Uma uzoba ugogo okokuqala uzojabula kakhulu, ujabule futhi ulangazelele ukuhlangana nalowo muntu omusha ozofika emndenini ukuzowuqedela. Ogogo bathi ukuba nomzukulu kuwukuphila umama ngendlela ehlukile, ekhululekile futhi ekhululekile ezintweni ezingezinhle zobuzali. Ngoba ogogo bangaba umama wesibili ngokombono omuhle kakhulu, nakuba behlale behlonipha indima kamama.
Izikhathi zokuqala zivame ukugcwala amaphutha nokufunda, into ogogo abangakhululwa kuyo. Ngoba kwesinye isikhathi uthando lungaba inkemba esika nhlangothi zombili kulokhu. Ngoba ukuba ugogo ithuba lokujabulela izingane, kodwa futhi kuyindlela yokuqhubeka nomsebenzi kamama, ukusiza umama, ukuba eceleni kwakhe nokubonisa ukusekela noma nini lapho bedinga khona.
Ukuba ugogo, isigaba esisha sokuba ngumama
Konke kwenziwa ngothando, akungabazeki ngalokho, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kweqiwa imingcele engabangela izingxabano ezithile. Ukuba ugogo okokuqala kuyinto ethokozisayo, ngoba ngesikhathi sokuphila lapho umuntu engase azizwe engasetshenziswa kancane, isidalwa esisha sifika ukuze sinikeze lonke uthando nenkampani. Kodwa ukwazi ukugcina isizinda kubalulekile, ngoba, nakuba wonke umuntu elangazelele ukuthanda lowo mntwana omusha, umama nobaba uma kungenzeka bangabantu abawufuna kakhulu emhlabeni.
Ser abuela Kuyoba kuhle kakhulu, uzoba nethuba lokubona ilungu elisha lomndeni wakho likhula, uzokwazi ukumfundisa konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo yakho futhi uzokwazi ukujabulela izikhathi ezinhle esigabeni ngasinye salokho okuncane. Uzodinga amandla amaningi ukuze ukwazi ukulandela lokho kuzamazama komhlaba okuncane nokuqonda okuningi ukuze uqonde ukuthi mhlawumbe abazali bakho abenzi izinto ngendlela obungathanda ngayo.
Lokhu kuyinto evamile futhi ngokuvamile kubangela izinkinga zomndeni, nakuba zingaxazululwa ngokuqonda okuthile nothando oluningi. Akekho umama othanda ukutshelwa ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani izinto, kodwa bonke bayalwazisa usizo nokusekelwa okungenamibandela. Lena imiqondo ehluke ngokuphelele kodwa iyona ezokwenza umehluko. Unganikela ngolwazi lwakho nolwazi lwakho, ngaphandle kokukuphoqelela, futhi ngaleyo ndlela bayohlala bethembele kuwe.
Ungasiza kanjani ukukhulisa umntwana omusha
Impela uzobe ufisa ukumgona lowo mncane, umculele izingoma ezipholile, umkhulise ngalo lonke uthando okhulise ngalo izingane zakho. Futhi ungakwenza ngemuva, ukuhlonipha konke abazali babo abakunqumayo. Kodwa ukunikela ngobuhlakani bakho ukuze phakathi kwakho konke okuhle kunikezwe lowo mntwana. Ungabagxeki abazali, noma ubahlulele lapho benza izinqumo, khumbula ukuthi ukuba umzali akuwona umsebenzi olula.
Ungakwazi futhi Cela ukusiza ngomsebenzi wasekhaya, ngendlela abazali abangase bayidinge ngayo. Ngoba ngezinye izikhathi, lolo sizo lungabonakala lungenangqondo, ikakhulukazi ekusithekeni kwekhaya. Into engahluleki i-tupperware yokudla okuzenzela, uhlobo okunzima kakhulu ukululungisa lapho unomntwana ekhaya. Ngaso sonke isikhathi phatha isitsha esinokudla futhi ukuvakasha kwakho kuyohlale kwamukelwe kahle.
Yebo, ungaveli ungamenyezelwa ngoba bonke abazali badinga isikhathi sokujwayela isigqi esisha somndeni. Buza kuqala ukuthi kuyisikhathi esihle yini sokuvakasha. Rhlonipha izinhlelo zokuphumula kanye nomkhawulo wokuvakasha kuyilapho umntwana emncane kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha indawo nemizwelo yabantu, futhi yabathandekayo kakhulu. Futhi akekho umuntu onemizwa engaphezu kukamama wakamuva.
Jabulela leli thuba elisha lokuphila impilo yelungu elisha kusukela ngemuva. Yisikhathi sakho sokuthi phila izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu, ukuhleka, imidlalo, ama-whims. Ngaphandle kokuhlupheka ubusuku bokungalali kanye nezikhathi ezimbi kakhulu zokuba ngumama. Jabulela lelo gama elisha ozolithola, ngoba manje, ngaphezu kwegama lokuzalwa nelikamama, uzothola igama likagogo.