Zonke izingane zinhle futhi zikhetheke kakhulu, kepha mhlawumbe ingane yakho ine-hypersensitive kakhulu futhi phila impilo yakho ngamandla amakhulu. Kungakho lezi zinhlobo zezingane ngidinga ukuhambisa imizwa emihle ngothando olukhulu. Ngalokhu, abazali kufanele bagcine uthando lwethu engqondweni ukuze bakhule bephephe kakhulu.
Bonke abantu bahambisa imizwa ngezinga elincane noma elikhulu, ngakho-ke, ingane yakho ingakwazi iba nokuzwela kancane futhi akusho ukuthi inegethivu. Akudingekile ukucabanga ukuthi yehlukile kokunye, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi singayigcwalisa ngezizathu ezizwakalayo zokuthi imizwa yayo ivuthwe.
Iziphatha kanjani ingane ezwela kakhulu?
Izingane ezine-hypersensitive cabanga ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyatheloBancamela ukucabangisisa ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile okubenza bazizwe bekhungathekile. Kuliqiniso elibenza babone kwezinye izingane, baseyizingane ezijwayelekile, kepha kunezinye izinto ezibenza babe nokuzwela kakhulu futhi okufanele sisize ukunqoba:
- Izinto eziningi abazishoyo noma abazenzayo kubo zibathinta kakhulu. Leli qiniso liyenzeka ngoba amandla abo okuzizwa enamandla kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Imizwa yabo nemizwelo yabo ishubile kangangokuthi imicimbi eminingi nezigcawu kuyabahlula.
- Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bacwaninga ngokuqhubekayo kungukuthi ukungafuni ukuzizwa ungakhululekile kuzilungiselelo eziningi. Abathandi ukwabelana ngezikhathi zansuku zonke nabanye, abanga mndeni othile nabangane, noma benza izinto zokuzilibazisa ezibaluleke kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokugqoka. Bayenqaba izingubo eziqinile, amalebula aphumile, ukwakheka kwezindwangu ezithile ...
- Bayazwela kakhulu, kepha ngasikhathi sinye bangabantu abanothando kakhulu, badinga uthando oluningi nothando. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bakhombisa inqubo evuthiwe ebenza bagqame, bezwe ukuqonda nokuzwelana nabanye.
- Bathuthukise zonke izinzwa ngokuzwela okukhulu. Amakha, imibala kanye nokunambitheka kukhulu kakhulu futhi kubenza bahlobane nezikhathi nokuhlangenwe nakho okuphila. Amandla akho we-intuition aphakeme kakhulu futhi bayazi lapho bethanda okuthile noma cha, banikezwa leli khono lokuthemba noma lokuqagela ukwenza iziphakamiso ezintsha.
- Amandla amakhulu abanawo ukuthi banobuciko obukhuluUma lezi zingane zikhula ngaphakathi komndeni ozikhathalelayo futhi ozihloniphayo, zingathuthukisa amakhono amahle wobuciko.
- Ukuzwela ngokweqile kungatholakala nasezinganeni. Kungabonwa lapho besabela ekushintsheni ekukhanyeni nasekushiseni ngokuzwela okukhulu futhi njengoba bekhula bangaqala ukuchaza ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuthanda kwabo ukudla, amaphunga noma izingubo ezibenza bangakhululeki. Uzobona ukuthi bathuswa kalula yimisindo ephezulu, noma lokho iningi lezinto ezashukumisayo zabacasula, zakhala izinyembezi.
Imiphumela yesikhathi eside neyesikhathi eside nokuthi ungalawula kanjani ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ine-hypersensitive
Ukugcina imfundo enhle kungaba nzimaAbanye abazali bayakwenqaba ukuziphatha kwezingane zabo ngoba bekholelwa nokuthi abanalo, futhi bakucindezela ngokujezisa. Eziningi zalezi zingane zisebenzisa isimo sazo se-alamu ngamandla amakhulu. Bayazivikela ngokugwema amaqiniso athile, balwa kuze kube sekugcineni, babaleka okwamanje noma kubakhubaza.
Abazali bavame ukubalungisa kaningi kakhulu futhi impendulo yezingane zakho ingahlala ingeyinhle njengoba zihlala zilawulwa kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Konke lokhu kuholela azibekezeleli futhi zinolaka esimweni esinjalo, babonakala bedelela befuna ukugwema izimo ezingezinhle.
Izimpendulo Zabazali Ezingalungile kanye Nokubonisa Ukubekezela Okuncane kwenza izingane zizizwe zingavikelekile. Bangaba nentshisekelo encane ekuqhubekeleni phambili noma ukungabi nentshisekelo ekufundeni nasekuguqukeni ekugcineni. Isixazululo esihle kunazo zonke ukuthi abazali kufanele babekezelele izimo ezinjalo.
Ungazigweme izikhathi ezibacasula kakhuluKuyadingeka ukubazisa kancane kancane ngokuzethemba nangokubonisana, ukuze bakwamukele ngenjabulo. Uma ufuna ukwazi okuningi ngemfundo, ungafunda "Ungafundisa kanjani ngokuzethemba nangokuvikeleka".