Baninzi ootata noomama abazibuza, nini ixesha elifanelekileyo lokucheba iinwele zakho umntwana wakho okokuqala. Ngokwenyani, lo mbuzo unempendulo elula kakhulu, kwaye eso sesinye sezigqibo ezixhomekeke kuphela kwaye ngokukodwa kubazali ngokwabo. Akukho mthetho kule meko, ke akufuneki ungazihoyi iintsomi okanye amasiko aswele ubungqongqo kwezenzululwazi.
Ityala ngalinye lahluke ngokupheleleyo kwaye usana ngalunye luzalwa luhlobo olwahlukileyo lweenwele, lolunye lweempawu ezizuzwe njengelifa kubazali. Kodwa kukho inkolelo edumileyo yokuba kulungile ukunciphisa iinwele zeentsana ezincinci ukuze zikhule zomelele. Le datha ayichanekanga kwaphela, lowo iinwele zakhe zingakhuli ngakumbi ngokuzicheba.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ayifani nokuthetha ngokusika iziphelo kancinane ngentuthuzelo yosana, kunokucheba ngokupheleleyo intloko yayo ethambileyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto izinto ezithile kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo xa usenza isigqibo sokuba uyamtyala na iinwele usana lwakho, okanye ukuba ngokuchaseneyo, kungcono ukuba ulinde ithutyana.
Akukho mithetho malunga neenwele zeentsana
Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho xesha lilungileyo lokuyenza, ngaphaya kwalowo ukhethwe ngabazali ngokwabo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukuba akusekuqaleni kakhulu. Njengoko kusenzeka ngezikhonkwane okanye ulusu lweentsana, iinwele zabo zibuthathaka kakhulu kwaye kwiiveki zabo zokuqala baya kuphulukana nazo. Ngokukodwa emva kweentloko zabo, kuba bachitha iiyure ezininzi ngemini beyame kuloo ndawo.
Lo nto Akufanele ungxamile okanye woyike kuba uyabona ukuba ineendawo ezininzi ezinabemi yintoni abanye. Njengoko umntwana ekhula kwaye eyixhasa intloko, iinwele zakhe ziya kubonakala zomelele. Ke akukaze kube buhlungu ukulinda iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokucinga ngombono wokusika iinwele zomntwana wakho.
Izinwele zinceda ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba wakho
Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba iinwele zinomsebenzi obaluleke ngakumbi kunobuhle nje. Sisisixhobo esibalulekileyo somzimba, esinceda umzimba ukuba ugcine ubushushu bomzimba. Izinwele zithintela intloko ethambileyo yomntwana wakho ekubeni angakhuseleki kubanda bendalo, ke ukusikwa kusekwangoko kakhulu kungakuveza engqeleni.
Eminye imiba ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo yenye yeengozi ezinokubangelwa kukucheba usana. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukubamba intloko yomntwana ngokuqinileyo, ke ukuba ulusana kakhulu oku kunokuba yinto ecaphukisayo. Kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo izixhobo ezifunekayo kulo msebenzi, unokoyika ingxolo yomatshini okanye imvakalelo yesikere ecaleni kwentloko yakho.
Iingcebiso ngokusika iinwele zomntwana
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba lixesha lokucheba iinwele zomntwana wakho, kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba uyafuna na ukuba wenze umsebenzi wobuchwephesha okanye ukuba ukhetha ukuzenzela ngokwakho. Oku kuyakuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi, kubandakanya ukuba awuziva ukhuselekile okanye incinci ifuna ukusikwa ngakumbi.
Kodwa ukuba lilungiselelo leengcebiso nje, Ungazenzela ngesikere ngengcebiso erhangqiweyo kwaye ngononophelo olukhulu. Kungangcono umntwana wakho kuba uya kuba kwimeko ekhululekile njengekhaya lakhe, kwaye uya kuluthintela unxunguphalo lwendawo engaqhelekanga enokumbangela uxinzelelo olukhulu.
Qinisekisa ukuba umncinci uzolile kwaye umntu uyakunceda kwinkqubo, uyakufuna umntu oza kugcina intloko eqinile. Kukwabalulekile ukukhulisa ukhuseleko kunye ungashiyi nantoni na enokwenzakalisa umntwana kufutshane nosana. Beka itawuli okanye isikipa somqhaphu emagxeni akhe kwaye ngale ndlela uya kuthintela ukuba iinwele ziwele entanyeni yakhe, into ecaphukisayo. Gqiba iseshoni yokucheba iinwele nge igumbi lokuhlambela kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuba neseshoni yobuhle ekhululekile.