Ingane ifunda ngokulingisa. Eqinisweni, lapho izingane ziphakathi kwezinsuku eziyi-12 nezingama-21 ubudala, sezingakwazi ukulingisa ukushukuma komzimba nobuso. Ukusuka lapho bazolingisa ukushukuma komzimba, izinkulumo, imisindo, amagama, ukusabela, ngisho nemizwa. Bakopisha kokubili okungalungile nokuhle okuvela kubangani babo benkulisa noma kothisha babo. Kepha izibonelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zitholakala ngaphakathi kwengqikithi yomndeni.
Noma kunjalo kuneminyaka lapho ukulingisa kucishe kungabi namkhawuloUma ingane yakho ikuleso sikhathi, futhi ilingisa ezinye izingane, abantu abadala, izingane zakini ezindala, sizokutshela ukuthi kungani kunjalo. Futhi sichaza ukubaluleka kwama-mirror neurons ezinqubweni zokufunda.
Lapho kuqala isigaba sokulingisa yonke into
Cishe eminyakeni emithathu, umfana noma intombazane izolingisa ngaphandle kwemingcele. Ukulingisa kuzoba indlela yakhe yokuphila. Akudingeki ukhathazeke uma ingane yakho ilingisa ezinye izingane ngoba kuyingqophamlando yokukhula. Ingane iyalingisa ngoba ibabaza, ibone futhi ibone ukuthi kunezinto ezenziwa eduze kwayo efuna ukuzenza.
Ingane ufuna ukufana nabanye futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzolingisa abantu abadala ngoba ufuna ukuba mdala. Isikhathi sokudlala omama, obaba. Imvamisa uzothanda ukushukuma okuthile, izenzo, noma izibalo ezikubangela lokhu kuthandwa. Lokhu kuncoma kufaka futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, abafowethu abadala.
Ngalesi sikhathi abancane, nabancane, kumele bazizwe benenkululeko eyanele yokuhamba ukuze bakhethe izinhlobo zokulingisa. Ungazigodli ukulingisa kwabo. Sivele siphawule kwezinye izikhathi ukuthi kufanele sisize ingane ukulawula ukuziphatha kwayo ngemithetho ehlelekile, kepha akufanele ibe miningi kakhulu noma icindezele kakhulu.
Ingane yami ilingisa ezinye izingane Kungani?
Sonke silingise abanye esifunda nabo, noma imisebenzi yesikole, ebesifuna ukubukeka futhi sibazi. Inkinga engavela lapho iningi abancane bazizwa benesifiso eseqile sokwenza ngokuhlanganyela. Lokhu kungaba ngumkhawulo wamasu amasha nobuciko, ikakhulukazi kwabancane.
Endabeni yezingane ezinayo abafowethu noma odade asebekhulile, lokhu kuzoba ngumuntu oyinhloko ongamlingisa ekhaya, phambi kwabazali bakhe. Uzobona isibalo se- umfowethu osondele kakhulu kubo, ulingana nobani abathandayo nabazizwa bezinikele kuye. Umfowethu omdala uzoba nguthisha ozosiza ekufundeni okuningi.
Uprofesa we-psychobiology Manuel Martín Loeches, uzithethelela lezi zindlela zokulingisa ngaphandle nangaphakathi komndeni, echaza ukuthi izisusa zabantu ezenhlalo. Isifiso sokuphumelela noma ukuncintisana ukuthola izinsizakusebenza kuyo yikhona okuholele kulokhu kuziphatha.
Kuyini ukulingisa?
Sizokuchazela ukuthi kuyini ukuthi ingane ilingise ezinye izingane, noma abantu abadala. Ngale ndlela uzoqonda kangcono ukuthi kungani ingane yakho ikwenza. Izingane ziqala zibheke futhi zibuke, bese ziyafunda, bese ekugcineni zilingisa. Ngenxa yalokhu, bathola amandla okwenza lokhu sebenzisa amathuba akho okuveza.
Le nqubo yokulingisa, esivele siyikhombisile, yenzeka kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuzalwa kungenxa ye- izibuko ze-mirror, itholwe nguGiacomo Rizzolatti. Ama-Mirror neurons awuhlobo oluthile lwezinzwa ezivuthayo lapho noma ngubani enza isenzo, kepha futhi ziyasha lapho sibona isenzo esifanayo. La ma-neurons wezibuko anika amandla ukuqonda-kwenhloso-kwemizwa ukubona. Ukuqonda okwenziwayo nokwenziwa komuntu kusekelwe eqinisweni lokuthi ingane elingisa ithatha izinhloso nezinhloso zokuziphatha komunye umuntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho ingane yakho ilingisa ezinye izingane, ulahlekelwe ukwesaba okungaziwa. Uyazi noma ucabanga ngandlela thile ukuthi imodeli ayilingisayo wake wakwenza phambilini, nokuthi uma kuhambe kahle ngaphambi kokuthi abe nesiqiniseko. Ngokulingisa okwenziwa ezinye izingane, wonga amandla, futhi ungawasebenzisela ezinye izinto.