Namuhla owama-21 ungo Usuku Lomhlaba Wonke Lokukhumbula Nokuhlonipha Abahlukunyeziwe Bobuphekula. Kuyisenzo esinesihluku esiqhubeka ukwenzeka namuhla futhi ngenxa yalokho ubhekene nezindaba ezinesihluku zokuthi ukubulawa kwakhe kucasuliwe ukuze enze umonakalo othile ngesihluku. Njengomphumela walokhu, uzohlala ubona izithombe zokonakala kwempahla nalapho kungahle kube khona ukufa.
Njengosuku lokukhumbula ubushokobezi, akumele sikhohlwe ukuthi lolu hlobo lwezinkumbulo kumele bakhuliswe ngokuzwakalayo ukukhalaza ukubulawa kwabo kabi. Izingane ezingabahlanganyeli kuzo zonke izinhlobo zolwazi ziyisisekelo sokubona ukuthi zikhona futhi zikhona lezi zinhlobo zezinkinga emhlabeni.
Ungayitshela kanjani ingane ukuthi yini ubuphekula?
Kunzima ukuzama ukusikisela ngokwakho ukuthi isenzo sobuphekula siyini. Ngisho nabantu abadala ngokwabo bakuthola kunzima kaningi ukuthola ukuthi kungani ukuba khona kokuziphatha okuthile, ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuthi kanjani nokuthi kungani, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu lapho kuvela ukuthi kube nezisulu.
Ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma ngobushokobezi, uma umcimbi usanda kwenzeka, kusobala ukuthi ingane izoba nolwazi lwezindaba ekhaya, noma ngaphandle, ezungeze impilo yakhe yokuzijabulisa nabangane noma esikoleni. Futhi sinesibopho sokunikeza lezo zindaba futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ngaphandle kokudala ukwethuka nokudideka..
Kungcono ukukhuluma iqiniso njalo, singadala "okuncane" komdlalo ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi isenzo esibi impela, kepha ngaphezu kwakho konke ungafaki ukwesaba. Ingane kufanele ihlale izizwa ivikelekile futhi isondele kubantu abayizungezile.
Amathiphu okufanele uwalandele
Okwamanje bayayibona, noma ngabe kungukubukwa kwezindaba, kufanele ubavumele bakhulume futhi baveze imizwa yabo esimweni esinjalo. Uma bengazange baqoqe yonke imininingwane futhi baqhubeke babuze, Akulungile neze ukuzama ukushiya izinhlobo ezithile zolwazi, kepha kuyiqiniso ukuthi akufanele uqambe amanga. Ingane kufanele iphile endaweni ezolile kepha hhayi eyamaphupho nengokoqobo.
Kuyadingeka ukutshela umcimbi ngokuphepha okuphelele, ukukhombisa izindaba ngokuzithoba okuphelele nangesilulumagama ngokweminyaka yengane. Okokuqala, kufanele sibonise ukucasuka kwethu futhi sivumele imizwa yethu iziveze. Izingane kufanele ziqaphele izinhlobo zemizwa futhi zizizwe zizwelana.
Kulula kubantu abadala ukuthi bakhombise imizwa njengokungakwazi ukuzisiza lapho bebhekene naleli qiniso, kulandelwe ukudabuka okukhulu, ubuhlungu nentukuthelo. Ekugcineni ukwesaba kungenye yezinkinga ezikhona, kepha kufanele wazi ukuthi ungakulawula kanjani ngokuqapha okukhulu. Kungakho kungalokothi kube buhlungu kubo ukuthi futhi bakhombise imizwa yabo bese beyetha amagama, ukuze bazi ukuthi kufanele bazi kanjani ukuthi bangazicubungula kanjani.
Khuluma nezingane ngamagugu
Amanani yilokho okufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kuhambisane nakho konke okungenhla. Kumele sikhulume ngokuthula, ubumbano kubantu, inhlonipho futhi ngaphezu kwayo yonke inkululeko. Intela ethembekile yenhlonipho kumele ikhokhwe kubo bonke abahlukumezekile nemindeni yabo.
Ezingeni eliphakeme nangamagama ngokusho kwengane, kunganikezwa imininingwane esekelayo engaqhubeka kakhulu. Kumele zama ukuchaza ukuthi abantu abanamandla onke, kodwa kusezandleni zethu ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi sibe nohlelo lwamasu lokuzama ukulwa nobuphekula.
Kuzohlala kubambene ngezandla yizizwe ezinkulu kanye nezikhungo dala amazwe angamalungu ukusiza ukuvimbela nokulwa nazo zonke izinhlobo zezenzo zobuphekula emhlabeni jikelele. Kungakho-ke sonke kumele sihlangane ukuze sisebenzise ilungelo labantu lokuthi bakwazi ukuphila futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke silwe nobuphekula