Ukuqinela kube yisimo senhlalo okungenani lapho zonke izingane zizozizwela ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho. Ukuze leli qiniso lichazwe, kuyadingeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ingane ihlupheka futhi ibhekene nohlobo oluthile lokucindezelwa noma ukucwaswa ngumuntu ofunda naye isikhathi eside. Njengoba bebhekene nalolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza, abazali kumele bazi ukuthi kumele benze njani.
Lesi simo ibaluleke kakhulu, kusukela ingane ngeke uhlupheke ngalolu hlobo lokusolwa unyaka wonke wesikole. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungavela ngandlela thile, kepha lapho isikhathi sidlulile ayikho ingane okufanele ihlukunyezwe. Ngokwesinye isibalo, bahlushwa yiyo cishe zilingana no-50% abafana namantombazane futhi iminyaka lapho bahlupheka khona kakhulu yiminyaka eyi-12, yize amacala engahlukani.
Ungakuthola kanjani ukuxhashazwa?
Kubalulekile ukuthi unake ngaphambi kwanoma iluphi ushintsho olwenzekayo ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho. Uma uhlukunyezwa, kuzobonakala esimweni sakho sengqondo ekhaya. Ngenjwayelo bathula ngokwengeziwe futhi bangenise, noma baqala ukungalaleli noma baziphathe ngendlela engajwayelekile futhi ephikisana nemithetho.
Yize ingane ngayinye yehlukile, mhlawumbe le nkinga izomenza ayikhiphe ngaphandle ngendlela ehlukile. Bazoqala ukuba namaphupho amabi, bahlushwe yisisu, noma bangaphumuli noma bacindezeleke. Bazohlala beka izaba zokungafuni ukubuyela esikoleni futhi uzohlala unezinkinga lapho uhlangana nabangane ngokwenyama noma cishe.
Yizingane ezithi bahlukunyezwa, kungaba ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo. Noma ngubani okuhlukumezayo uzokwenza njalo ephindelela, ngokuthukwa, ukusongelwa, ukukhwabanisa, ukushaya, ukweba, nokusabalalisa amahemuhemu angamanga. Inhloso yakho iyohlala ikhona zama ukuhlukanisa lowo muntu ngoba umbona njengongenakuzisiza futhi engaphansi.
Indlela okufanele wenze ngayo lapho ingane yakho ixhashazwa
Kunoma isiphi isibonakaliso, singahlala njalo buza indodana yethu. Uma ukwazi ukutshela into, noma ngabe incane kangakanani, kufanele uyilalele futhi kuthathe ngokungathi sína. Impela ubala ukuthi kukhona ofunda nabo esikoleni sakho abangaziphathi kahle, noma abangenabo ubungani obukhulu. Yilapho-ke lapho kufanele wenze ukuhlolwa ukubona ukuthi siyakudinga yini cela usizo esikhungweni.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, hlala uzolile futhi dlulisa ukuthula kumntwana, ukwazi ukuxazulula isixazululo ngokuthula okukhulu kwengqondo. Kufanele umenze abone ukuthi bekungelona iphutha lakhe futhi umnikeze isiqiniseko ngalokho akukho okuzokwenzeka kuye ngokukutshela. Ungakholelwa ukuthi ngokwenza isimo sakho saziwe ungasenza sibe sibi isimo sakho, ngakho-ke kufanele unikeze inkolelo yokuthi lokho okutshelwa esikoleni kumfundisi wakho kuzoba yimfihlo. umsize ukuhlaziya isimo sakho ukuxazulula bonke ubunzima bakho nokuthi ungazixazulula kanjani. Singahlala njalo sibeka ezinye izibonelo ezeqiwe futhi angalokothi aqhathanise indlela yakhe yokuba naleyo yezinye izingane noma izingane zakubo.
Mkhuthaze ukuthi athole abanye abangane bangaba inkampani enhle, masingabavumeli bawe ukuthi konke sekuphelile. Kumele akhuthazwe ukuthola ukuthi kunezingane azithandayo ekilasini futhi afune inhloso yazo thola izikhathi zokuba ndawonye.
Kuya ngokungakhululeki noma ukukhathazeka kwesimo okuzodingeka sikwenze cela usizo lwezengqondo ukuze unqobe ukuxhashazwa. Ungaqinisa ukwesaba kwakho ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakhe nokuzikhohlisa emkhomba kokunye okwenziwa ngaphandle kwesikole akuthanda kakhulu nalapho enobudlelwano nezinye izingane. Akukuhle ukukuvikela ngokweqile ngokuvikelwa okukhulu, njengoba ungazizwa unamahloni ngesimo, futhi ngeke kukhuphule ukuzethemba kwakho.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ushiye ngaphakathi kokungenzeka ukuthi umfana noma intombazane ukubhekana nesimo ngokwemvelo. Zisuka nje kululwane, ungazami ukushintsha izikhungo ngesimo esiyinselele nesifuna izinto ngenkani, njengoba sizokwethembela kuwe kungangeniswa kakhulu. Isinyathelo ngasinye esithathwayo kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi senziwe ngekusasa lokubona nokwenza ingane ibambe iqhaza esinyathelweni ngasinye esizothathwa. Okokuqala nje isinqumo sabo kumele sihlonishwe.