Iselamani ngasinye sithola umthwalo ohlukile ngaphakathi kwendawo yomndeni kodwa lokho kukamfowethu omdala kuhlukile futhi kukhethekile. Kubaluleke kakhulu umthwalo wakho wemfanelo phakathi kwabazalwane, ngoba isukile yiba ukuphela kwengane ukuba ngumfowethu oyedwa. Kepha kulokhu bakuthatha njengokuzibophezela njengomthwalo ongokomzwelo.
Indima yabazali ibalulekile, Kungabonakala kungabalulekile ukuthi umzalwane osekhulile angathwala isisindo esikhulu, kodwa kunjalo. Akukhathalekile iminyaka, noma ubulili futhi ngokungaqondile kwesinye isikhathi abazali bayasifaka isicelo lolo hlobo lomthwalo knoma badinga usizo oluncane abangaluletha ekhaya.
Amalungelo kabhuti omdala
Esinye sezizathu eziholela kuye zibeke ngemuva Kulapho kufika ukuzalwa komfowethu omusha. Ukunaka kakhulu lo mzalwane omusha akufanele uthathe ilungelo ukuthi sibe munye futhi sinakekelwe ngokulinganayo izidingo eziyinhloko.
Iqiniso beka phambili izidingo zakho zokuqala Futhi nokuthi uzizwa enakekelwa kusiza ukugwema ukubangisana kwezelamani. Kuvele umona futhi umcimbi ojwayelekile kakhulu owenzeka kuyo yonke imindeni, kepha singayinciphisa le micimbi.
Umfowethu omdala une- ilungelo lokuqondwa njengabanye abafowabo. Kufanele kube isibonelo sokulingiswa kuwo wonke umndeni nabazali singenza okuncane ukukwenza uzizwe wanconywa futhi njengesibonelo esihle sokulandelwa.
Kungenziwa umhlanganyeli kuzo zonke lezo zibopho ocabanga ukuthi ubungeke ukwenze. Kufanele unikeze imininingwane yazo zonke izenzo ezingaba uyakwazi ukwenza futhi maqondana nabanye abafowabo. Ungamthethisi ngamaphutha ongawenza. Njengamanje umfowenu osekhulile kungenzeka kube umthwalo womzalwane okulandelayo.
Izibopho okufanele uzicabange
Ubhuti omdala kumele beka isibonelo esifanelekile kumfowethu noma kwabanye abazalwane. Ukuziphatha kwakho kufanele kubaluleke kakhulu futhi umehluko weminyaka phakathi kwezelamani kungaba yimpi enzima. Lo mehluko omkhulu wenza angiqondi ukubangisana okuningi nomunye futhi wenze omunye ahlangane nomunye, nzima izimpi zansuku zonke.
Ama-oda kufanele agcwaliswe maqondana nobubanzi beminyaka. Zonke izingane zakubo noma ngabe zineminyaka emingaki kufanele zithwale izibopho zazo esikhwameni sazo, okumele kube njalo hamba uvumelane kusukela ekuqaleni nasengxoxweni nabazali. Lokhu kuzovimbela intukuthelo yesikhathi esizayo.
Omunye umsebenzi obalulekile ukusiza umzalwane kuyo yonke imisebenzi yansuku zonke nemisebenzi yasekhaya (ukugqoka, ukuzilungisa, ukudla kahle, umsebenzi wesikole, ...) ukukhulisa umndeni wonke kungumsebenzi obalulekile wesakhiwo sonke. Umfowethu omdala akanawo umthwalo wemfanelo oyinhloko kodwa uyakwazi ube usizo olukhulu ngokomzwelo kumzali womndeni.
Ungabuthuthukisa kanjani ubudlelwano obuhle phakathi kwezelamani
Umndeni kumele ukhonjiswe ukuthi indima yomfowabo omdala akukhona ukuba nesibopho esikhulu kunazo zonke, kodwa uku umngane omkhulu nesethenjwa.
Kumele yiba yisibonelo esicacile ukwedlula okubonwa ngumfowabo omncane. Kusobala konke izofana nokulingisa njengoba ubhuti omdala enza izoba nesibopho esikhulu lokuthi izingane ziziphatha njani. Izibonelo zingafakwa njengokuyala kwabo esikoleni, indlela abadla ngayo, ukubambisana emidlalweni, ...
Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ungasebenzisi ifomu lokuqhathanisa phakathi kwazo, ungasoli izenzo Uma kungenjalo, izinto ziphephile futhi zicacile, futhi ngisho ukuthotshiswa kufanele uthembele ekutheni ungalokothi uzisebenzise.