Isiko lethu laseNtshonalanga lithanda kakhulu ukugubha izinsuku zokuzalwa zezingane njengoba zifika emhlabeni. Ukugubha impilo njalo kusho injabulo, ukuhlangana kanye nenhlanganyelo yezifiso ezinhle ukuze lowo mfana noma intombazane akhule ezungezwe uthando nempilo enhle.
Namuhla, kunanini ngaphambili, kukhona imboni yonke ezungeze imikhosi yokuzalwa futhi abazali akudingeki baphendukele emisebenzini yezandla ukuze banakekele inhlangano kanye nomhlobiso wephathi yonke. Phakathi kwezicelo nezitolo sinemibono nemikhiqizo esinayo. Ngakho-ke, uma usuku lokuzalwa lwengane yakho lusondela, sikushiyela okunye Imibono yokuhlobisa itafula lokuzalwa kwengane yakho.
Indlela yokuhlobisa itafula lokuzalwa kwengane yami?
Lapho indodana yethu noma indodakazi yethu isineminyaka ethile futhi inokunambitha okuthile, kungaba lula kakhulu ngathi ukuhlobisa yonke into, itafula kanye neqembu lonke. Ingabe uyayithanda i-Marvel, ingabe uyayithanda i-Disney, ingabe ungumuntu othanda i-anime? Bese umuntu ebheka izinto nemihlobiso futhi yilokho. Kodwa kwenzekani lapho eseyingane? Futhi uma engaphenduli lutho futhi lutho ngaphansi konyaka?
Mhlawumbe amabhaluni athile kanye nesibonakaliso esilengayo yizixazululo ezinhle, kodwa-ke ukugxila kwethu kugxile etafuleni lokuzalwa, lapho sizothatha khona cishe zonke izithombe ezibaluleke kakhulu zomcimbi. Ngakwakhe sizozithola sesicula ingoma ethi "Happy Birthday", sicime amakhandlela, sisika ikhekhe sifome nezinye izihlobo. Ngakho, yebo, itafula alikwazi ukushiywa ngaphandle komhlobiso. nazi ezinye imibono indlela yokuhlobisa itafula lokuzalwa.
Akukhathalekile ukuthi ngalolu suku lokuzalwa lokuqala uhlela iphathi enkulu noma umgubho osondelene kakhulu, phakathi komndeni nabangane, kunezindlela ezithandekayo zokuhlobisa itafula lokuzalwa.
Usuku lokuzalwa olujabulisayo akumele luhambisane ne-hype, ungakugcina konke elula, enemibala futhi ejabulisayo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Umntwana ngeke athathe imihlobiso emikhulu (amabhaluni yonke indawo, izimpawu ezikhanyayo), ukuze sikwazi ukulinganisa imihlobiso.
- Imibala eyinhloko: obomvu, ophuzi noluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka imibala eyinhloko. Ungayisebenzisela imihlobiso yokuzalwa futhi kuyoba yindlela elula neqondile yokukhanyisa indlu kanye netafula ikakhulukazi. Indwangu yetafula yepulasitiki yakudala, elahlwayo iwumqondo omuhle ngisho, embala oyinhloko enamabhaluni weminye imibala eyinhloko eboshelwe emilenzeni noma ezihlalweni. Ungasebenzisa futhi iphepha lale mibala elibhalwe igama lomntwana, uhlamvu olulodwa ephepheni ngalinye, isibonelo ngokulengisa phezu komnyango noma etafuleni ngokwalo. Futhi ungakwazi ukuhlanganisa konke lokhu ngezibuko, amapuleti kanye napkins.
- Imibala yesizini: Esinye isitayela sokuhlobisa usuku lokuzalwa esilula kakhulu ukugqoka indlu netafula ngemibala yonyaka, njalo ucabangela isikhathi sonyaka lapho ukuzalwa kwenzeka khona. Ungakwazi ukuhlobisa igumbi noma itafula ngemibala eyinhloko: obomvu, ophuzi noma osawolintshi uma kusekwindla, imibala eminingi ye-neon uma kusentwasahlobo nehlobo, okwesibhakabhaka uma kubusika obuningi.
- Izilwane: Amadada ahlala emnandi futhi ungakwazi ukuhlobisa itafula lokuzalwa kwengane yakho ngamadada: indwangu yetafula ephuzi, amapuleti, ama-napkin nezibuko ezithengwa ku-inthanethi, onodoli ababanga umsindo. Futhi uma unemali encane ungathenga amadada enjoloba amaningana futhi uwafake emhlobiso. Futhi zingaba isikhumbuzo sesivakashi. Ungenza okufanayo ngama-dinosaurs.
- Amabhaluni: amabhaluni ayi-classic eyamukelekile kakhulu. Kushibhile futhi kumnandi. Uma ungenayo izilwane ezifuywayo zingcono kakhulu. Ungakwazi ukubumba i-arch ukuze ilenge phezu kwetafula, ungakwazi ukuhlobisa itafula lonke ngamabhaluni noma wenze ichibi elincane eligcwele amabhaluni lapho ingane yakho noma ezinye izingane zingadlala isikhashana. Amabhaluni avela yonke indawo!
- imihlobiso eyenziwe ngezandla: Sishilo ekuqaleni ukuthi namuhla yonke into iyatholakala ku-inthanethi nasezitolo, kodwa singakwazi nokwenza imihlobiso ngokwethu noma nezivakashi. Uma kunezingane eziningi, ngezinye izikhathi abangani bethu banezingane futhi kukhona izingane yonke indawo, singakhipha amaphepha angenalutho nomaka, amapensela namakhrayoni ukuze bazijabulise. Phakathi kwale mihlobiso eyenziwe ngezandla ungangeza izinsimbi zomculo: i-maracas, izigubhu...
- Faka i- indwangu yetafula eluhlaza Ukulingisa utshani, izinkomishi ezilahlwayo nazo zizosatshalaliswa ziluhlaza kuso, lapho kuzonamathiselwa khona izimbali ezinemibala (ezinye izinkomishi sezivele zinomklamo ophrintiwe). Ama-napkin kufanele abe nezimbali ezimibalabala nezinemibala nazo zingangezwa kumapuleti.
- Ngaphezulu kwe- indwangu yetafula ephuzi, beka amapuleti amhlophe nezibuko ezinezinkanyezi nezinkinobho zeminenke yolwandle, ungashiya umugqa oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka endwangu yetafula, lapho ungafaka khona imidwebo yemikhumbi nezikebhe, ulingise ugu. Ngalesi sizathu, izingilazi zingathwala imicu emise okwesambulela.
- Ngaphezulu kwe- indwangu yetafula emhlophe, dweba izintuthwane, izimvemvane noma ezinye izinambuzane ezihlekisayo bese ucacisa indlela abahambe ngayo ukufika lapho ngomugqa onamachashazi amnyama. Lo msebenzi ungenziwa kuphela ezinhlangothini noma kuyo yonke indwangu yetafula. Uma ukhetha izintuthwane, izingilazi zinhle kakhulu ngokubomvu ngamachashazi amnyama amancane (noma izindawo ezinobukhulu obuhle ezimnyama).
Yiqiniso, le mihlobiso yetafula kufanele ihambisane naleyo yekamelo ngokujwayelekile, ngaphandle kwalokho kuyoba ukunambitheka okubi kakhulu, kuhlanganiswe kabi. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu kuphakanyiswa khetha isihloko esithile bese usuka lapho wenze ukuvezwa kwemibono.
Okokugcina, uma ungeyena uthisha wenkulisa ungakhathazeki, ungagcina isikimu sombala sakudala, esiluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma esipinki, noma ukhethe uthingo bese wengeza imibala eminingi, sebenzisa amabhaluni amakhulu kuphela futhi uma entanta kangcono, uma ukwazi Umumo. zezilwane nazo ziyanezela futhi uma sezinayo into eyintandokazi (incwadi, ithoyizi, i-motifs yesikhala njengezinkanyezi namaplanethi), ungayengeza njalo emhlobiso ukuze zizwela itafula lokuzalwa liyindawo engeyona eyezinye izizwe kodwa eduze.
Futhi hhayi ingane, kodwa izivakashi, singakwazi siqophe unyaka wethu wokuqala singabazali. Kanjani? Ekhoneni singalenga noma sinamathisele ezinye izithombe zalolo hambo olufushane kodwa oluqinile okuyizinyanga zokuqala zomuntu: ukuzalwa, amakhilogremu akhe okuqala, ukuthi balithatha kanjani ibele noma ibhodlela, isithombe esithile silele, esinye sikhala... lolo hlobo lwezinto.