Uyakhumbula lapho sikhuluma ngomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini, futhi ikakhulukazi isigaba sokulandelana (ngokuvuthwa kweqanda)? Sishilo ukuthi kuhlobene kanjani nobulili bethu, futhi ngamathuba okukhulelwaNgoba i-mucus yomlomo wesibeletho esikhiqizayo isiza isidoda ukuba sihambe. Yebo, ngicabanga ukuthi bonke abesifazane bayazibona izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwethu kwezocansi kuwo wonke umjikelezo, lapho nje sizihlola thina, kunjalo; Vele, isifiso sobulili ezinsukwini zokuya esikhathini singachazwa njengokuningi, futhi kwesinye isikhathi asikho, sibekwe umuzwa wokukhathala esikuzwile ngesikhathi sesigaba se-luteal, nangokopha.
Kodwa-ke, awubonanga yini ukuthokoza okuthe xaxa lapho ugcoba? Awunayo yini imicabango yobulili kaningi ngalezo zinsuku? Uma impendulo inguyebo, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi isifundo esivela eminyakeni emithathu eyedlule sabizwa Izinqolobane Zokuziphatha Ngocansi qinisekisa umbono wakho; Njengoba uma ubulili besifazane buhlobene nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini futhi kuguquka, kungalindelwa ukuthi ngezinsuku lapho kungenzeka khona ukuba nokukhulelwa ngokwemvelo, isifiso sizokhula (futhi lokhu akuhlangene nokucabanga).
Umbhali omkhulu womsebenzi (uSamantha Jane Dawson) uchaze ngemuva kokushicilelwa ukuthi babegxile emibonweni yezocansi, ngoba akuxhomekile ekutholakaleni komlingani noma ezinye izinto zangaphandle, ngakho-ke umphumela wokubukwa ungalawulwa kangcono. Okutholakele kusekela izifundo zangaphambilini ezixhumanisa ukuzala okuphezulu ngokwanda kokukhulisa ezocansi, ukuvusa inkanuko, kanye nesisusa sobulili.
Isifundo.
Kwenziwa amanyuvesi amabili eCanada nase-United Kingdom; isampula yayincane kakhulu, njengoba yayilinganiselwe kwabesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane abangashadile abangama-27 (iminyaka engama-21½ ngokwesilinganiso) ababengasebenzisi izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo zamahomoni. Inqubo yayiqukethe ukunquma isikhathi se-ovulation ngokunquma amahomoni emchameni, futhi ngasikhathi sinye, ukugcwalisa imibuzo ngabahlanganyeli, maqondana nomlando wezocansi; ngaphezu kwedayari ebhalwe izinsuku ezingama-30, lapho bekufanele babhale phansi imicabango yabo yezocansi.
Kutholakale ukuthi ezinsukwini ezintathu ngaphambi kokuvuthwa kwamaqanda, imicabango yabesifazane yanda isuka ku-0,77 ngosuku yaya ku-1,3 ngosuku
Okungihlaba umxhwele kakhulu, kungakhathalekile ukuthi ucwaningo luni, ukuthi njengoba ezocansi ziqhubeka nokuba yinto engadingeki, ngisho naphakathi kwabantu abadala, uma sikhuluma ngayo, sikwenza ngokuhlekisa, noma sisho umjikelezo wethu wokuya esikhathini ukusho ukuthi ukuphathwa ikhanda ngosuku olwandulela ukopha; futhi asizinaki ezinye izindaba okufanele futhi zenze nezinguquko emzimbeni nokuthi sizizwa kanjani. Mhlawumbe kufanele sixhumane nathi kuqala, bese sabelana ngezinto ezibaluleke ngempela