Ukusiza izingane ukufeza izinhloso zazo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi empilweni yazo zizokwazi ukuphatha izifiso zazo futhi zisebenzise amathuluzi adingekayo ukuzifeza. Kungani umuntu udinga imigomo nezinhloso ezisho umzamo, lowo ekugcineni oletha umvuzo futhi enze impilo ihlale iba nenjongo. Ukuphela okuphoqa ukuthi usebenze kanzima futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukukufeza.
Lokhu kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyifaka ezinganeni. Njengoba bebancane kumele bafunde ukuzibekela imigomo yokuhlangabezana futhi akukho okungcono kunosizo lwabazali lokukufeza. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungazisiza kanjani izingane zakho zifeze izinhloso zazo? Nawa amanye amathiphu awusizo okuzoba wusizo olukhulu kuwe.
Yini imigomo nokuthi ungasiza kanjani izingane ukuba zihlangabezane nayo
Umgomo kuyinselele, inhloso, ukuphela okubandakanya umvuzo othile. Lokhu kungaba iqiniso lokufeza inhloso, yize impilo yonke imigomo esebenza kwamanye amazinga afana nomsebenzi, nayo ifaka imivuzo ebaluleke kakhulu. Ubuhle be ukuzuza okusemandleni akho, umvuzo womzamo, kuyinto eyisisekelo empilweni yanoma yimuphi umuntu, neyabantwana.
Ukusiza izingane zakho ukufeza izinhloso zazo, kufanele uqale uzifundise ukuthi ziyini lezo zinhloso. Lapho besebancane kakhulu, izinhloso zabo zingaba lula njengokugqoka nsuku zonke noma bakwazi ukuqeda iphazili noma umdlalo othile wokwakha. Kungenxa yalezo zikhathi lapho ukwazi khona khombisa izingane zakho futhi uzifundise ukufeza izinhloso zazo, Qaphela lawa macebiso.
Vumela izingane zakho zizenzele izinqumo
Okusho ukuthi kungavimbeli izingqinamba eziyinselelo kubo, noma ngabe kungabonakali njengokufanele kuwe. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka ezinganeni ezindala, lapho seziseminyakeni yobusha futhi zidinga ukuthola ukuthi yimiphi imikhawulo yazo. Fundisa izingane zakho ukwenza uhlelo, ukuthola indlela yokuhlangabezana nomgomo wakho noma ngabe kubonakala kungasile kangakanani. Uma ingane yakho ikwazi ukufinyelela umgomo, kungahle kungabi umqondo osile kanjalo.
Bungaza yonke impumelelo noma ngabe incane kangakanani
Ukufinyelela izinhloso kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ubungaze impumelelo ngayinye encane nezingane zakho ukuze zizizwe zikhuthazekile futhi zikhuthazekile ukuqhubeka. Ukwenza umgomo ufinyeleleke kakhudlwana, ifundisa izingane ukuzibekela izinhloso zesikhathi esifushane, esiphakathi nesikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke bangajabulela impumelelo yonke indlela.
Gxilisa ezinganeni zakho ukubaluleka komzamo
Ukunikela phakathi nendawo yinkinga enkulu abangabhekana nayo. Lapho bengazi ukuthi baqhubeke kanjani, cLapho belahlekelwa yisisusa noma lapho bezizwa bengakwazi, kumele bezwe ukusekelwa kwakho namandla akho okuzwa ukuthi bayakwazi. Umzamo uyisisekelo sanoma ikuphi ukuzuza, ngoba uma kungekho mzamo awukho umvuzo. Fundisa izingane zakho amanani afana nomzamo noma ukusebenza.
Yiba yisibonelo ezinganeni zakho
Indlela engcono yokufundisa izingane yisibonelo. Uma izingane zakho zikubona uzenzela uhlelo futhi usuku nosuku zibona ukuthi ulwela kanjani ukukufeza, zizokwazi ngokwengeziwe ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukusebenza kanzima ukuthola okufunayo. Hlala nezingane zakho futhi kuphakamisa umqondo wokuthi ngamunye ubeka umgomo, inhloso ufuna ukufeza.
Isibonelo, ingabe ungomunye womama abaningi abaphindaphinda njalo ekhaya ukuthi ufuna ukuzivocavoca kodwa ungakwenzi? Yebo, lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokufundisa izingane zakho ukuthi nawe uyakwazi ukuzibekela umgomo futhi usebenzele ukuwufinyelela. Uma izingane zakho zikubona udlala imidlalo nsuku zonke, noma ngabe banesifiso noma amandla amancane kangakanani, bazoba nogqozi phambi kwamehlo abo lokuthi basebenzele ukufeza zonke izinhloso zabo.