Ubuzwe bezingane

Zonke izakhamizi kumele zifundiswe umqondo womphakathi, kepha lokhu kufanele kufakwe kusuka ku- izingane, kubenza baqonde ukuthi lokhu akuyona nje inkolelo-mbono, kodwa ingxenye yokuphila neyethu ukusebenza kwabo.

Amalungelo nemisebenzi, imithetho yokuhlela emadolobheni, ukubekezelelana, ukuhlala ndawonye, ​​intando yeningi, izindinganiso ezijwayelekile ... ziyingxenye ye isizotha ukuthi sonke kumele sihloniphe futhi lokho kudinga ukufakwa emfundweni yasekhaya nasekuqhubekeni esikoleni.

Ukuba yisakhamuzi kuyingxenye ebalulekile okufanele igxile ku imfundo yalo mphakathi. Izingane zingabokuqala ukuhlangana nalokhu kubaluleka okukhulu futhi basebenzise ukuze izenzo zabo zenziwe njenge isakhamuzi esihle. Ngenxa yokuziphatha okuhle, kwenziwa umzamo wokwazisa kakhulu ukuphathwa komuntu, ukuze kube mnandi futhi kwenziwa ngokuziphatha nokuhlonipha imithetho.

Ukukhuluma ngobuntu kubuye kukhulunywe ngobuzwe, uchungechunge lwemikhuba nenhlonipho okufanele ibe nomthelela emadolobheni. Kulokhu, kuyadingeka ukuqalisa imidlalo ezinganeni lapho lesi sici sikhona, Umuntu ozinikele futhi osekelayo endaweni efanayo yokuhlalisana uzokwaziswa.

Kungani kubalulekile ukuba izingane zifunde ukuziphatha okuhle?

Izingane ziwucezu oluyisisekelo lokufunda amagugu namasiko omphakathi. Kusukela besebancane, sebevele benza imikhuba yokuthola amakhono angcono kakhulu futhi basebenzise ukucabanga okujulile.

Kusuka ku izikhungo zokufundisaOthisha bahlela amavoti amancane ezindabeni ezingabalulekile kwesinye isikhathi, kodwa ezibafundisa ukubaluleka kwentando yeningi. Umehluko phakathi kokuziphatha okuhle nokubi emphakathini uyahlonishwa.

Isibonelo esihle chaza intando yeningi enganeni Kulapho ukhetho lukahulumeni lwenziwa ezweni, lokhu kungenziwa emsebenzini wekilasi, lapho, ungakhetha umongameli, imeya ... ukubalwa kwamavoti kuhlangene kakhulu yibo bonke, kubanikeza imizwa. futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukwazi ukulahlekelwa, ngaphezu kokubala abasemthethweni, abangavumelekile, kanye nenhlonipho yalabo ababengafuni ukuvota noma bakwenze ngokungenalutho. Lokhu ukumelela okukhulu komphakathi abahlala kuwo.

Amanani amahle kakhulu omphakathi okufanele izingane ziwafunde

• Uzwela: ukuzwelana nezinye izingane kungenye yezingxenye eziyisisekelo, kufanele ube nekhono lokuhlola imizwa yabanye abantu, ukwazi ukuqonda nokwenza esimweni esinjalo.
• Hlonipha: Kumelwe ufunde ukuphila emphakathini nangokuthula, ngisho noma abanye abantu benemibono efanayo noma imibono efanayo.
• Ukubekezela: Ngenye yezingxenye ezibalulekile, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungayihambisa kanjani imizwa yakho futhi ulinde lapho uzwa ukuphazamiseka okuncane. Uma uzizwa ukhathazekile ngokwenza noma ukuthatha izinqumo, kufanele uthathe isikhathi sakho futhi ulinde ukuthatha isinyathelo.
• Ukubonga: Kufanele njalo ubonge futhi ukwazise konke okwenzekayo. Umndeni uyingxenye ebalulekile futhi ungabonga ngokuba nomuntu okuthandayo, ukudla, amanzi ahlanzekile nabangane.
• Uxolo: Kuke kudingeke ukuthi uyeke ukuqhosha nentukuthelo yakho lapho othile ezwise omunye umuntu ubuhlungu. Ukuthethelela kuyinto engcono kakhulu ongayenza futhi kufanele wenze ngomusa kwabanye abantu.
• Ukuthobeka: Inhlonipho iyingxenye ebalulekile yokuthobeka. Akekho okufanele athathwe kancane ngenxa yesimo sakhe, isikhundla noma isigaba senhlalo. Ukufunda okulula lapho kungekho muntu okufanele azizwe emkhulu kunabanye.
• Ubuqotho nomusa: Njengoba imfundo ezikoleni nasemakhaya, umusa uyingxenye yalezi zindinganiso, ziyizenzo okufanele izingane zizijulise ngenhlonipho nangokuphana. Ubuqotho nabo buyingxenye yalemfundiso, njengoba kufanele bakhulume futhi baveze imizwa yabo ngomzwelo omsulwa, ngokucacile nangokulula.

Izingane kufanele zifunde ubuntu ngalezi zimo zengqondo

La ukuhlala ndawonye nabanye abantu kulo mphakathi, i inhlonipho nokuthobeka Ziyisihluthulelo sobuntu. Ezikhungweni zemfundo kuzosetshenziswa amanani athile, kodwa ekhaya kufanele futhi afunde imiqondo ebalulekile:

• Kukhona lokho phila ngokuzwana nabanye abantu kanye nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo ukuze sikwazi ukunakekelana. Kufanele futhi unakekele omakhelwane futhi uhloniphe imithetho yokuhlalisana endaweni ohlala kuyo, ngaphandle kokulahla udoti nokunakekela amanzi.
• Kukhona lokho bona amaphutha futhi ufunde ukuxolisa. Kufanele futhi ukwazi ukulalela abanye, ukuxoxa ngenhlonipho, ukunikeza umbono wakho futhi uvumele abanye babe nombono.
• Nikeza usizo ezinganeni nakubantu abadala lapho beneminyaka yobudala engaguquki, yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukunikeza usizo olungenasithakazelo.

Izingane zinekhono loku funda ngokuvumelana kusukela esemncane kakhulu. Esigabeni sezinsana, imfundo isivele inikezwe kusukela kokuyisisekelo, ngale ndlela, esikhathini esizayo lolu hlobo lokufundisa luyoba lukhuni kakhulu.

Uma befika ku okwesibili, Abantu abasha sebenawo amandla okufunda nokunaka abakufundile, kuyiqhaza labo lokuzibophezela komphakathi kulo mphakathi. Lapho befinyelela esikoleni esiphakeme nasemfundweni ephakeme kumele baphathe izindaba ezithile zentando yeningi, Bazoxazulula izingxabano zabo ngokwemvelo futhi bazokwazi amalungelo abantu. Ngakho-ke, indaba yokuziphatha okuhle kufanele kubhekwane nayo ngaphakathi kwesiteji neminyaka yengane ngayinye.

Kuyacaca ukuthi lolu hlobo lwemisebenzi engenziwa esikoleni, Kumele zipheleliswe ekhaya, ngoba uma ingane ihlala kude nenhlonipho emzini wayo, ngeke ikwazi ukuyiqonda ngaphandle kwayo. Uzobhekana nezinkinga zokungqubuzana kwabanye, ngoba ngeke wamukele ukuhlala ndawonye nokuhlonipha kukho konke.