Namuhla sifuna ukucacisa ukuthi yini leyo izigaba zentuthuko, ukuthi zithonya kanjani ingane nentsha. Ngokwencazelo esabalele kakhulu, sikhuluma ngezinyathelo zentuthuko ngokubhekisa ezenzweni ezithile noma emakhono abafana namantombazane abawenzayo noma okumele bawafinyelele ekukhuleni kwabo okujwayelekile ngezikhathi ezithile.
Ngokwesiko kwakukhulunywa ngezingqophamlando zentuthuko phakathi neminyaka yokuqala emihlanu yokuphila, lokhu nakho kwahlukaniswa. Kodwa-ke, ngokubheka hhayi kuphela ukukhula komzimba kwengane, kepha futhi nokucatshangelwa ngokomzwelo komqondo we "Izinyathelo zentuthuko" zelulelwe ebusheni.
Kungani kubalulekile ukwazi izinsalela zezingane zakho?
Impendulo evela kuJane Squires, uprofesa wase-University of Oregon kanye noMqondisi weCentre for Human Development eyunivesithi efanayo, ukuthi izinyathelo zentuthuko zibalulekile ngoba vumela ukuba nesethenjwa ukuthi ingane ngayinye iqhubeka kanjani, okwenza ukuthi kutholakale ukushiyeka okungenzeka futhi kusize ukungenelela ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kepha khumbula ukuthi ingane ngayinye inendlela yayo. Okubalulekile akuyona umzila kuphela, kodwa nokuthi ingane ifinyelela emabangeni ahlukene.
Lokho okushiwo yisazi ukuthi izigaba zijwayelekile, kepha umuntu ngamunye uthuthukisa indlela yakhe ngendlela eyingqayizivele futhi kuleyo nqubo, okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kubalulekile. Uthando lubalulekile ekufezeni izingqophamlando, kepha akuyona into kuphela. Okubalulekile ukukhomba izidingo namakhono engane ngayinye kusenesikhathi.
Iqiniso lokuyisa ingane kudokotela wezingane noma ngabe liphilile ukubona lokhu kuvela. Ukuqala kwakho konke kungukuthi amakhono amakhono emoto, bese amakhono okuzisiza njengokugqoka wedwa, ukuxhumana noma ukukhuluma, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Izenzakalo ezibonisa intuthuko ngaphambi kwesikole
Sifingqe kakhulu izigaba ezibonisa intuthuko ngaphambi nangemva kwesikole. Kuwo wonke ama-blog wethu uzothola kwaqalwa ezinye izigaba. Ukuze ube nombono omfushane wokuthi ziyini lezi zigigaba, sizokutshela ukuthi:
De Unyaka ongu-0 kuya ku-1. Thuthukisa amakhono emoto njengokuphuza enkomishini, ukuhlala wedwa ngaphandle kosizo, ukubhibhidla, ukuphendula ngokumamatheka komphakathi, kuvela izinyo lokuqala, kudlala ukufihla nokufuna, likwazi ukusukuma, liphenduke, likhombe umama nobaba, liqonde umqondo wokuthi "cha" bese limisa umsebenzi ekuphenduleni
De 1 to 3 iminyaka. Angazidla yedwa, akwazi ukukopisha ulayini, asho igama lakhe nesibongo, ehla enyuka izitebhisi, agijime, ajike, abheke emuva. Can yisho izinto ezivamile, izingxenye zomzimba, ezigqoka kuphela ngosizo oluncane, zifunda ukwabelana ngamathoyizi, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwabantu abadala, ifunda ukulinda ithuba labo, idlala nezinye izingane. Bona futhi uhlukanise imibala. Thola isilulumagama esengeziwe futhi uqonde imiyalo elula
Izenzakalo ezibalulekile lapho beqala ukuya enkulisa nasesikoleni
Lezi ngezinye zezinyathelo zentuthuko okufanele uzikhumbule ngesikhathi sokufunda:
- Kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 kuya kwengu-6 ubudala. Uyakwazi ukudweba izibalo eziqondile, izici zabantu, imibuthano nezikwele. Unokulinganisela okungcono, ugxuma, ubamba amabhola, angaqala ukuhamba ngebhayisikili. Uqala ukubona amagama abhaliwe futhi abe namakhono okufunda. Uthanda ukwenza izinto eziningi ngokuzimela futhi ngaphandle kosizo. Uqala ukuya esikoleni futhi uyaqonda imiqondo yosayizi nesikhathi.
- Kusukela eminyakeni engu-6 kuya kwengu-12 ubudala. Unamakhono emidlalo yamaqembu. Zilahlekelwa ngamazinyo "obisi" bese kuphuma okungapheli. Ukuqonda okuthuthukisiwe kokufunda The ukuqashelwa kontanga kuqala ukuba okubalulekile. Babelana ngemikhuba ebalulekile. Uyaqonda futhi uyakwazi ukulandela imiyalo elandelanayo. Amanye amantombazane, kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-9 noma eyi-10, aqala ukukhombisa ukukhula kwezinwele zasesidlangalaleni nasesikhwapheni, nokukhula kwamabele, futhi isikhathi sokuqala sokuya esikhathini singavela.
- Kusuka eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemithathu. Bafinyelela ukuphakama, isisindo kanye nokuvuthwa ngokocansi. Ukuqashelwa nokwamukelwa kozakwethu kubaluleke kakhulu. ngiyazi bakhathazeka ngesithombe sabo nangombono wenye. Sebevele baqonda imiqondo engaqondakali.
Sifuna ukukuphinda ukuthi lezi yizinkombandlela ezithile zentuthuko okufanele uzicabangele, ukuqinisekisa ukukhula okujwayelekile kwezingane. Futhi ukuze kuthi uma kungenzeki, kungenelelwe ngokushesha. Le mihlahlandlela ayinzima, ngayinye inesikhathi sayo sokuziphendukela kwemvelo.