Bonke abazali balindele futhi bagubhe ngomzwelo ukubhibhidla kokuqala namazwi ezingane zabo. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, ingesinye sezenzakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu nezijabulisayo ekuziphendukeleni kwayo. Umbuzo ovame kakhulu ophakama phakathi kwabazali abasha uwukuthi, izingane ziqala nini ukubhibhidla. Khumbula ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo ezinganeni kufihla okuningi ngemuva nokuthi kulokhu kufunda kufanele ukhuthaze umntwana.
Ukubhubhudla kokuqala kwabancane bakho kuyisinyathelo esikhulu sokuthuthukisa ulimi lwabo. Njengoba, ayindlela yokuqeqesha ukuze lapho esekhulile akwazi ukuphimisela amagama akhe okuqala.
Ingane yami ingaxhumana kanjani?
Kusukela ekuzalweni kwezingane zethu, baxhumana nomhlaba wonke ngokushukuma komzimba nemisindo. Isibonelo salokhu yilapho besebenzisa ukukhala ukusitshela ukuthi bafuna okuthile noma baphatheke kabi.
Ekuzalweni, ubuchopho bezingane bukhula njalo. Lapho esekwazi kakade ukufunda imisindo nolimi, yilapho umntwana eqala khona ukusebenzisa amagama akhe okuqala.
Izingane ziqala nini ukuxhumana?
Isigaba sokuqala sokufunda ulimi kwezingane siqala ngokufunda imisindo ehlukene abayiprakthiza ngokubhibhidla.. Bafinyelela lapho beqonda khona ukuthi ngokusebenzisa leyo misindo bangakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu ababazungezile.
Njengoba sihlala sikutshela, ingane ngayinye inesigqi sokufunda futhi kufanele usihloniphe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngamanye amazwi, akufanele simfake ingcindezi, simehlule noma sisazise ngoba omncane ubonakala ephazamiseka kancane lapho ekhuluma. Ukuze bakusize ngolimi lwakho, kulula ukuba abazali nezihlobo bakunikeze isandla.
Kubalulekile ukuthi abancane bathuthukise izinzwa zabo kancane kancane, enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu indlebe. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kumele balalele imisindo namagama ahlukene aphinde aphindwe endaweni abakuyo ngaphambi kokuba bawabambe ngekhanda futhi bawaphinde.
Enye yezinzwa ezibaluleke kakhulu yilezo zokubona, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ibone abantu kanye nezinto esikhuluma ngazo noma esikhuluma nazo, ngalokhu uzogcina isimo, umbala, imisindo, njll.
Izingane ziqala nini ukubhebha?
Njengoba ingane yakho isesibelethweni, iyakwazi ukuzwa imisindo ehlukahlukene eyenzeka ngaphandle. Ngesikhathi izalwa, iyakwazi ukuzwa izwi labazali bayo, kanye nephunga layo. Lezi zici zibasiza ukuthi baqale inqubo yabo yokuxhumana, baqale bakwenze ngokukhala.
Emasontweni okuqala okuphila komntwana wakho, uzokhuluma ikakhulukazi ngokukhala, nakuba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi eyoqala ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kukhulumisana kumsiza kanjani ukuba aveze izidingo zakhe.
Kusukela ekukhaleni kuya esigabeni sokubhibhidla, kukhona ukufunda okubalulekile. Ukukhala kuzoqala ukuguquka futhi ingane yakho izokwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokunye nokunye. Kuye kokubili isimo nomntwana, ukubhibhidla kungenzeka futhi lokhu kuyinjabulo kubazali.
Lapho singena enyangeni yesibili noma yesithathu yokuphila komntwana, uzoqala ukukhiqiza imisindo esabela izimpawu zothando. ngomndeni wakho noma abanye. Kulesi sigaba, uyakwazi ukwenza enye into ngomlomo wakhe, ngaphandle kokumunca noma ukuconsa. Uzokwazi ukuhonqa, afingqe ulimi lwakhe oluncane, aze enze nemisindo ayibona ihlekisa. Ukuze ingane yakho iqale ukubhibhidla noma ikhulume kahle, kumelwe ibe nezitho ezikhule ngokugcwele ezihilelekile ekukhulumeni.
Cishe izinyanga ezintathu zokuphila, ukubhibhidla kuba indlela yokuxhumana ehlala njalo futhi ebuhlungu. Omncane, kancane kancane, uthola ikhono lakhe lokukhiqiza imisindo ehlukahlukene. Uma sebefinyelele izinyanga eziyisithupha, ukubhibhidla kunamandla kakhulu futhi bazokwazi ukuphimisa imisindo ye-monosyllabic ngisho nangaphandle kwencazelo. Kubalulekile ukuthi omncane alalele imisindo yakhe ukuze azikhuthaze futhi ayiphinde futhi.
Lapho sezinezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala, ama-coots okuqala aqala ukubonakala futhi azame ukuphimisela okusha. Bayakwazi ukuphinda imisindo efana ne-ma-pa-ta. Izingane zizama ukulingisa ezikuzwayo futhi abazali yibona abaphethe esikhundleni sokubhibhidla ngemisindo efana namagama umntwana azama ukuwaphindaphinda.
Khumbula, ukuthi abancane bafunda futhi bathuthukise inkulumo ngokulingisa kanye ne-intuition. Uma abazali noma abantu abaseduze nomntwana benza imisindo efana nokubhibhidla kwabo, bazokwazi ukufunda imisindo abangayenza ngokushesha. Bazohlobanisa umsindo negama kumuntu noma into futhi bazoqala ukuwaphinda ukuxhumana.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ubashiyele indawo nesikhathi sabo ukuze bathuthuke bafunde, konke kuyeza.