Ingane yami ayifuni ukulala embhedeni wayo, ngenzenjani?

Kukhona abantwana abakwenqabayo ukubanda kwesibhedlela futhi abafuni ukulala kuso.

Abanye abazali bakhathazeka ngokuthi izingane zabo ngeke zifune ukulala embhedeni wazo. Yize kungathí sina, kunezenzo ezithile ezingenziwa futhi ngaleyo ndlela zilungiselele isinyathelo esingenakugwemeka. Nazi ezinye izincomo.

Ukuxhumana kwengane nabazali bayo

Ngaphandle kokungajwayelekile, ingane ifuna futhi idinga ukuxhumana nabazali bayo. Ingane izizwa ivikelekile lapho isondelene nabazali bayo, futhi ikhululeka kuyo ukulala lapho uzizwa uhambisana. Akasazi isizungu noma ukunganakwa, lapho ethi khona okwenza ukuthi azizwe ephephile futhi ephilile. Umbhede uyisikhala esingafudumele kangako, esingathokomele kakhulu futhi esikude nabazali.

Kuvamile ukuthi umntwana ehlise umoya ezandleni zikanina, alalele izwi lakhe noma anuke iphunga lakhe. Lapho ingane ibukeka inesizungu kukhala, futhi kunzima kuye ukulala. Imvamisa kuba yinkinga ukuthi ingane ilale yodwa esibhedeni, abanye abafuni ngisho ukuba kuyo noma ngabe abazali basondele kubo. Imvelo ebonakalayo iyisithiyo phakathi kwalokhu okubili. Konke kuncike ekutheni ubusuku bokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa kwenzeka kanjani.

Isibhedlela nengane

Ingane ifuna ukuxhumana nabazali. Uma kwenzeka befuna alale yedwa embhedeni, kuzodingeka ukubekezela okuningi.

Kunabazali abadlulisele ingane yabo embhedeni kusukela isanda kuzalwa futhi akubanga yinkinga. Cishe banesibhedlela eceleni kombhede wabo nasekamelweni labo, kanti ingane izolile. Futhi kuyisici okufanele usicabangele esithathwa yingane pecho, okwenza ukuxhumana kwesikhumba nesikhumba kudingeke kakhulu, futhi ukwahlukana kube nzima kakhulu kumama nengane. Uma ingane ingafuni ukulala yodwa, yize abazali besondele embhedeni wabo, kunamathuba amaningi:

• Ungayithukutheleli ingane: Kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ifune ukuba nabazali bayo, futhi ukumthukuthelela ngeke kuthuthukise izinto, kepha kuzomenza azizwe elahliwe. Ibizwa ngegama "ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana”Futhi kwenzeka ezinganeni zezinyanga ezimbalwa. Ukunamathela okunengqondo kunina kuzomenza azizwe esaba ukushiywa.
• Ama-minicot: Zingaguqulwa embhedeni wabazali futhi asikho isithiyo phakathi kwalaba bobabili, njengoba imigoqo yohlangothi olulodwa isusiwe. Abazali bangayithinta ingane futhi ingane ibone abazali bayo besondele kuyo.
• Ukubekezela: Uma abazali befuna abe sesibhedeni, ukubekezela kanye nomthamo wokutotosa nokunaka kuyadingeka. Umfana uzofuna ukuculelwa, uthintwe, uphathwe, uzizwe ngabazali bakho uze ulale embhedeni. Ngokuqinisekile kuzothatha isikhathi aze akwazi ukulala yedwa.