakhulu. Kubazali abaninzi kunokuba nzima kuba kukho abantwana abangayeki ukufuna ukuzama kwaye bacele uncedo rhoqo. Nangona ukhumbula, mntwana ngamnye unesingqisho sakhe Kwaye xa uyibona ilungile, akufuneki uyinyanzele ukuba iqale ngokukhawuleza.
Bomeleza ukuzithemba kwabo ngokwenza umthambo olula
Kuya kufuneka womeleze ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokhuseleko, Njengokuba uninzi lwabantwana lunokukhathazeka kwimizamo yabo encinci kwaye babone ukuba bayawa. Unganceda ukolula izandla zakho ukuya ngakuwe, uyakuyenza ngesandla esinye kuphela kwaye okokugqibela ukuba uyayidlula uya kuzama ukuhamba ngakuwe ngaphandle kwezandla umgama omfutshane.
Unako nokumenza aphakame kwaye bamba izandla zombini. Mncede ukuba athabathe amanyathelo akhe amancinci ngamanyathelo amancinci kwaye enze ujingi omncinci ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye ukuze aqale ukubeka umlenze wakhe phambili, azame ukuthatha elo nyathelo.
Olunye umthambo oluluncedo kakhulu ngu nceda usana luphakame, kusetyenziswa isitulo esincinci okanye okufanayo. Beka usana lwakho kumgama oyi-1 okanye ye-2 yeemitha, yiya emva kwesitulo ugobe okanye ubeke eyona nto yokudlala ayithandayo kwaye umhoye. Umntwana kufuneka akhase esihlalweni kwaye kanye xa efika izakuzama ukuphakama.
Sebenzisa izinto ukuze angqiyame
Ungasebenzisa izinto zemihla ngemihla ukuze usana luqale ukuzixhasa kwaye lurhuqe. Ibhokisi yekhadibhodi, ibhola enkulu yokudlala, okanye ibhasikithi yokuhlamba. Ungade ubeke into yokudlala ngaphakathi ukuze ayiphathe ngelixa eshukuma.
Los ukukhwela okanye abahambahambayo bebesoloko kuyeyona ndlela ilungileyo ukuze baqale ukuhamba. Ukongeza, bagqibelele kakhulu kwaye banenani elingenasiphelo lemisebenzi abanokuyisebenzisa xa bedlala, kubandakanya nokutsala into xa uhleli phantsi nangokomelela kwemilenze yabo. Ezi zokudlala Bayakuvumela ukuba ume kwaye uthathe amanyathelo akho okuqala.
Ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda
Ngaba sisixa linda kakhulu xa umntwana eyedwa eqala ukuthatha amanyathelo akhe okuqala. Lumka ingabethwa nayiphina into ebukhali, okanye ikhubeke phantsi ngento engalindelekanga, enjengeekhaphethi ezinokuphakanyiswa okanye zishwabane.
Abantwana bafunda ngcono ekhaya engenazihlangu ukuze babe nemvakalelo yemvelo ngakumbi. Bangaphinda bayenze engceni okanye bahambe esantini. Xa umntwana ekhubeka okanye esiwa hlala uzolile kwaye ungalingisi kuba ungaphinda woyike. Kuya kufuneka udlale phantsi ukuwa, uncume kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba azame kwakhona.
Ukuba umntwana unonyaka onesiqingatha kwaye khange aqalise ukuhamba okanye unamathandabuzo, unako buza ugqirha wabantwana malunga nenkxalabo yakho. Kukho abantwana abazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye banokuba nenqanaba elincinci lokufunda, kodwa abanye banokuba neengxaki zombono kwaye oko kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukulingana kwabo. Ungaphinda ugcwalise ulwazi lwakho ukusuka 'indlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuhamba'okanye'indlela yokumfundisa ukukhasa ' kwezi linki zilandelayo.