Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wonwabile yeyona nto ixabisekileyo utata okanye umama anokuziva ngayo, kuba ukonwaba kwabantwana (okanye kufanele ukuba) kunakho konke. Abantwana kufuneka bakhulele kwindawo ezinzileyo, egcwele imidlalo, ukufunda, ukonwaba nothando, kuba enyanisweni, ukuze abantwana bonwabe, zimbalwa kakhulu izinto ezifunekayo.
Izinto ezibonakalayo ziyanceda ukuziva zincinci ukoneliseka, kodwa eyona nto inika ulonwabo kukuziva uyinxalenye yosapho. Ukuziva uthando nothando lwabantu ababangqongileyo, beziva bebalulekile kubantu abenza isangqa sabo sokuthembana, yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emntwaneni ukuba onwabe. Ukuba uyathandabuza malunga neemvakalelo zomntwana wakho, ezi zitshixo ziya kukunceda uzisombulule.
Ungazi njani ukuba umntwana wakho wonwabile?
Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho wonwabile kufuneka umqwalasele, jonga indlela aziphethe ngayo, inkangeleko yobuso bakhe xa engazi ukuba uyabonwa, udlala njani kwaye wenza njani nabanye abantu abamngqongileyo. Ezi zitshixo ziya kukunceda ufumanise ukuba abantwana bakho bonwabile.
Musa ukuma ngxi
Umntwana unako ukonwabela nantoni na, okuncinci kukufumanisa kwabancinci. Ke, bachitha usuku behamba, ukuze bangaphoswa nayintoni na. Umntwana ozolile kakhulu, ongaziva efuna ukwazi okanye angafuna ukufumana izinto, unokuba enengxaki yokunqongophala. Ukuhamba, ukubaleka, ukudlala, ukutsiba ziimo eziqhelekileyo zomntwana owonwabileyo.
Thetha ngokukhawuleza okukhulu
Iyakucaphukisa, ikwenze ube novalo kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngoba kuye kufike ixesha ebomini lokuba ukukhawulezisa okuninzi kuphele kukudina. Kodwa xa umntwana ethetha nawe ngokukhawuleza, luphawu lokuba bafuna ukwabelana nawe ngezinto ezininzi, yonke into eyenzekayo kubo. Ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza luphawu lokonwaba, Yonwabele uchulumanco lomncinci wakho.
Ufuna ukudlala nawe ngalo lonke ixesha
Ukudlala komntu ngamnye kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabantwana, kodwa eyona nto ibenza bonwabe kukuba nako ukudlala nabantu ababathanda kakhulu, abazali babo. Ukuba unyana wakho ufuna ukuba nawe, dlala ngawe, wangana, uphuze uze umkhaphe Ngamaxesha akhe okonwaba, ungumntwana owonwabileyo.
Unyana wakho naye uyavuya xa enomsindo
Umsindo kunye nomsindo ziqhelekile ebuntwaneni, yindlela yendalo yokufumana umda kwaye ufunde ukulawula zonke ezo mvakalelo zingalunganga. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyacaphuka ngawe, ekhala okanye ekhala ngamanye amaxesha, ukwabonisa ukuba wonwabile. Kuba indlela yokunxibelelana sisixhobo sakho sokukhulula iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Nje ukuba uyenze kwaye uve ukuwola kukamama okanye kukatata, uyakuva ulonwabo olunjalo kangangokuba iinyembezi ziya kudibanisa nokuhleka.
Zive ukhululekile ekhaya
Xa umntwana udlala ekhaya, uyahleka kwaye uyakonwabela ukuchitha ixesha nabazali bakhe, ubonakala engumntwana owonwabileyo. Ukuba abazali bakhe bonwabile kwaye bonwabile, umntwana uya kuziva ekhululekile ukuba kunye nosapho. Abantwana ekufuneka besesitalatweni ngalo lonke ixesha, ukunxibelelana nabanye abantwana, banokubonisa ukusilela okuthile ekhaya.
Dlala ngokukhululekileyo kwaye wonwabe wedwa
bazi yiba wedwa kunye nawe ikwayinxalenye yolonwabo, kwasebuntwaneni bokuqala. Umntwana ozimeleyo, okwaziyo ukudlala yedwa, ukongeza ekudlaleni nabanye abantu, uphuhlisa onke amandla akho ngamnye. Olu luphawu lokuba umntwana wakho wonwabile, kuba nangona ngamanye amaxesha engafuni ukwahlukana nawe, uyakwazi ukuchitha ixesha eyedwa ecela umngeni kuye.
Ukujonga abantwana yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokufumana iimvakalelo zabo kubo, iimvakalelo zabo, ukuba banjani okanye ukukhula kwengqondo yabo kuhamba njani. Kuba abantwana, ngaphandle kokuyazi, bayakwazi ukubonisa ulwazi oluninzi ngamehlo abo.