Kwabancane, ukuqala isikole kuyinguquko enkulu ezimpilweni zabo. Kumele bavalelise ngokuphepha kwabo, kwabaziwayo ukungena esikoleni sabadala. Kungakho inqubo yokuzivumelanisa nezimo izobasiza ukuthi basondele kulesi sigaba esisha sempilo yabo ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ake sibone ezinye amathiphu wokuzivumelanisa nezikole ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Usuku lokuqala ekolishi
Usuku lokuqala lwesikole oluneminyaka emithathu ubudala Kubandakanya ukuhlukana nonina nendawo yakhe eyaziwa kangcono. Uma beya enkulisa kufanele bavalelise kubanakekeli babo ayesebasebenzisile.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nzima nakakhulu kubazali ukujwayela isikole kunezingane ngokwazo, ikakhulukazi lezo zingane ezingafundanga enkulisa. Ushintsho ekubeni nabo ekhaya usuku lonke nokubashiya esikoleni lungashaqisa, avalelise isigaba esisodwa ukuqala esinye, futhi nabazali badinga ukuvumelaniswa neqiniso elisha. Ake sibheke amanye amathiphu wokuzivumelanisa nezingane ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Amathiphu wokuzivumelanisa nesikole sabantwana abaneminyaka emithathu
- Mthathe emasontweni ambalwa ngaphambi kokuthi ayobona isikole. Ungamyisa esikoleni sakhe esisha emasontweni ambalwa edlule ukuze azi isayithi. Lokho kuzokunikeza ukuphepha, ukubeka isithombe kulesosikole esisha esisha abazali abakhuluma kakhulu ngaso. Ukuhlanganiswa kwengane kusukela osukwini lokuqala kubalulekile ukudala isimo sokuphepha nokunethezeka kwengane. Ngakho-ke imvelo iyojwayeleka kuwe futhi uzothola umbono ongcono. Mtshengise lapho azodlala khona, lapho azokwakha khona abangane abasha ...
- Shintsha amashejuli akho. Ngokufakwa esikoleni amashejuli ahlukile. Ukuze ungahlushwa ukungalingani esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke, emasontweni ngaphambi kokuqala izinguquko ukuze uzivumelanise kangcono. Mlalise ngaphambili ukuze ukuvuka ekuseni kungabi yinkinga. Kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthi uzilungiselele futhi ungaqali isifundo ngokulala okonakalisa imizwa yakho nokusebenza kwakho. Into enhle ukuthi ulala phakathi kwamahora ayi-8-10. Ubuye futhi aguqule izikhathi zakhe zokudla, ezizoshintsha ngokungena kwesikole.
- Lungiselela ukuxhumana nezidingo zakho. Kujwayelekile ukuthi abazali bazi ukuthi izingane zabo zidinga ngokubabheka nje kuphela, kepha othisha banezingane eziningi futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi babone izidingo zomunye nomunye wabo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Khuthaza ukuthi uveze izidingo zakho nezinto ozifunayo, kuzokwenza unakekelwe kangcono futhi kukunikeze nokuvikeleka okwengeziwe.
- Izinsuku zokuqala zinikela ngesikhathi sekhwalithi. Uma uyoyolanda ingane yakho ngemuva kwesikole, chitha isikhathi esezingeni eliphezulu naye. Mbuze imibuzo ethile mayelana nokuthi belunjani usuku lwakhe futhi uchithe isikhathi esimnandi naye. Ukwesaba nokungavikeleki kosuku lokuqala kuzobekezelela nawe.
- Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kancane kancane kungasiza kakhulu. Ezikhungweni eziningi sezivele zinikeza ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kancane kancane njengendlela yokuqhubekela phambili yokujoyina isikole. Ngakho-ke ngesonto lokuqala bazohamba amahora ambalwa ngosuku, ukuze bangafiki bonke ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi babone izingane eziningi zidlala ngokukhululeka. Ngakho-ke bazoba ne- ukuzivumelanisa nolaka okuncane futhi uthambekele endaweni yayo entsha.
- Ungangezi idrama. Izingane eziningi zikhala ngezinsuku zokuqala zesikole. Njengabazali kuphula izinhliziyo zethu ukubashiya kanjena, kepha uma silula lowo mzuzu ngenhloso yokubaduduza nokuthi bahlale bezolile, okuwukuphela kwento esiyizuzayo ukufaka ukunakwa okwengeziwe nedrama kulowo mzuzu. Izinyembezi zizohamba, yingxenye yokuvalelisa. Kungcono ukuyigcina ibe mfushane futhi umkhumbuze ukuthi emahoreni ambalwa nizophinde nibonane.
- Khuluma nothisha wengane yakho. Uma uba nomhlangano nothisha ngaphambi kokuqala izifundo, mtshele ngokuhluka kwengane yakho. Bunjani ubuntu bakho, uma unemizimba yokungezwani komzimba noma izifo okufanele zilawulwe, kuhamba kanjani ngezinyathelo zakho ezibalulekile ngokweminyaka yakho ... yonke imininingwane izosiza uthisha kakhulu.
Ngoba khumbula… kungaba isikhathi esithinta imizwa kakhulu emndenini. Kumele kugujwe njengengxenye yokukhula kwabo kanye nenqubekela phambili yabo, njengesenzo esisodwa ukuze babone njengento enhle.