Owesifazane uyisithonjana sesibindi nokuthuthuka. Sisekhulwini lama-XNUMX futhi kusese nendlela ende okufanele sihambe ngayo ukuzwa ukulingana ngokobulili. Sise siko elithuthukile futhi kuningi kakhulu ukunyakaza komphakathi okuhambele kowesifazane, lokho kubangela ukulahleka kwegunya nenhlonipho.
Kusukela endulo lo wesifazane ubelokhu engazideli futhi enomthwalo wokuba ngumama. Unikele ngempilo yakhe ngenxa yokufundisa izingane zakhe futhi unakho uvinjelwe amalungelo athile nentuthuko ukuze nje ugcine indima yokuba ngumama. Emakhulwini eminyaka adlule, abesifazane bakhombisile ukuthi bayakwazi ukuthatha nokwamukela izindima ezibalulekile nezibhekelekayo, yize bekuyindlela enzima, ethonywe yi-machismo.
Isinyathelo esincane emlandweni wabesifazane
Abesifazane abaningi baye bazizwa isidingo esibalulekile sokuqhubekisela phambili amaphrojekthi akho, ukulindela kwabo ekutadisheni futhi bathathe igxathu eliya enqubekelweni yabo ngoba akukho mikhawulo ebekiwe ekhonweni labo, kusho ukuthi akubona bonke abanesiphetho esihle. Kuyindaba esingayikhumbula kusukela ekugcineni okuyisiphetho kwe- IHypatia yase-Alexandria, umuntu omkhulu wezibalo nowezinkanyezi owabulawa ngesihluku, njengoba wazimelela njengesibonelo sowesifazane wesayensi okhululekile futhi ozimele.
Kepha ngaphakathi kwale ntuthuko encane singakhumbula ukufinyelela kwabesifazane eNyuvesi yaseSpainuku. KwakungoMashi 8, 1910 futhi wayenganikezwa ukufinyelela eMfundweni ePhakeme ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwemikhawulo nezakhiwo, ngoba yize wayekwazi phambilini, lolu hlobo lokufinyelela lwaluvinjelwe uqobo ngoba kwakucatshangwa ukuthi kwakungadingekileKunalokho, into ebaluleke kakhulu kuye ukukhulisa izingane zakhe.
NgoMashi 8, 2017, ihleliwe Isiteleka Sokuqala Sabesifazane Samazwe Ngamazwe. Isiphakamiso esisungulwe ngabesifazane abavela emazweni angaphezu kwama-50 sokubona ngeso lengqondo udlame lwezocansi ngazo zonke izinhlobo zalo nokuqukethwe, kulandela izihloko ezingeni lezocansi, amasiko, ezenhlalo nezombusazwe.
Ibinzana elifanele labesifazane
Futhi kungukuthi owesifazane ohlala njalo intekenteke, iyaqaphela, inikezelwe kulabo osondelene nabo kakhulu, inhle futhi isebenza kanzima awudingi lutho olunye ngaphandle kokuzuza izulu. Kepha noma zikhona zonke lezi zimfanelo zivuna wona, umphakathi uyakwazi kubangele lezi zifiso zivele ngendlela ephikisanayo. Kuyathopha futhi kuyakha ukuthi kunemishwana eyakhayo yokukwazi ukuhlala ujabulile futhi uyaziswa:
- Kufanele uphume endaweni "enethezekile futhi ethule," ukuze ukhule njengomuntu.
- Ngiyeka ukwesaba kwami, ukuziqhenya kwami, ukudideka kwami, ukuphikelela engikufisayo.
- Vumela impilo yakho izungezwe abantu abathandekayo, ungalokothi ube nentshisekelo.
- Ukuba yingqondo kudala imibuzo eminingi futhi kungabi nazimpendulo.
- Ngincamela ukuzisola ngezinto engizenzileyo kunokuba ngidabuke ngalezo engingakaze ngizenze.
- Ukuzibeka engcupheni ngalokho okuthandayo akumele kwesatshwe, kungokomuntu onokholo.
- Qaphela isizungu, hlukana naso; ungunina wazo zonke izono ezibulalayo.
- Ukubhekana nokwehluleka ungadangali futhi ulahlekelwe ukholo kuyindlela eqinisekile yokuphumelela.
- Ukubheka emuva kuletha kuphela izinkinga futhi kukuphazamise kulesi sikhathi samanje esihle ongasithokozela.
- Akekho ongakwenza uzizwe uphansi ngaphandle kwemvume yakho.
- Abesifazane bayichibi elikhulu lamandla nethalente okusamele lishaywe.
- Uma uyeka ukwesaba kwakho uzothola ukuthi kulula ukwakha wonke amaphupho akho, kwesinye isikhathi, isitha sakho esibi kakhulu nguwe.
- Asizalwa njengowesifazane, siba munye. USimone de Beauvoir.
- Imfihlo yowesifazane ilula kakhulu. Abalokothi badikibale.
- Uma amaphupho akho emakhulu kungenxa yokuthi namandla akho wokuwafeza nawo futhi.