Namuhla, uDisemba 28, kugujwa i-Day of the Holy Innocents, umkhosi owenzelwe ukudlala imigilingwane. Kepha kubaluleke kakhulu qaphela kakhulu lapho wenza lolu hlobo olungenacala, ngoba kukhona umugqa omuhle phakathi kwehlaya elihlekisayo nelibi. Amahlaya akufanele asetshenziselwe ukuhlekisa ngabanye abantu, noma ukubanikeza isiphuzo esibi.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane umehluko phakathi kwe ihlaya elibi futhi okungekho. Indlela engcono yokukwenza ngezibonelo, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela izingane zakho zizofunda ukuthi kungenzeka ukudlala amahlaya noma izilima, ngaphandle kokulimaza abantu. Futhi ukugubha lolu suku olubaluleke kakhulu eSpain nakwamanye amazwe amaningi aseLatin America, sikushiya le mibono yokuhlekisa ngo-Ephreli nezingane.
Abamsulwa abahlekayo
Lapho uzocabanga ngomuntu ongenacala, kufanele ucabange ukuthi ungazizwa kanjani uma bekwenza kuwe. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uzohlupheka, nokuthi ungazizwa uphatheke kabi futhi ulimale, kusho ukuthi ihlaya alihlekisi. Gwema noma yini engenacala engalimaza umuntu ozoyithola, ikakhulukazi uma kunezingane ezihilelekile. Kubalulekile ukuthi abancane bafunde ukuhlonipha abanye, esebenza ngozwelo nobumbano kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Lezi yi-Eminye imibono ehlekisayo ka-Ephreli Fool ukwenza nezingane:
- Kungasiphi isikhathi?: Shintsha isikhathi sewashi le-alamu Kuyihlaya elihlekisayo elingenziwa nezingane. Vele, qiniseka ukuthi ukushintshwa kwesikhathi ngeke kubangele ukubambezeleka okukhulu emisebenzini yalowo owamukela abangenacala.
- Olunye ulimi kuselula: Imayelana nokushintsha ulimi lwefoni ephathekayo, kufanele nje ufake amasethingi bese ukhetha ulimi oluhlukile. Kepha thatha qaphela lapho ukhetha ulimi, ngoba eyodwa iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu noma ehlukile ingawenza ube nzima umsebenzi wokubuyela emuva.
- Ibhili elinyakazayo: Labo abayinakekela kakhulu imali bazoluma ngokuqinisekile, babophe intambo ezacile kakhulu ekhoneni elilodwa lesikweletu. Vele kwesokunxele linda abangenacala bathole ithikithi, ihambise lapho uzoyithatha uzohleka kahle.
Qaphela abamsulwa abasindayo, ngoba okungaba mnandi kuwe, ngoba omunye umuntu kungaba yicala elibi kakhulu. Amahlaya noma abangenacala kufanele babe nesikhathi esimnandi, futhi uma othile ehlupheka nabo, umqondo wehlaya ulahlekile.