Inzuzo yobudlelwano phakathi kogogo nomkhulu nabazukulu iyefana: uthando nobungane, kanye nenjabulo.
Kulabo abathole inhlanhla yokujabulela ubuntwana babo, ngisho nengxenye yempilo yabo, nogogo nomkhulu wabo, bethi ukubopha phakathi kwabo kukhethekile akusho lutho. Kepha, sizocubungula ubudlelwano nokubaluleka kwesibopho esingokomzwelo phakathi kogogo nomkhulu nabazukulu.
Ogogo nomkhulu
Kujwayelekile ukuzwa ukuthi ogogo nomkhulu bangabazali besibili, abazali abavumayo, labo abangajezisi futhi batotose ngokweqile, labo abangazinaki izixwayiso noma izeluleko zabazali babo. Ogogo nomkhulu bathola izingane zezingane zabo. Banesikhathi esiningi abasichitha nabazukulu babo futhi abazizwa bephoqelekile ukuba babafundise, noma ingcindezi yansuku zonke yabazali. Kubo bangabakhiphi abakhulu be- uthando, futhi isibopho siqine kakhulu.
Abazukulu bavela kothandekayo kakhulu, ingane, futhi kulezi zimo akuxhomekile emsebenzini noma umthwalo womkhulu nogogo. Ezimweni eziningi, izingane zidlula endlini kogogo nomkhulu wazo, amahora athile noma izinsuku ezithile, ukudlala, ukuya emapaki noma ube ne- u-ayisikhilimu, badle amaswidi ngasese noma bamukele lelo thoyizi ababelinqabele ubaba.
Ubudlelwano obubalulekile babazukulu nogogo
Ngokukhula nemithwalo yemfanelo eyehlela ogogo nomkhulu maqondana nabazukulu babo, ubudlelwano buphila ngendlela ekhululekile.
Ogogo nomkhulu, abathi ngenxa yeminyaka yabo, basesigabeni sokukhululeka kakhudlwana nesingaxakeki kangako, bahlangana kalula nabazukulu babo, abafuna ukunakwa nothando kubo. Abazali bavame ukusebenza ngaphandle indlu , futhi badinga ogogo nomkhulu ukuba banakekele izingane zabo. Ngenkathi kuliqiniso lokho umuntu osekhulile akakwazi noma kufanele angabi nesibopho esigcwele noma ancike kubazukulu abafunayo nabahlukumezayoKodwa-ke, inzuzo yokuba nomunye icacile.
Ogogo nomkhulu bafuna uthando nokucatshangelwa. Abazukulu babona kugogo nomkhulu babo abantu ababambe iqhaza ekunakekelweni kwabo, ababanikeze nezindaba nokuhlakanipha. Umkhulu ukwazisa ngenjabulo ngomzukulu, ngoba akathwali umthwalo wansuku zonke wokunakekelwa kwakhe kwamahora angama-24, kanye nomsebenzi womuntu ngamunye ngaphakathi kanye / noma ngaphandle kwekhaya. Umkhulu ojwayelekile, kwesinye isikhathi ozizwa edangele kakhulu, thola induduzo futhi uvuselele ubusha bakho futhi injabulo ezenzakalweni kanye nokubonga komzukulu.