Bonke abafana namantombazane baphila ngaphansi kwamathuba afanayo okuphila ngenjabulo nangokuzwana. Uma beya esikoleni banelungelo nethuba elifanayo lokubhekana nosuku lwe ukufunda nemidlalo. Ngoba kufanele umomotheke futhi ujabule futhi kubonakala sengathi kunezingane ezinozwela oluncane okufanele zikuhloniphe. Ukuze silwe nokuxhashazwa, sizochaza eminye yemisho engakhuthaza abantu abaningi ukuthi balwe nale nkinga.
Kuyini ukuqinela? Leli gama liya ngokuya lisetshenziswa olimini lwethu ukuchaza i ukuziphatha okunobudlova nokusabisayo ekhona phakathi kwezingane noma intsha esigabeni sayo sesikole. Akujabulisi ukuchaza lokhu kuziphatha, njengoba ukwenza kwakhe kugcizelela eqenjini elincane noma kumuntu oyedwa, lapho enza khona uchungechunge lwezenzo ezimbi, njengokuthuka, ukusongela ngamazwi, iziteketiso ezimbi, ukudlala kabi nobudlova obungokomzimba.
Akunandaba ukuthi zingaki izinyathelo zokuhlalisana nezakhiwo ezibekwa ezikoleni nasezikhungweni, ubuxhwanguxhwangu busekhona. Imishwana ekhuthazayo ingasiza ngezinga elikhulu, ukubhekana nalesi sikhathi futhi inikeze induduzo kubo bonke abantwana abaphethwe yiyo.
Imisho yokuqonda ukushiyeka kwabanye abantu
- "Ukuhlukumeza kuhlanganisa umuntu ongenakho futhi onolaka oveza ukungakwazi kwakhe kumuntu onekhono futhi onolaka" (Okungaziwa).
- “Abantu abazithandayo ababalimazi abanye abantu. Lapho sizizonda kakhulu, yilapho sifuna ukuthi abanye bahlupheke ”(Dan Pearce).
- “Izingane ezenza udlame ezikoleni zinezinkinga eziningi kunabantu ezibacasulayo. Bagwetshelwe ukuphila impilo egcwele isizungu, ubungane bamanga nezinqumo ezizobalimaza empilweni. Badinga usizo nabo."
- "Lowo osebenzisa amandla akhe ukwesabisa abanye, akakufanele ukubizwa ngesibindi, ngoba wenza ubuwula obubi kakhulu. Amandla awalinganiswa ngezenzo zobudlova, kodwa ngezinqumo ezithathwayo zokuwusebenzisa ngokuvuna labo abangakwazi ukuzivikela.
- "Ungalokothi wenze into engalungile ukwenza umngane noma ukumgcina." (URobert E. Lee)
- "Kuyinto evamile kumadoda anamakhanda aphakathi ukuhlasela konke okungangeni emakhanda abo" (Antonio Machado).
- "Abantu abangajwayelekile yilabo abangathandi muntu."
ukunika amandla imiyalezo
- "Akekho ongakwenza uzizwe ungelutho ngaphandle kwemvume yakho" (U-Eleanor Roosevelt).
- "Yenza okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile kube izinto ezinhle ezikusiza futhi zikwenze ukhule njengomuntu."
- "Vumela impilo yakho, ulwele ukuzimela, funa injabulo yakho ufunde ukuzithanda. Uma abantu bezama ukukudicilela phansi lokho kusho ukuthi ungaphezu kwabo."
- “Uma ubika icala lokuhlukumeza awuyena umnuku, unesibindi. Ukuthula kunokhahlo futhi kungabulala. Ungahlali ungenzi lutho. Yephula umthetho wokuthula. (U-Iñaki Zubizarreta, owayengumdlali we-basketball).
- “Ukunqoba ukuhlukunyezwa akwenzeki nje. Kwenziwa isinyathelo ngesinyathelo futhi kahle. Namuhla makube usuku uqala ukuqhubekela phambili." (Assunta Harris).
- "Nguye kuphela ongaguqula into embi njengobuxhwanguxhwangu ibe yisipiliyoni sokuzithuthukisa, ukuzethemba nokukhula komuntu siqu."
Imisho yokubonisa ubuxhwanguxhwangu
- "Mhlawumbe ngeke ushintshe umhlaba ngokusiza umuntu ohlukunyezwayo, kodwa uzoshintsha umhlaba walowo muntu."
- "Uma ubhala indaba yempilo yakho, ungavumeli omunye umuntu abambe ipensela."
- Ngisho noma ungenalo icala ngezinkinga zakho, unesibopho ngezixazululo zazo. Cela usizo!"
- "Uma umuntu ekuhlaselela lokho oyikho, yazi ukuthi kunezinkulungwane zabantu ababongayo ukuthi uziphilela iqiniso lakho" (Tyler Oakley).
- "Okungalungile akulungile, ngisho noma wonke umuntu ekwenza."
- "Isibindi sibonakala uma siyingcosana nokubekezelelana uma sibaningi."
- “Iphutha elivamile leziqhwaga ukucabanga ukuthi ngenxa yokuthi othile muhle noma muhle, abanamandla. Lezo zici azihlangene neze. Eqinisweni, kuthatha amandla amakhulu kanye nesimilo ukuze ube umuntu olungile." (Mary Elizabeth Williams).