Amaphupho yilokho okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu lapho kufinyelelwa khona isimo sokwazi isimo sezinzwa, ukuqonda kanye nemizwa Ngesikhathi sephupho. Wonke umuntu uyaphupha futhi nakulabo abangakaze bakhumbule abakuphuphile, singabona ukuthi impela babe nochungechunge lwamava ephupho phakathi iphupho.
Yize kungabonakali njengokufana kuze kube yilapho nezingane ngokwazo zisesibelethweni sikanina banamaphupho. Ukuthi ingane iyaphupha futhi isitshele ukuthi iphupheni kungasisiza sijule ngaphakathi kwesazela sakho. Njengamanje sekukhona amathuluzi angcono angasisiza ukuthi sazi ukuthi hlobo luni lwamaphupho esibe nawo nokuthi kufanele silichaze kanjani.
Amaphupho ajwayelekile kakhulu nezincazelo zawo
Endabeni yezingane, ukukwazi ukutolika amaphupho abo kusinikeza ithuba thola ukuthi uyahlupheka yini noma ubuze kancane ebuntwini bakhe. Ukuze sizihlaziye senze uhlu lwezinto eziphindaphindeka kakhulu nencazelo yazo:
Phupha ngezilo: iyaphindeka kakhulu futhi imvamisa ibonakala ngezinhlamvu ezihlukile. Imvamisa ihunyushwa ngokuthi ingidi enkulu okuhlangenwe nakho kwengane futhi lokho kuyisunduzela phambili. Intsha ivame ukuba nalolu hlobo lwamaphupho futhi yaziwa nangokuthi leso sinyathelo noma inqubekela phambili ekuthuthukiseni.
Iphupho lokundiza: Kungenye iphupho elivela njalo. Ukundiza kufana nokuphunyuka kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana noma ukuzama ukuphuma enkambisweni. Uma uhlupheka ngandlela thize, ukuphupha uhamba ngezindiza kukwenza uzikhulule kulezo zinkinga.
Ngezilwane: uma bengabasekhaya futhi bemgcina enenkampani, kungenxa yokuthi bayamvikela. Uma kunjalo izinambuzane njengezimpukane kungenxa yokuthi awuzizwa kahle ngemfundo yakho, kepha uma uphupha izimvemvane kungenzeka kakhulu ngoba ujabulile futhi inhlanhla iyamomotheka kuye.
Iphupho ngokuwa: Kuvamile ezinganeni eziphupha ukuthi zihamba ziwe ngokuzumayo. Uma ingane izamile ukusukuma iqhubeke nokuhamba, kuzoba ibika elihle, ngoba kuzoba njalo intuthuko yokufunda kwabo.
Abakuxoshayo: Ngenye yezinto ezivame kakhulu, ijahwa yisilwane noma umuntu ongaziwa. Kungaphenduka ukwesaba ebusuku, iphupho elibi futhi okungathandeki neze, lapho uzophaphama uthukuthele. Impela ingane isenqubweni ebalulekile yoku shintsha empeleni, Kuyindlela yokubhekana nento ongazi ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani ngoba uzizwa ungavikelekile.
Nabangane bakho: kuyenzeka kaningi ukuphupha nabangani bakho kanye nezigcawu ezijwayelekile zosuku nosuku. Konke okuphuphayo ngalelo phupho imvamisa kuyisimo somzwelo noma sokukhathazeka ingane ezwayo njengamanje. Ukuvela komngani wakho kukunikeza ukuphepha kokuzizwa ukhululekile futhi uphephile.
Ukuphupha ngokushaywa: Kungenzeka ukuthi ingane izizwe ingaqondakali eqenjini lezingane futhi kungamukelwa. Ungazizwa uthinta noma engozini lapho abanye abangane bengavumi.
Ukuphela kwamazinyo: khombisa ukuthi banobudlelwano obukhulu nonina nemibukiso ukungavikeleki ukuthi ngilahlekelwe yiyo. Enye incazelo kungenzeka ukuthi ngiyaphila ushintsho empilweni yakho, ehambisana nokukhula kwayo njalo.
Ukuba nqunu: Incazelo yephupho ephathelene nokuzizwa engavikelekile futhi enamahloni. Ukuphupha ungenazo izingubo ezindaweni zomphakathi kukhombisa ukungavikeleki noma isidingo salokho ukuvikelwa nokuvikeleka okwengeziwe nomndeni wakhe.
Uma sinaka ukubuza izingane ngamaphupho abo, kungenzeka ukuthi sikwazi ukuhumusha izimo zabo ezingokomzwelo empilweni yangempela. Kungenzeka ukuthi ube nephupho elikhanyayo noma elishaqisayo lapho ungaphakamisa khona ingane ukuthi ilidwebe noma ibhale indaba emnandi ngalo. Ezinye izingane zikhetha ukuqopha okuhlangenwe nakho kwazo kumagazini wazo.
