Ukunakekela nokunakekela izingane okungezona ezakho futhi ukuba umzanyana omuhle kudinga ukuzibophezela okuningi ngumnakekeli. Kufanele wazi ukuthi abazali balesosidalwa babeka impilo yomuntu obaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zabo ezandleni zakho ngakho-ke, balindele ukuthi ubanakekele labo bantwana njengokungathi ngabakho. Uma ufuna ukuba ngumgcini wezingane, kufanele ufeze izinto ezinjengomthwalo wemfanelo noma ukuzibophezela, ngoba ukunakekela izingane zabanye abantu akuyona into elula.
Uma ufuna ukufuna umsebenzi wokuba ngumnakekeli womntwana, kungaba ngoba ufuna ukuthola imali ethe xaxa noma ngoba uthanda izingane futhi ufuna ukuthi lokhu kube ngumsebenzi wakho, ungaphuthelwa yilezi zeluleko. Zizoba wusizo olukhulu lapho ulungiselela ukuba ngumzanyana omkhulu, ochwepheshe futhi no amandla amakhulu okuhambela nokunakekela izingane ukuthi bazokushiyela icala lakho.
Izimfanelo ezibalulekile ukuze ube umzanyana omuhle
Ukusebenza nezingane kuhilela umthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo, kepha ukuba umzanyana akukhona nje ngokubuka ukuthi abancane abangawi noma ulahleke.
Uma ufuna ukuba umzanyana, kufanele ube nalezi zimfanelo ezilandelayo:
- Kufanele uthande izingane. Yize kubonakala kusobala, kubantu abaningi ukugcina izingane kuyindlela yokuthola imali eyengeziwe. Iphutha elikhulu ngoba uma ungazithandi izingane, kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukubhekana nobuntu bengane encane.
- Kufanele uzimisele futhi uzimele. Lokho wukuthi, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungazinakekela kanjani izingane ngaphandle kokuthi uphendukele kubazali ungangabazi nakancane. Kufanele uhlale unemihlahlandlela yabazali, zama ukulandela leyo mihlahlandlela kepha futhi kufanele ukhombise isinyathelo.
- Thobela imithetho ngokuzibophezela. Imithetho yabazali akufanele neze yephulwe, uma ingane oyinakekelayo ingakwazi ukudla amaswidi, ingakwazi ukulala sekwephuzile noma ingakwazi ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo, kufanele uyihloniphe imithetho futhi uqine.
- Unothando, inhlonipho nokuhleleka. Lezi yizimfanelo ezenza umzanyana omkhulu abe umzanyana omkhulu. Ukuze usebenze nezingane kufanele ube nothando kodwa futhi uqine, kufanele ukhulume nazo ngendlela ezokwazi ukuyiqonda. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ufundiswe, izingane zizochitha isikhathi esiningi nawe futhi kufanele ube yisibonelo kubo. Ngokuqondene nokuhleleka, kubalulekile ukuthi ugcine ukuhleleka ekhaya lapho usebenza khona, kepha futhi nalapho ulandela amashejuli nemikhuba yezingane.
- Kufanele ube ngumuntu omnandi futhi ophilayo okwezingane. Ukuze ukwazi ukudlala nabo futhi ubenze babe nezikhathi zobumnandi, futhi uma nazo zifundisa, zingcono kakhulu.
- Isiguli. Kuzodingeka ube nokubekezela okuningi ukuze usebenze nezingane, phatha intukuthelo yabo noma izikhathi zakhe zenkani. Kumele wazi ukuthi bayizingane nokuthi, noma kufanele uzilalele futhi uzithulise, akumele unikeze imicabango yazo.
Ungazigwema kanjani izingozi ngenkathi ugcina izingane
Inhloso enkulu yalowo ogcina izingane ukuvikela izingane azinakekelayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqaphele kakhulu futhi ube nesibopho. Yize izingozi zenzeka futhi kuvamile ezinganeni, kufanele qaphela kakhulu ukugwema noma yikuphi ukubuyela emuva.
- Musa ukugqoka ubucwebe lokho kungalimaza lapho ubambe izingane noma udlala nazo.
- Phatha izipikili ezifakwe kahle futhi unakekele ukugwema ukuklwebheka.
- Hlanza izandla zakho njalo ukuthi uzophatha ukudla okuzodliwa izingane, nangaphambi nangemva kokushintsha amanabukeni.
- Uma uphuma endlini, akufanele ulahleke ngisho umzuzwana. Ungabavumeli bangene endlini yangasese yomphakathi bodwa, ungabashiyi bodwa uma kufanele ungene.
- Bhekisisa lokho iminyango ivaliwe ngokuqinile inqobo nje uma ungaphakathi ekhaya lomndeni. Ungavuli umnyango kunoma ngubani ongamazi.
- Ungalokothi ushiye izinto eziyingozi esandleni wezingane. Uma udlala ngesikele, ngopende noma enye into, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ibe ngaphansi kweso lakho. Uma uqeda ukudlala, qoqa konke bese uqinisekisa ukuthi izingane azifaki lutho emilonyeni yazo.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba umzanyana omuhle ukuziqeqesha. Uma ufuna ukuthi lo kube wumsebenzi wakho, funa izifundo zemfundo yasekuqaleni futhi ufunde ukuze ukwazi unikezela ngemisebenzi ephelele nekhwalithi emindenini ukuthi zikuqasha ukuthi unakekele izingane zazo.