Bonke abazali bathanda izingane zabo ngokungenamibandela, futhi ngesikhathi se- ubusha. Lesi sikhathi sokukhula nokukhula kwezingane sinzima, kodwa abazali bayohlala bebafunela okungcono kakhulu, nokuthi bajabule. Abanye abazali bayalahleka kulo msebenzi wokwenza izingane zabo zijabule futhi zingabi nankinga, kepha akumele kukhohlwe ukuthi izingane zanamuhla zizoba ngabantu abadala ngokuzayo. Ingabe kuyinselele ukufundisa izingane zakho ukuba zibe abantu abadala abanokwethenjelwa?
Namuhla intsha eningi isonakele futhi ivikelwe ngokweqile. Bakhula ngaphandle komuzwa wokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo. Lapho abazali bebona lokhu kushoda kokugxila nemikhuba emibi yezingane zabo ezeve eshumini nambili, abasakwazi okufanele bakwenze. Ngempela, icala liwela ekukhulisweni kabi kwezingane zabo ngokuyekelela ngokweqile. Ukuze ungenzi iphutha elifanayo, kufanele uqale ukufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo kusukela ebusheni bokuqala. Kuzoba umsebenzi onzima futhi okhandlayo, kepha uzokhokha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ungayifundisa kanjani indodana yami eyeve eshumini nambili?
Ungalindela ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakho iziphathe njengomuntu osemusha isakhula. Kepha ungakhohlwa ukuthi usakhula futhi ufunda ukuziphatha emhlabeni. I-roller roller coaster umzimba wakho odlula kuyo ayithinti ukukhula kwakho ngokomzimba kuphela, kepha nokuziphatha kwakho emphakathini. Lokhu kungadida kakhulu, noma ungakuvezi ngamazwi. Phakathi kwalokhu kudideka, udinga ukuholwa ngabazali bakhe ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, yize enza sengathi akadingi lutho oluvela kuwe.
Lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokulolonga indlela oziphatha ngayo, ngobuqili. Izinkulumo azihlali zisebenza nentshaNgakho-ke, sizobona amathiphu okufundisa izingane ezisakhula, ukuze zikhule zibe ngabantu abadala abavuthiwe nabanokwethenjelwa.
Setha okulindelwe ekufundiseni ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi abazali bathanda izingane zabo ngokungenamibandela, ngokusebenzisa okuhle nokubi. Kepha ngesikhathi sobusha kuhle ukubeka okulindelwe. Lapho osemusha esekwazi okulindelwe kuye, bazozwa ingcindezi ethile bese bephoqeleka ukuthi basebenzele ukufeza lezo zinhloso. Lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala esibheke ukufunda umthwalo wemfanelo, ukuze bagxile ezinhlosweni zesikhathi esifushane ukufinyelela imigomo emikhulu.
Qiniseka ukuthi okulindele ezinganeni zakho kunengqondo. Uma uzibekela imigomo ephakeme kakhulu izogcina ikhungathekile futhi konke kuzoba nenkinga. Kufanele usethe okulindelwe ngokwamakhono abo futhi ungaguquli izifiso zomuntu kubo.. Ungakhuluma naye ngezifiso namaphupho abo ukusetha lokho okulindelwe, futhi ubaqondise ekufezeni lokhu ukuze bafunde ukuhamba igxathu negxathu.
Qala ukusebenzisa uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ukufundisa intsha yakho
Uma okuthile kwentsha kungathandi izintshumayelo, kungumsebenzi wasendlini. Kodwa umsebenzi wasendlini kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqala ukwaba izibopho ngaphakathi endlini, nabo bahlala lapho. Ngakho-ke, yenza uhlu lwemisebenzi yansuku zonke ukuze udlulisele eminye yemisebenzi yakho kubo. Thembela ezinganeni zakho ukuthi zizokwakha, futhi ngokwesikhathi esitholakalayo nikeza imisebenzi ebafanele kakhulu.
Lokhu ngeke kube lula uma izingane zakho zisesigabeni sokuvukela, ikakhulukazi ngoba imisebenzi yasendlini azihlekisi. Kepha njengoba bekhula bazokuqonda lokho le misebenzi iyingxenye yempilo yawo wonke umuntu. Sonke siyazenza uma sifuna ukuhlala endlini enhle futhi ehlelekile. Ubusha yisikhathi esihle sokugxilisa ukubaluleka kwenhlanzeko nomthwalo wemfanelo ohambisana nakho. Kuyacaca ukuthi uma ungayifezi imisebenzi yakho, basesimweni sokuthatha ilungelo ngenxa yalokho. Ngakho-ke uzobona ukuthi isenzo ngasinye sinokuphendula kwaso.
Bavumele bazenzele izinqumo zokufundisa izingane zakho
Impilo imayelana nokwenza izinqumo nganoma yini, futhi lapho ingane yakho ikubona ngokushesha, iba ngcono. Ngakho-ke kukuvumela ukuthi ubambe iqhaza ekukhetheni izinto ezilula zasekhaya, njengamaholide noma ukuthenga ifenisha noma okokusebenza. Ukuphawula ngezinketho ezahlukahlukene, uzobona ukuthi akuyona yonke into ehambayo, ngoba uma ikhethwe kabi ingaba yimbi kumgogodla womndeni. Isibonelo, ukukhetha iholide noma izinto zasendlini ongeke ukwazi ukuzikhokhela.
Unganikela isikhashana ngesonto ukubhekana nezinkinga ezithinta ikhaya. Njengokuhlela amamenyu ansuku zonke, unikeze imibono ngesikhathi samahhala njengomndeni noma ngokuxoxa ngohlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe. Konke lokhu kuzokwenza ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili izizwe ihilelekile emndenini., futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi uyamethemba. Futhi, uma enza izinto kahle njengokulindela kwakho, ungamvuza ukuze abone ukuthi umzamo wakhe nokuzinikela kwakhe kubalulekile. Ukukhulisa intsha kuyinselele, kepha njengemivuzo yayo, ukuyibuka ikhula futhi ibe ngabantu abadala abahle kuzokwenza konke kuwufanele.