Ukwazi ukuba yintoni abazala bokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukwakha ubudlelwane phakathi kosaphoNgoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuchitha ixesha lokuchaza ubudlelwane bentsapho kumalungu amancinci endlu. Ngale ndlela, abantwana bafumana iingenelo ezahlukeneyo, eyokuqala ibe kukuziva bengowabanye. Ukuziva uyinxalenye yoluntu olufanayo, lwesangqa esikhethekileyo esabelana ngento ekhethekileyo njengegazi.
Kwelinye icala, umanyano lwenyama, oluviwa ngokwemvelo ngabantu abayinxalenye yentsapho enye. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ithuba lokudibana kunye nokudala ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo kunye nobudlelwane obuhlukeneyo. Chazela abantwana bakho ukuba ngoobani abazala bokuqala, kunye nalo lonke ulwalamano lwentsapho, luya kubenza bazi baze bakhulise iimvakalelo ezikhethekileyo.
Abazala bokuqala, ngoobani?
Mhlawumbi eyona ndlela ilula yokuchazela abantwana ukuba yintoni abazala bokuqala ukuqala ekuqaleni, ukudala umthi wosapho apho ukuphuhlisa amalungu ahlukeneyo. Ngoko, ukuqala koomakhulu oomama nootata, ubudlelwane obahlukeneyo bunokuchazwa. Ukususela kolu lwalamano lokuqala, abanye abantu abenza iqela bayazalwa. familia, ngoko ootatomkhulu zizinto eziphambili, ukusuka apho yonke into iqala khona.
Abantwana bazalwa ngoomakhulu nootatomkhulu, abazalwana omnye komnye kwaye kubo, abantwana babo bexesha elizayo abaza kuzalwa kubudlelwane abanabo ebudaleni babo. Kolu manyano kuya kuzalwa abo baza kuba ngabazukulwana bootatomkhulu kunye nabatshana babanye abantwana babo, abantakwabo-bazali. Isishwankathelo, abantwana bomzalwana ngamnye uba ngumzala wokuqala yabanye abantwana babanye abantakwabo.
Ukwenza kube lula ukuqonda, akukho nto ifana nokwenza iskimu esinamagama ukuze umntwana asiqonde ngcono. Ngokomzekelo, utatomkhulu uMaría noJosé babenabantwana ababini, uMario noJosefa. UMario watshata noCristina waza waba nabantwana ababini, uAna noFelipe. Udadewabo uJoseph watshata no-Alfonso kwaye waba nentombi, uSusana. Ngoko ke, uAna noFilipu abangabazalwana. Ngabazala bakaSusana bokuqala.
Abazali babazala babaluleke kakhulu, kuba bangoomalume kwaye kwiintsapho ezininzi ezi zibalo ziba ngabazali besibini. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, abantwana bomalume nabo baya kubumba iintsapho zabo kwaye babe nabantwana, abaya kuba ngabazala besibini. Ubunzima obuncinci kumntwana omncinci, Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukubhenela kwinto ebonakalayo ngakumbi njengomthi wosapho..
Yenza umthi wosapho njengomsebenzi kunye nabantwana
Kumntwana, ingcaciso esisiseko enjalo inokuba yingxaki. Ngoko kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukusebenzisa izixhobo ezibonakalayo ezenza lula kwaye zilula yonke into. Cwangcisa umsebenzi wempelaveki kwaye ujike inkcazo yobudlelwane ibe ngumsebenzi wobugcisa bentsapho. Kwaye ke, ukongeza ekufundiseni abantwana ukuba ngoobani izalamane zabo kunye nobudlelwane bokwabelana nabo, unokuba nexesha elimnandi ukwenza imisebenzi yezandla.
Fumana ikhadibhodi enkulu kunye neziphawuli ezinemibala. Kwakhona, ukuba unako, iifoto zawo onke amalungu entsapho ukwenza ingcaciso ibe lula. Ngelixa uchaza ubudlelwane, unokwenza imidwebo kwintsapho, yongeza amagama entsapho kwaye ukuba kukho ixesha, xela ngakumbi kancinane malunga nenye yazo. Oku kubalulekile, ekubeni abantwana basenokungazi nto ngezalamane zabo.
Ukuba unokuxela okuncinane malunga nenye, njengendawo ezazalelwa kuyo, ukuba ivela kwesinye isixeko nesizathu sokuba ifuduke. Ukongeza kokuthatha ithuba lokuchaza ukuba kuthini na ukufuduka. Lonke olo lwazi luvelayo luba sisifundo esihle kubantwana. Lonwabele elo xesha lentsapho uze uncede abantwana bakho baqonde indlela intsapho esekwa ngayo nokuba ngoobani amalungu abo. Ngoko, uya kuba nethuba lokwazi ngakumbi aba bantu kwaye umdla wakho uya kukhula ukwazi ngakumbi ngabo.