Lapho izingane ziqala ukusebenzisa amadivayisi anokuxhumeka kwe-inthanethiKubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi omama nobaba babe khona futhi bazi ukuthi bangaziphathi kanjani imihlahlandlela yedijithaliUkuze kugwenywe noma kuncishiswe izingozi ezihambisana nokusetshenziswa okungafanele. Akungabazeki ukuthi kukhona ubudala bezinto zonke, futhi ngokuvamile izinkinga ziyavela ngoba sibeka amathuluzi abavumela ukuthi bajabule futhi baxhumane nabanye ezandleni zalabo abasebancane kakhulu. kepha okudingeka ukuvuthwa okuthile.
Isibonelo, akuvamile ukuthi izingane nentsha engaphansi kweminyaka eyi-15 ubudala zenze izinto zicabanga ngemiphumela yezenzo zazo; lokhu kuyinto evamile ebuntwaneni. ukuphuthumaukuzama, ukushesha, ukuphishekela injabulo, kanye nesidingo sokuba yingxenye yeqembu. Yingakho kudingeka zikhule futhi zithuthuke emakhaya anabantu abadala abazivikelayo. futhi emkhakheni wedijithali, nokuthi bafundiswe ukuma kancane ngaphambi kokwabelana, ukuthumela, noma ukushicilela.
Kulezi zinsuku sifunda izitatimende zomhloli ovela ku-National Police Corps wabiza u-Esther Arénokuyinto ekhethekile ekulweni nokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kanye nobugebengu be-inthanethi. Ngokusho kwabo, ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukuthi akufanele sinikeze amadodakazi ethu namadodana abo amaselula abo ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-12Ezinye izinhlangano nochwepheshe batusa ngisho nokulibazisa ukufinyelela ngaphandle kokuqondisa kanye nokusetshenziswa okujulile kwezokuxhumana kuze kube yilapho umuntu esemusha, ngoba i-prefrontal cortex—ingxenye yobuchopho elawula ukushukuma komzimba kanye nokwahlulela okubucayi—isakhula.
Ngale nsizakalo yokuthumela imiyalezo, amadodana namadodakazi ethu angaxoxa, ashintshane ngazo zonke izinhlobo zamafayela (ikakhulukazi izithombe), acacise imisebenzi yasekhaya noma yesikole, futhi ahlele ngisho nemicimbi (amaphathi okuzalwa, ukuphuma nabangani, amaphrojekthi eqembu, njll.). Ihlelwe njengenkonzo yangempela inethiwekhi yemiyalezo yokuxhumana nabantu okudinga ukuqapha okujulile ngabazali, ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukulawula kwakho kanye nokuhambisana kwakho kubalulekile.
The ekahle kungaba linda kancane Ukuze indodana noma indodakazi yakho ibe nalolu hlelo lokusebenza, futhi yazi ukuthi imigomo yesevisi ye-WhatsApp ikhombisa iminyaka ephansi yokusetshenziswa kwalo (izingane zidinga imvume esemthethweni evela kubazali noma kubanakekeli bazo). Kodwa-ke, uma sinquma ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yethu ingaba nalo, into yokuqala okufanele siyenze lapho silufaka ocingweni lwabo lweselula ukuthi lungiselela ukuze ibe nokuphepha okuphezulu kakhuluFuthi kusukela lapho, kumelwe siqaphele ukuthi kuzodingeka siqaphele njalo, ngokujulile, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngokuxoxisana.
Ngabe izingane zingayisebenzisa i-WhatsApp?
U-Esther usitshela nokuthi kuzoba ngcono kunezincane ngeke basebenzise iWhatsApp kusenesikhathi kakhulu noma ngaphandle kokuqashwa komuntu omdala.
Ngokwemininingwane etholakala ku- ikhasi lesevisi, kukhona ubudala obuncane bokusebenzisa (noma iminyaka ephansi edingekayo yizwe ngalinye ukuze uthole imvume ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali); lokho kusho ukuthi, lapho ingane engaphansi kwaleyo minyaka ilanda iWhatsApp kuselula yayo Futhi uma abazali beyamukela imibandela, inkampani iyaqonda ukuthi bayazazi futhi bayazamukela, yize empeleni imindeni eminingi ingakaze ifunde le migomo.
Kepha ubalekela ubuchwepheshe futhi unamathele ekusebenziseni ingqondo, Yini iphuzu lokuthi ingane eneminyaka engu-9 noma eyi-10 ibe neselula yayo ngakho-ke iWhatsApp? Yini ngempela edingekayo ukuze ithuthuke? Ngokuvamile impikiswano eyinhloko ingcindezi yomphakathi (“wonke umuntu unakho”) noma ukuvunyelwa kwabantu abadala (“ngaleyo ndlela bangazisa ngayo lapho befika”), kodwa izingozi ezingaba khona ngokomzwelo, zenhlalo kanye nezomthetho azivamile ukucatshangelwa ngokujulile.
Manje ake sicabangele isimo esibi kakhulu lapho uke wacabanga khona ngengane yakho encane ukuthola idivayisi entsha kanye nohlelo lokusebenza lokuthumela imiyalezo olwaziwa kakhulu nolusetshenziswa kabanzi emhlabeni… Okungenani zikhathaze ngokumchazela amanye amathiphu okusebenzisa.Lokhu kuhilela ukusungula imithetho ecacile nokubukeza izinketho zobumfihlo ndawonye. Akusho ukumane uzilandele, kodwa kunalokho uzifundise ukuphatha indawo yazo yedijithali ngendlela efanele.
Isinqumo sisezandleni zomndeni ngamunyeAsikwazi ukuphika iqiniso elizungezile izingane zethu, futhi asibophekile ukubanika i-smartphone ngoba nje “wonke umuntu osebangeni lami lesihlanu unayo” (khumbula ukuthi umqondo wokuthi “wonke umuntu unayo / wonke umuntu uyayenza / wonke umuntu uvunyelwe” uthathwa ngokweqile). Kunengqondo kakhulu ukuzibuza ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yethu iyabonisa yini ukuzithibaKungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayayihlonipha yini imithetho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayakwazi yini ukubhekana nokukhungatheka nezingxabano ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inhlonipho ngabanye. Lezi zinkomba zibaluleke kakhulu kuneminyaka yabo eqondile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumelwe sikhumbule ukuthi ifoni ephathekayo akuyona nje ithuluzi lokwenza izingcingo: ihlanganisa amanethiwekhi omphakathi, imidlalo yevidiyo, imiyalezo, ukufinyelela ezindabeni, okuqukethwe kwabantu abadala, kanye neziteshi zomphakathi. Ukuyenza "isipho esikhulu" sokuqala ngaphandle kwenqubo eqhubekayo yesiqondiso kungayiguqula ibe yi-" ihhashi leTrojan ledijithali langempela: isango lokufinyelela kokuqukethwe kanye nobudlelwano abangakakulungeli.
I-WhatsApp, izingane kanye nokuphepha
I-WhatsApp kulula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa kangangokuthi iyaheha, kodwa noma yiluphi ulwazi lungathunyelwa kwabanye oxhumana nabo ngumamukeli ngemizuzwana embalwa. Angiweli ogibeni lokucabanga ukuthi abangani bezingane zami be-WhatsApp bayakhohlisa nokuthi izimfihlo noma izithombe "ezikhohlisayo" zizogcina zisezintweni eziningi zezingane esikoleni, kodwa kungenzeka (futhi empeleni kuvamile lokho) ukuthumela imiyalezo yocansi kuyabiwa futhi kusatshalaliswa, ngisho nalapho ekuqaleni kwakubonakala sengathi umdlalo wangasese phakathi kwabantu ababili).
Nokho, indodana yami eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala ibilokhu inocingo oluphathwayo kanye ne-WhatsApp unyaka wonke manje, kuyilapho indodakazi yami eneminyaka engu-10 ingenayo futhi ngeke ikwenze okwesikhashana. Lo mehluko awuyona into eyenzeka ngenkani, kodwa kunalokho uwukubonakaliswa kwabo... izinga lokuvuthwa, indlela abasingatha ngayo izingxabano nabangani, ikhono labo lokuhlonipha imithetho, kanye nendlela abasabela ngayo ekukhungathekeni noma ekudinweni ngaphandle kokusebenzisa isikrini njalo.
Ngakho-ke qaphela kakhulu okushiwoyo nalokho okuvezwayoKuhle kokubili izingane kanye nabantu abadala ukwenza umsebenzi "wokulingisa ingqondo" ngezikhathi ezithile: "Cabanga ukuthi lokho ozokusho, lokho ozokwabelana ngakho, kuzobonwa ngabantu abangu-50 noma abangu-500, awucabangi ngakho kabili noma kathathu kusengaphambili?" (eqinisweni, ngamaqembu Sisebenza ngendlela ehlukile kunendlela esenza ngayo ezingxoxweni zomuntu nomuntu, okwandisa umthelela womyalezo ngamunye).
Futhi uma kwenzeka ungazi, ngokufinyelela ekusebenzeni kwe- "Izilungiselelo" zephrofayili yomuntu siqu, sithola ingxenye engaphansi kwe- "Akhawunti", lapho singashintsha ubumfihlo nokuphephaUkusuka lapho, ungalawula, isibonelo, ukuthi ubani obona isithombe sephrofayela, ulwazi, isimo, isikhathi sokugcina ukubonwa, noma ufunde amarisidi. Ungaphinde ukhawulele ukuthi ubani ongangeza ingane emaqenjini futhi usebenzise ukuvikelwa okwengeziwe njengokuqinisekisa okuzinyathelo ezimbili. Ukuchitha imizuzu eyi-15 ubuyekeza lezi zilungiselelo ndawonye nezingane zethu kuyindlela eqondile kakhulu yokwenza lokhu fundisa ngokuphepha kwedijithali.
Ngaphezu kwezingxoxo namaqembu, i-WhatsApp ibilokhu ifaka izici ezifana nalezi uhlu lwemeyili kanye neziteshi zomphakathiLezi ziteshi zingaba yindawo yokungena kokuqukethwe okunobudlova, okuphathelene nocansi, ukuxhashazwa okukhulu phakathi kwezikole, noma izinselele eziyingozi ezisakazeka kabanzi. Kubalulekile ukuchazela izingane ezincane ukuthi, yize uhlelo lokusebenza lungabonakala luyindawo yangasese, kunezindawo ngaphakathi kwalo ezisebenza njengezangempela. izinkundla zomphakathi ngaphandle kwezihlungi ezifanele iminyaka yazo.
Ngakho-ke, uma ingane iqala ukusebenzisa i-WhatsApp, kungcono uma oxhumana nabo bokuqala... abantu abaziwayo (umndeni nabangane abaseduze) nokuthi amaqembu abahlanganyela kuwo aqondiswa abantu abadala abathembekile (isibonelo, ofunda nabo). Ukunciphisa usayizi wamaqembu ekuqaleni kunciphisa ukuvezwa ezingxabanweni, amahemuhemu, ama-meme alimazayo, noma imiyalezo edukisayo abangakakwazi ukuyihlunga.
Amathiphu amaningi
Uma izingane zisencane futhi zicela ifoni ephathekayo kanye ne-WhatsApp, wena nabanye abazali ningavumelana ukuthi amaqembu abo abe semafonini enu. Kuyisisombululo esihle esibavumela ukuthi ukuzama nokuqeqesha ekusetshenzisweni kwalokho okuyinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu (yize sikubheka njengohlelo lokusebenza). Kuzoba lula ngabo ukwamukela uma abantu abadala bezibophezela ekungahlolini izingxoxo zabo, ngaphandle uma kudingeka ngempela (ngenxa yokusolwa ngokungaziphathi kahle, izexwayiso ezivela kwabanye abazali, noma izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwengane).
Kumelwe uqiniseke nendodana noma indodakazi yakho ukuthi uzongena kuhlelo lokusebenza ukuze ubukeze izingxoxo zabo ngezikhathi ezithile, kanye nomthetho wokuthi kufanele bakubonise noma yini abayixoxayo ebenza bazizwe bekhululekile. ukungakhululeki, ukudideka, noma ukwesabaBakhumbuze futhi ngokubaluleka okuyisisekelo kokuvikela ubumfihlo babo, ukungathumeli izithombe zabo noma zabanye ezingaba yingozi, kanye nokungalimazi muntu lapho bephatha futhi beshintshana ngolwazi. Lezi zindinganiso ziba zibaluleke kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuxhumeka kweselula, ngoba konke okwenzekayo esikrinini kunomthelela ku umhlaba wangempela.
Kungumqondo omuhle ukujwayela ukusula izingxoxo nezithombe ngezikhathi ezithile esikrinini, ngoba uma kwenzeka kwebiwa noma kulahleka, abanye abantu ngeke bakwazi ukwazi umsebenzi nge-WhatsAppnoma yiluphi olunye ulwazi olugciniwe. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukusetha iphasiwedi yokuvula isikrini enephethini noma i-PIN, exhunywe kahle kwi-akhawunti ye-imeyili, ukuze uyithole uma uyikhohlwa. Lokhu akukhona nje ukugwema ukubuka amehlo ekhaya, kodwa ukuvimbela umuntu ongamazi ukuthi afinyelele ifoni yakho kanye ne- impilo yomuntu siqu yengane encane.
Ungafaka izilawuli zabazali noma izinhlelo zokusebenza kufoni yengane yakho ezikugcina unolwazi ngomsebenzi wayo, kodwa kimi, into ebaluleke kakhulu... ukuxhumana okuqhubekayoNgoba, ngaphezu kokukhulisa umuzwa wokuxhumana, singabuyekeza iseluleko esisinikeza izingane zethu njengoba izici zohlelo lokusebenza zishintsha noma kuvela izingozi ezintsha. Amathuluzi okuqapha angaba usizo, kodwa awathathi indawo yobuhlobo bokuthembana lapho ingane yazi ukuthi ingabelana ngokwenzekayo ngaphandle kokwesaba isahlulelo esisheshayo.
Ukukhawulela ukusetshenziswa kwe-WhatsApp ngangokunokwenzeka kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba uhlelo lokusebenza olubucayi kakhulu. umlutha Lokhu kungaholela ekutheni indodana noma indodakazi yakho inanyathiselwe ocingweni lwabo usuku lonke. Ngakho-ke, kulokhu, imikhawulo kanye nayo yonke leyo mithetho yokusetshenziswa okufanele esiyibekile ngezingcingo noma eminye imisebenzi yocingo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukubeka umkhawulo wokusetshenziswa kwansuku zonke nabo nokuwubhala phansi njengohlobo "lwesivumelwano somndeni" kuyindlela enhle yokwandisa nokugcina ukuzibophezela kwabo.
Ukubhukha nakho kubalulekile izikhala nezikhathi ezingenasikriniUkudla, isikhathi sokufunda, isikhathi sokulala, imisebenzi yangaphandle, ukuvakasha komndeni… Ngale ndlela, izingane ziyaqonda ukuthi ifoni imane nje iyithuluzi elibalulekile empilweni yazo, hhayi isikhungo sayo yonke into ezizoyichitha ziphumule, ubudlelwano kanye nobuntu bazo.
Izingane zikhangwa kakhulu ubuchwepheshe obusha kanye namathuba atholakalayo. Ukuxhumana okusheshayo nawo wonke umuntu kuyabathakazelisa, kodwa njengabazali, akumelwe nje siqaphele izingozi ezithile, kumelwe futhi sibe yizibonelo zendlela yokuzisebenzisa futhi sibe nokuqonda okucacile kwezinye izici ezibalulekile. iziqondiso zokusetshenziswa okufaneleUma umuntu omdala echitha usuku ku-inthanethi, ephendula imiyalezo yomsebenzi ngazo zonke izikhathi noma ebheka izinkundla zokuxhumana ngesikhathi sokudla kwakusihlwa, umyalezo ingane ewutholayo uwukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kuyinto evamile futhi efiselekayo.
Izingozi ezivamile: ukuthumela imiyalezo yocansi, ukuzilungisa, ukuxhashazwa ku-inthanethi, kanye nokuchayeka ngokweqile
Futhi ukuthi hhayi kuphela ukuthumela imiyalezo ngocansi, kunengozi futhi lokuzilungisa nokuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethiizehlakalo ezikhuphukileNgaphezu kwakho konke lokhu ukudalulwa ngokweqile kwempilo yabo yangasese, ukufinyelela kokuqukethwe okungafanele iminyaka yabo, ukuqhathaniswa okuqhubekayo nabanye, kanye nokusabalala okusheshayo kwamahemuhemu noma ukuhlaziswa ngamaqembu.
Emaqenjini e-WhatsApp esikoleni noma ekolishi, kuvamile kakhulu ukwabelana ngamahlaya noma ukugcona ngomfundi ofunda naye. Kungase kuqale njengento ebonakala ingenangozi, kodwa uma iphindaphindwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma ihlangana nokuthula okuvela kwabanye eqenjini, iguquka ibe yinto engaphezulu. ukuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayoKubalulekile ukuthi izingane ziqonde ukuthi ukuthumela ihlazo, ividiyo, noma isithombe esihlazisayo nakho kuzenza zibe nesandla ekulimaleni, noma ngabe azizange zikudale lokho.
Ngokufanayo, labo kithi abasebenzisa le nsizakalo yemiyalezo bayazi ukuthi izinto zivame ukujikeleza. akufaneleki ngisho nakubantu asebekhulileUdlame olusobala, okuqukethwe kocansi, ukugembula, inkulumo enenzondo, izinselele eziyingozi ezisabalalayo, noma izindaba ezingamanga konke kuyingozi. Ngakho-ke, kumelwe sibe nokulawula okuthile ngalokho izingane zethu ezikubonayo emaqenjini noma ezingxoxweni. Uma ubona okuthile okubona kungafanele, cela ingane yakho ukuthi ishiye iqembu noma ivimbele umuntu okuthumele, bese uchaza ukuthi kungani lokho okuqukethwe kungafaneleki kunoma ubani, ikakhulukazi ingane encane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukhulisa ulwazi lwabo ngokubaluleka ubumfihloInombolo yakho yocingo iwulwazi olubalulekile: akufanele yabelwane ngokunganaki ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma nabantu ongabazi, futhi akufanele ivunyelwe ukuthi isatshalaliswe ngamaqembu ngaphandle kwemvume. Akuyona futhi umqondo omuhle ukuthumela ulwazi oluningiliziwe ezimeni noma emaqenjini mayelana nokuthi uhlala kuphi, uphuma nini esikoleni, noma uya nini ohambweni, ngoba lonke lolo lwazi lungasetshenziswa abantu abanonya.
Umthetho uyaqaphela ukuthi izingane kanye nentsha banelungelo inhlonipho, ubumfihlo kanye nobumfihlo bokuxhumanaLokhu kusebenza nasezindaweni zedijithali. Ukunikeza ifoni ephathekayo nokuvula umnyango ku-WhatsApp akusho ukuyeka ukuvikelwa kwabo: njengabantu abadala abanomthwalo wemfanelo, sinomsebenzi wokubaqondisa, sichaze izingozi, sibeke imingcele efanelekile, futhi sibe yinetha lokuphepha abangaphendukela kulo uma benokukhathazeka.
Indlela yokulungiselela izingane ukuba zibe nefoni yazo ephathekayo futhi zisebenzise i-WhatsApp
Umama, ubaba, “Ngizoyithola nini ifoni ephathekayo? Wonke umuntu ekilasini lami usenayo kakade.” Lesi sikhathi sifika cishe kuyo yonke imindeni. Ngaphambi kokuphendula, kuyasiza ukuzibuza imibuzo embalwa: Uyidingani ngempela?Ingabe bazokwazi ukuhlonipha imithetho? Bazosabela kanjani ekukhungathekeni nasekudinweni ngaphandle kwezikrini? Ingabe thina njengabantu abadala sikulungele ukusekela le nqubo?
Ngokusho kokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi komndeni, abazali bavame ukunika izingane zabo ifoni yabo yokuqala ngaphambi kweminyaka abayibona ifanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inani elikhulu labazali liyavuma ukuthi alisebenzisi amathuluzi okulawula abazali noma ukubukeza okuqukethwe izingane zabo ezikusebenzisayo noma ukwabelana nabo. Ukunikeza izingane ifoni ephathekayo "enenkululeko ye-cyber" bese uzama ukuzifundisa ukuthi ziyisebenzisa kanjani akuvamile ukusebenza; ngokuvamile kudala izingxabano, izingxabano, futhi ngezinye izikhathi isidingo sokuyisusa ngokuzumayo ngemva kwesipiliyoni esibi.
Kungcono ukuklama indawo yokufinyelela kancane kancaneQala ngamadivayisi abiwe (amathebhulethi omndeni noma amakhompyutha), bese kuba ngama-akhawunti alawulwayo (isibonelo, ukusebenzisa inketho yedivayisi exhunyiwe ye-WhatsApp kuthebhulethi noma kwi-PC ngenkathi umuntu omdala ephethe iseshini eyinhloko), bese kamuva ucabangele ukusebenzisa ifoni yakhe ephathekayo enemithetho ecacile. Ngale ndlela, abasuki "eze" baye "konke" ngobusuku obubodwa.
Ngaphambi kokuba babe nefoni yabo, kuwumqondo omuhle ukukhuluma ngezihloko ezifana... inhlonipho ezingxoxweniUmehluko phakathi kwehlaya nokuhlazeka, ukubaluleka kwedumela ledijithali, ukubaluleka kokuphumula ngaphandle kwesikrini, ukulawula umona noma ukuqhathanisa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, imvume yokuthatha nokwabelana ngezithombe, kanye nezinyathelo okufanele zithathwe uma othile emhlupha, emsongela, noma emthumelela okuthile okumenza angakhululeki.
Kunconywa futhi ukuthi uvume kusukela ekuqaleni ukuthi abantu abadala bazokwazi ukuqondisa Lokhu kuhilela ukuqapha ukusetshenziswa kwefoni (isibonelo, ukuhlola isikhathi sesikrini, izinhlelo zokusebenza ezifakiwe, ukuthi bakhuluma nobani njalo, noma izinhlobo zamaqembu abahlanganyela kuwo). Kubalulekile ukuchaza lokhu ngokucacile, ukugwema ithoni yokuhlola nokugxila emcabangweni wokunakekelwa: "Ngenkathi usemncane, kungumthwalo wami wemfanelo ukukuqondisa empilweni yakho yedijithali."
Okokugcina, ngithanda ukukutshela ukuthi ukuziphatha ku-inthanethi kungaba okufanele futhi okunempilo, kodwa futhi okungafanele, futhi okungafaneleki; ngalomqondo, makungabikho muntu okhohlwa lokho Kusukela eminyakeni eyi-14, kucatshangwa ukuthi unecala lobugebengu.Ukwabelana ngesithombe esiseduze somuntu ofunda naye ekilasini, ukusakaza ividiyo ehlazisayo, ukuhlanganyela eqenjini lapho othile ehlukunyezwa khona, noma ukusongela othile ngemiyalezo kungaba nemiphumela edlula kakhulu isijeziso ekhaya noma ukuthethiswa esikoleni.
Uma usheshe ukhulume nezingane zakho ngalesi sihloko, lapho bezilungiselela ngokwengeziwe ukusebenzisa i-cybercitizenship Futhi ukwenza amadivayisi kanye namathuluzi e-inthanethi okuthuthuka ngawo nokwakha ubudlelwano obakhayo nabanye. Ukuvumela ingane ukuthi ibe nefoni yayo ephathekayo futhi isebenzise i-WhatsApp akusona isibopho, noma uphawu lokuthembana okungaboni, kodwa kuyisinqumo semfundo esidinga isikhathi, ingxoxo, ukuvumelana, kanye nesiqondiso sabantu abadala ukuze umhlaba wedijithali uhambisane—futhi ungathathi indawo—yempilo yayo yangempela.
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