Lapho izingane ziqala ukusebenzisa amadivayisi anokuxhumeka kwe-inthanethiKubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi omama nobaba babekhona futhi bazi ukuthi bangasebenza kanjani "njengabaqondisi", ukuze kugwenywe noma kuncishiswe izingozi ezihambisana nokusetshenziswa okungafanele. Akungabazeki ukuthi kuneminyaka yakho konke, futhi izikhathi eziningi izinkinga ziza ngoba sibeka ezandleni zalabo abasebancane kakhulu, amathuluzi azobavumela ukuthi bazijabulise futhi baxhumane nabanye, kepha okudingeka ukuvuthwa okuthile.
Isibonelo, akuvamile ukuthi izingane nentsha engaphansi kweminyaka eyi-15 benze njengokucabanga ngemiphumela yezenzo zabo, ukungacabangi, ukuzama, ukushesha, ukufuna ubumnandi, kujwayelekile ebuntwaneni. yingakho kudingeka ukuthi bakhule futhi bathuthuke emakhaya nabantu abadala abavikelayo. Kulezi zinsuku sifunda izitatimende zomhloli weNational Police Corps wabiza u-Esther Arén, ekhethekile ekulweni nokuxhashazwa kwabantwana namacala obugebengu. Ngamazwi akhe, ongoti beluleka lokho akufanele sinikeze amadodakazi ethu namadodana abo amaselula abo ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-12.
Ngabe izingane zingayisebenzisa i-WhatsApp?
U-Esther usitshela nokuthi kuzoba ngcono kunezincane ngeke basebenzise iWhatsApp.
Ngokwemininingwane etholakala ku- ikhasi lesevisi: “Kufanele okungenani ube neminyaka eyi-13 ubudala (noma ubuncane beminyaka edingekayo ezweni lakho ukuze ube nokugunyazwa ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali)”; eseshilo lokho, lapho ingane engaphansi kwaleyo minyaka ilanda iWhatsApp kuselula yayo futhi yamukela imibandela, inkampani (kulokhu i-Facebook, engumnikazi) iyaqonda ukuthi abazali banolwazi futhi bayamukela.
Kepha ubalekela ubuchwepheshe futhi unamathele ekusebenziseni ingqondo, Yini iphuzu lokuthi ingane eneminyaka engu-9 noma eyi-10 ibe neselula yayo ngakho-ke iWhatsApp? Udinga ini? Futhi manje ngizibeka esimweni esingeqile lapho ubucabanga ukuthi omncane wakho uzoba nedivayisi entsha sha kanye nohlelo lwemiyalezo olwaziwa kakhulu nolusetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni ..., okungenani uzihluphe ngokuchaza amathiphu okusetshenziswa, bese usungula imithetho maqondana nalokhu.
Isinqumo sisezandleni zomndeni ngamunye: futhi asinakuliphika iqiniso elizungeze izingane zethu, futhi asiphoqelekile ukubanika i-smartphone ngoba "wonke umuntu ebangeni lami lesihlanu unayo" (khumbula ukuthi umqondo wokuthi "wonke umuntu unawo / wonke umuntu uyakwenza / bonke bayakuvumela them ”Kuyaphezulu).
WhatsApp, izingane nokuphepha.
Kulula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa ukuthi ilinge, kepha noma yiluphi ulwazi lungadluliselwa kwabanye oxhumana nabo ngumamukeli wayo. Angiweli ephutheni lokucabanga ukuthi abangani bezingane zami abaku-WhatsApp bakhohlisile futhi izimfihlo noma izithombe "ezixegisiwe" zizophelela kumadivayisi amaningi wezinye izingane esikoleni noma e-Institute, kodwa kungenzeka (futhi empeleni njalo lokho ukuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi okwabiwe nokusatshalaliswa). Ngale ndlela, indodana yami eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala isibe nomakhalekhukhwini kanye noWhatsApp unyaka, intombazane eneminyaka eyi-10 ayinayo, futhi ayisoze yaba nayo.
Ngakho-ke qaphela kakhulu okushiwoyo nalokho okuvezwayo: Kuhle ukuthi izingane nabantu abadala benze umsebenzi "wokufanisa ngengqondo" ngezikhathi ezithile: "zicabange ukuthi uzothini, uzokwabelana ngani, abantu abangu-50 bebezokubona. Futhi kathathu ngaphambili? " (Empeleni, ngamaqembu sisebenza ngokwehlukile kunalokho esikwenzayo ezingxoxweni zabantu nomuntu).
Futhi uma kwenzeka ungazi, ngokufinyelela ekusebenzeni kwe- "Izilungiselelo" zephrofayili yomuntu siqu, sithola ingxenye engaphansi kwe- "Akhawunti", lapho singashintsha ubumfihlo nokuphepha, ukuze abanye abantu abangenayo encwadini yezingcingo babone isithombe sephrofayili yethu, noma ukuze kungabikho owaziyo ukuthi sixhume isikhathi esedlule nini. Ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi kufanele uchithe imizuzu engu-15 wenza izinguquko.
Amathiphu amaningi
Lapho izingane zisencane, futhi zicela ukuba nomakhalekhukhwini kanye neWhatsApp, omama kanye / noma obaba bangavuma ukuthi babe namaqembu abo ocingweni lwakho, yisixazululo esihle esivumela ukuthi bazame futhi baqeqeshe ukusetshenziswa kwalokho okuyikho ingosi yokuxhumana nabantu (yize siyidalela uhlelo lokusebenza). Kuzoba lula kubo ukwamukela uma abadala bezibophezela ukuthi ngeke "bahlole" ezingxoxweni zabo, ngaphandle uma kudingeka kakhulu (ngokusola ukungahambi kahle).
Kungumqondo omuhle ukujwayela ukusula izingxoxo nezithombe ngezikhathi ezithile esikrinini, ngoba uma kwenzeka kwebiwa noma kulahleka, abanye abantu ngeke bakwazi ukwazi umsebenzi nge-WhatsApp, noma enye idatha egciniwe. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukusungula iphasiwedi yokuvula isikrini ngephethini noma ngephini, futhi uma kungenzeka kuxhunywe kwi-akhawunti ye-imeyili, ukuyithola kabusha uma bekukhohlwa.
Ungafaka ukulawula kwabazali noma izinhlelo zokusebenza ku-smartphone yengane ekugcina unolwazi ngalo msebenzi, kepha kimi ukuxhumana kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ngaphezu kokunikeza ukusondelana, singabuyekeza izeluleko esizinika abancane. Ngikubheka njengenhlanhla ukuthi namhlanje sineziteshi eziningi zokuxhumana, kepha kufanele sisebenzise ingqondo ngokuqhubekayo noma kancane ngokuqhubekayo.
Futhi ukuthi hhayi kuphela ukuthumela imiyalezo ngocansi, kunengozi futhi lokuzilungisa nokuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethiizehlakalo ezikhuphukile). Yiba yisibonelo ezinganeni ungavinjelwa nazo ziyizincomo okufanele zamukelwe.
Ekugcineni, ngithanda ukukutshela ukuthi ukuziphatha kwe-intanethi kungafaneleka futhi kube nempilo, kepha futhi kungaziphathi kahle, futhi kungabi semthethweni; Ngalo mqondo, makungabikho muntu okhohlwa ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-14 izibopho zobugebengu zibhekene nazo. Ngokushesha lapho ukhuluma nezingane zakho ngalesi sihloko, lapho bezilungiselela ngokwengeziwe ukusebenzisa i-cybercitizenship nokwenza amadivayisi ne-Intanethi, amathuluzi wokuthuthuka nokwakha ubudlelwano obakhayo nabanye abantu.
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