Ngokuncelisa ukubambisana, neminye imibuzo ephathelene nokuncelisa, i Uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-LactApp esesivele sethule kulo Madres Hoy; Kuyisihloko esifanelwe ukunwetshwa, uma nje kungenza kubonakale labo mama abancelisa izingane ezimbili (noma ngaphezulu) zeminyaka ehlukene. Uma sikhuluma ngalokhu kuncelisa esikubhekisa kukho lezo zikhathi lapho ingane endala ingakalunywanga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi yabelana nobisi lukamama nengane lapho ingane izalwa.
Bengingomunye walabo mama, futhi yize isipiliyoni sami besingesihle njengabanye engisifunde ezinkundleni zokuncelisa noma zokuba ngumzali (ngaleso sikhathi i-Facebook ibisanda kuvela, kanti ne-Twitter ibingekho nje), bekungafanele ukuba ngaphoqa omdala (nganginezinyanga eziyi-18 kuphela lapho ngikhulelwa futhi) ukuthi ngiyeke i-tit. Ezithombeni ngivela nezingubo bese ngiya ekhaya, ngididekile, futhi angikwazi nokunyakaza nezingane ezimbili ezandleni zami; mhlawumbe bengingayenza futhi, kodwa ngingenza kangcono, yingakho ngiqoqe imininingwane elandelayo engakusiza.
Ukuncelisa ibele kuzungezwe izinganekwane: kuthiwani uma ubisi lwakho luphela, ukuthi uma engondli kusuka eminyakeni eyodwa (sizokwanda kwesinye isikhathi), ukuthi uma umzalwane "ezokweba" ubisi oludinga kakhulu enganeni, ukuthi uma ungamniki ibele ngenkathi ukhulelwe : umakhelwane wami uthe ungakhipha isisu '; yingakho kufanele uhlale uzama ukuthola imithombo ethembekile.
Ukuncelisa iTandem - Manje Kuyini Lokho?
Kuyisimo esingalindelekile nhlobo, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi kuzohamba kanjani ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okufundile: Ngibuke izithombe zezingane ezincela ngasikhathi sinye futhi zabambana ngezandla, lokho akwenzekanga kimi, impela, bengizofaneleka njengenganekwane yokuthi 'ngeke kube khona umona uma bencelisa ngasikhathi sinye'. Uma isinqumo sithathiwe futhi kukhona usizo, azikho izizathu zobunzima, kepha qaphela futhi ukuncelisa abadala 'ngaphandle kothando' noma ukumbheka 'njengenhlupho' ngoba uncamela ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomncane. Ukuncelisa ingane ibele kuyisenzo esingokwemvelo, kepha kunezikhathi lapho omama bedinga ukuzihlola, bathembeke kulokho esizizwayo, futhi senze ngokufanele.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kuvame kakhulu lapho izingane zithatha isikhathi esifushane kakhulu (izinyanga eziyi-18, 2, 3, 4 iminyaka ... lokho umehluko omncane wesikhathi ukukhulisa - kuya ngokuthi ubukeka kanjani, kunjalo -) futhi impela omdala kakhulu akakatholi omama abenele ukuze azizwe ephephile. Yingakho lolu hlobo lokuncelisa lunengqondo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale ukuchaza izinzuzo nobubi, ngaphambi kokukunikeza amathiphu awusizo, ngithanda ukukhomba okuthile: Yini oyifundile ukuthi ingane endala ivame ukuthatha isibhamu ngokufunwa futhi lapho ingane izelwe? Yebo, kuyiqiniso: zombili ngasikhathi sinye kaningi ngosuku njengoba kudingeka, esifubeni esisodwa ukuncela ingane eneminyaka emibili enolwazi, ngakolunye okuncane okusanda kuphila futhi kubambe ngokuthula ingono isikhathi ngasinye ngubani olambile. Kuyashuba futhi kuyakhathaza, kepha ngandlela thile kuyamangalisa.
Ubuhle nobubi
Ngemuva kokubeletha, ingane izohlomula nge-colostrum, kepha ukwanda kobisi kuzokwenzeka ngaphambili, ngoba (yize incane incanyelwayo, enkulu iyaqhubeka ukuncela nokukhuthaza ukukhiqizwa). Ngesizathu esifanayo ukugwenywa kugwenywe. Ukuphazamiseka noma izinguquko ezingokomzwelo kumfowenu osekhulile kungancishiswa: umama akamenqabeli ukuxhumana nomzimba wakhe, futhi akayeki ukumvikela ngezimpawu zomzimba zobisi lwebele. Izingane zivame ukukhuluphala ngokushesha, kanti nezinkinga zokukhula azivamile ukuvela (kuhlale kunobisi oluningi kunalokho okudingekayo).
Njengoba ngishilo, kimi akulona iqiniso elingu-100% ukuthi umona uyanyamalala, kepha ukuncelisa ukuncipha kwengcindezi, futhi kungahle kunciphise umthelela wokwamukela ilungu elisha lomndeni ... umuntu ozophinde ahehe umama nobaba .
Ngokuqondene nokwehliswa: ungakhulisi, kepha kubalulekile ukubazi. Ungakhungatheka, ungaba nemizwa engemihle ngomdala, ungahle ukhungatheke ... Khumbula ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola usizo kanye nosizo lwasekhaya, ubaba noma ezinye izihlobo kufanele banakekele ukudla, izingubo nokuhlanza. Njengoba isikhathi sihamba, omdala - nawe - nizokwenza kahle kakhulu ukuphuma niye epaki niyoshaywa umoya, noma ngabe esemncane futhi ethanda ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomama. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-colostrum inomphumela we-laxative, ngakho-ke izibulo lakho lingenza izimbungulu ezikhululekile.
Ukuncelisa itandem: izinto eziningi ofuna ukuzazi
Impela ungancelisa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa!
Njengoba ngivezile, akudingekile ukuthi ulumule umntwana omdala uma ukhulelwa futhi usancelisa: akukho okuzokwenzeka enganeni yakho entsha, kuphephe ngokuphelele. Ungase uzwe ukuthi kunengozi yokuqedwa kokukhulelwa, noma ukuthi umama ukhathele kakhulu, kodwa akukho kulokhu okuyiqiniso. Kunokwesaba okuningi ngezinqubo zokukhulelwa, zokubeletha, ukuncelisa ibele nokuba ngumzali ukuthi kufanele sixoshe, ukuze owesifazane ngamunye onolwazi olufanele athathe isinqumo esihle kakhulu.
Ukuncipha kwesibeletho abanye omama abazizwa kuphela lapho umfana noma intombazane iqeda ubuhlengikazi. Kungenxa ye-oxytocin, okuthiwa i-hormone yothando, lokho akubandakanyi kuphela ekunceliseni ibele, kepha futhi nasemsebenzini, noma ngesikhathi se-orgasms. Manje: uma uhlushwa isisu esisongelwayo noma ukulethwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane kumele ahlole isimo, kepha yisimo esehlukile.
Cishe izingane ezingama-60 kwezingu-100 ezinceliswa ubisi lwebele lapho umama ekhulelwa futhi ziyalunyulwa; Kubonakala kunengqondo kimi ngoba njengoba owesifazane ekhulelwe uhlangabezana nezinguquko futhi angafisa ukuqaphela, ngokungazi noma ngokungazi, Kungaba futhi yintombazane noma umfana okuthi uma ubona izinguquko, wenqabe ibele. Phakathi kwezinguquko kukhona ushintsho ekunambithekeni, kepha lokhu kwenzeka ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa; futhi kukhuphuke ukuzwela ezingonweni.
Ngemuva kokuzalwa ingane ibaluleke kakhulu.
Umfowabo wayesezuzile nge-colostrum lapho ezalwa, manje sekuyisikhathi sakhe: lokhu akudingekile ukuthi noma ngubani akuqinisekise, ngoba nakanjani ukukwenza ngaleyo ndlela
Kodwa lokhu kungaba njalo ngenkathi ukhiqiza i-colostrum, izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala; lapho-ke ungavumela bobabili ukuthi bancenge ukufunwa noma babeke imingcele komdala (kuphela ngemuva kokudla nangaphambi kokulala, njll.). Konke kuncike ebudaleni babo, ukuthi uzizwa ukhululeke kangakanani, nokuthi uyakwazi ukuncelisa ibele ngaphandle komuzwa wokwenqatshwa, lapho-ke ingane ibingabona khona ngoba umzimba wakho uyakudlulisa.
Ngiyakulalela yini lokho abangitshela khona?
Ungathola umuntu othanda izinganekwane nezinsumansumane, awusekelwe kobunye ubufakazi.
- Umfowabo omdala akaluthathi ubisi koluncane: kukhona ubisi lwawo wonke umuntu. Izifuba ziyifektri hhayi indawo yokugcina impahla, uyakhumbula?
- Ngeke uhlupheke ngenxa yokungondleki ngokuncelisa amabele amabili ngasikhathi sinye: udle uphilile futhi uhlukahlukene, futhi uphuze ngaphezu kwawo wonke amanzi akunikeza amanzi futhi akusize uzizwe ungcono.
- Akukho okuzokwenzeka enganeni engakazalwa ngenxa yokuthi enye ingane yakho isancelisa, futhi ayikho inkinga.
- Ukugula okutholwe yindodana endala ngeke kuthinte okunye: futhi uma kwenzeka, kuzoba ukumnika izivikelo.
Ukuqedela futhi maqondana nokuma: ungamukela i-rugby ephindwe kabili, iwele, ilele ngohlangothi nengane kumatilasi uyibambe, nasemhlane nangomcamelo izingane zakho ezizowondla.
Ngiyethemba uyithandile, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke lokho kungasiza. Ngempela uma kukhona inhlonipho ngezidingo zezingane ngokweminyaka yazo, nomama uyazinakekela futhi "uyazinakekela", kokubili ukuncelisa amabele amaningi kungenzeka (amawele / amawele, amawele amathathu) njengokuncelisa ukubambisana.
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