Kubazali abaningi kuyimpumelelo enkulu ukubona ukuthi izingane zethu ziyazilalela izicelo zethu, uma kuziwa ngemfundo nangenxa yentuthuko yabo. Into ecasulayo yilapho benqaba ukuthobela imithetho eyisisekelo, njengokulala ngesikhathi, ukudla ukudla, ukucosha amathoyizi abo ... futhi lokho kuyasidina futhi kusenze siphelelwe yisineke. Uma endlini yethu imithetho sekunzima ukulandela, Kuzokwenzekani uma beya esikoleni? Futhi uma kukhona nezikhalazo ezivela kuthisha zokwephula imithetho, zenziwa kanjani izingane zilalele ekilasini?
Mhlawumbe indlela yethu yokufundisa ngendlela ethile yenza izingane bored neziphakamiso zethu. Lapho beguqula isimo sabo futhi besesikoleni esigadwe nguthisha, imithetho iyasetshenziswa zibekezeleleka kalula kakhulu. Kepha kukhona izingane ngokwemvelo yazo ezinaleso similo sokuhlubuka futhi ezingafuni ukulalela ekilasini.
Kungani izingane zingalaleli?
Sicabange impela ngaphezu kwesisodwa abalaleli, ukuthi sibatshela into efanayo amahlandla angamashumi amahlanu futhi abalaleli. Kukhona inkinga, uma bedinga ukulalela isicelo sethu amahlandla ayishumi ukuze bakwazi ukwenza okuthile, bazohlala belindele ukuthi sibatshele. Izikhathi eziningi lapho kudingeka. Ekilasini othisha bavame ukuba buthakathaka, kufanele uthobele owokuqala futhi ikakhulu owesibili, uma kungenjalo kukhona isixwayiso.
Indlela yokucela izinto noma iqiniso lokuphatha okuthile lenza izingane eziningi angazi ukuthi ungaqonda kanjani lapho igunya likhona womuntu lapho kufanele balalele. Izikhathi eziningi kufanele udonse uthando nobuciko ukuze ezinye izinhlobo zezinhloso ziyenziwa. Ungaba muhle ngokucela izinto ungamemezeli, ngale ndlela yonke into ingaqala ngomkhondo ofanele.
Yini okufanele uyenze ukwenza izingane zilalele ekilasini?
Kunezingane ezithi bangakuguqula ukuziphatha kwabo. Sibuyekeze isimo sokungalaleli kwengane lapho isekhaya. Kepha mhlawumbe ingane iyalalela ekhaya nasesikoleni yenza okuphambene nalokho. Kulokhu kuyadingeka ukukuhlaziya lokho akukho lutho olwehlisayo futhi lokho kumosha ikhanda lakho.
Kufanele kube khona ifayela le- ukuxhumana okucacile phakathi kwabazali nesikole. Ngalesi sikhathi, inhloso kababa noma umama kufanele ibuyekezwe maqondana nesimo sengqondo sengane yabo futhi ibheke okwenzeka ekilasini. Kulokhu, izizathu nokuziphatha kwabo kwansuku zonke kufanele kuhlaziywe ngokuningiliziwe.
Kunezingane eziza zingashukunyiswa ngoba aziphumuli kahle. Akukho mkhathi omuhle ekhaya, kunengane emphazamisayo noma umaqondana omphazamisa kakhulu. Zonke lezi zibonelo zingaba izizathu ezanele zengane uziphathe ngokungabikho futhi uthanda ukuba yindlela yakhe.
Kungalandelelwa kusuka ekhaya ngokuziphatha okuhle nokubi kwesigaba. Uma ekilasini kunentuthuko ephumelelayo futhi ingane iyalalela, kungakhiwa ithebula lamaphuzu amahle lokho kungashintshaniswa ngento oyithandayo futhi ekugqugquzelayo.
Umfana noma intombazane kufanele ifundiswe lokho ungaba umfundi omuhle nokuthi ukulalela kungakha ukuqiniswa okuhle. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ugcine engqondweni ukuthi kufanele njalo thobela umuntu omdala futhi ngale ndlela wenze ezinye izingane zibone isimo esifanayo sokulandela isibonelo esifanayo.
Sabemos que isiyalo ayisebenzi kahle nawo wonke umuntu. Kunezingane okuthi ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene nendlela yazo yokuphila seziyinkinga. Banomlingiswa onzima noma ngoba kunezinkinga ezibazungezile ezizishintshayo. Kunabazali abafuna ukwesekwa ngokwengqondo ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi ingane yabo inenkinga yokunakwa, futhi akukho okungaphezu kwalokho okubonakalayo okungaba ngokoqobo. Okubalulekile ukuthi sebenza ingane ngaphakathi, ngokubekezela, positivism nothando. Zonke lezi zinto zingashintsha indlela ingane ebukeka ngayo.