Ukuzizwa ukwesaba kungukusabela okungokwemvelo komzimba womuntu, indlela yokuqaphela ingozi ethile. Okuthile okuqala kusukela ebuntwaneni, lapho konke kungaziwa futhi kungaba yingozi. Eziningi zalezo kwesaba eziqala ebuntwaneni, ziphenduka inkampani embi engakuvumeli ukuthi ujabulele izimo ezithile.
Ngisho nalokho kwesaba, kwesinye isikhathi okungenasisekelo, kudluliselwa ezinganeni, okungaba yinkinga. Ngoba ukwesaba akulutho ngaphandle kokungavikeleki, ukungazethembi Lokho kubangela ukungazethembi. Kulungile ukuthi izingane zibe nalesosibonakaliso sesexwayiso sobungozi, kepha futhi kufanele zikwazi ukubhekana nalokho kwesaba, ngoba nakho kuyingxenye yenqubo yokuguga.
Yazi ukwesaba kwakho
Abazali, abantu abadala kanye nabantu abadala abakha isiyingi senhlalo yezingane, bangumthombo omkhulu wokufunda wezingane. Sivame ukubona ukuthi izingane ziphinda kanjani amaphethini afanayo nabazali bazo, noma sekuvuthiwe ziba inguqulo entsha yalokho okufundiwe kubazali bazo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kuyinto embi, inqobo nje uma ukufunda kukuhle futhi leyo nguqulo entsha ingcono.
Ukwazi ukwesaba kwakho kuzokusiza ukuthi ungakudluliseli ezinganeni zakho. Ngoba into eyodwa ngumsebenzi wakho njengomama noma ubaba, ukuvikela izingane zakho nokuqinisekisa ukuthi impilo yazo yinhle futhi ayinakho ukuhlupheka ngangokunokwenzeka. Kepha kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zibazi ubungozi bomhlaba Lokho kubazungezile. Kufanele bazi futhi babhekane nezinsongo, ngaphandle kosizo lwabazali babo, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi kuzovela izimo lapho kuzodingeka babhekane bodwa.
Ukusiza izingane zikhule kusho banikeze amathuluzi ukuze bakwazi ukuphatha noma isiphi isimo ngokwabo, futhi lapho ebhekene nokwesaba. Ukwazi ukuthi kuyini ukukhungatheka kuyithuluzi eliyisisekelo lokwazi ukuthi ungaxazulula kanjani izimo okuzodingeka ubhekane nazo ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho. Mhlawumbe ube nokuhlangenwe nakho okubi ngezinja ebuntwaneni bakho futhi manje uyazesaba, kepha lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kufane nezingane zakho, inqobo nje uma ungaziphenduli izingane ezesabekayo.
Izingane zakho zizoba nokwesaba kwazo
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo yilokho okusiza ukuba ukhule njengomuntu, izingane zakho zizophila ngokwazo futhi zifunde kuzo izifundo ezibalulekile. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele baphile ngokufana nawe, yize kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona okuzothunyelwa. Isibonelo, kumuntu owesaba amanzi, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi abavumeli izingane zabo ukuthi zihlole imikhawulo yazo emanzini, lokho kwesaba kuyadluliselwa.
Kodwa-ke, esikhundleni sokudlulisa lokho kwesaba ezinganeni zakho, ungakwenza ithuluzi lokufunda. Bangaba nokwesaba amanzi ngokwabo, kepha esikhundleni sokukhuthaza lokho kwesaba, thola indlela yokubhekana naye. Bathathe babhukude, baqale endaweni ethile engeyona ingozi kunolwandle, njengechibi elincane noma echibini. Thatha izifundo zokubhukuda, ukuze bakwazi ukubhekana nalolo kwesaba besendaweni ekhethekile.
Njalo kusuka enhlonipho, ekuqondeni nase ngaphandle kokuphoqa izingane ukuba zenze into ezingayifuni. Khuluma nabo kuqala, thola ukuthi yini ngempela abayesabayo, futhi ngokubambisana ningathola indlela yokubhekana naleyo nkinga. Kungase kudingeke ubhekane nalokhu kwesaba wena kuqala ukuze ube yisibonelo esidingwa izingane zakho.
Akungabazeki kukho konke ukuphila kwabo kuzovela izimo ezibasabisayo. Kepha uma unezinketho eziningi zokulwa nokwesaba kwakho, izimpi eziningi ongazinqoba nokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi ongakuthola kuyo yonke impilo yakho. Futhi lokhu kungafinyelelwa kuphela uma besebancane bafunda ukubhekana nokwesaba kwabo, ngokuxhaswa, ukuqonda nosizo lwabazali babo.