Kwesinye isikhathi izingane zakwethu zisiletha sibheke phansi, ziyasidina, siyaphikisana, siyalwa, ikakhulukazi lapho sibancane. Kodwa-ke, asazi ukuthi singaphila kanjani ngaphandle kwabo, ziyashintsha futhi zisinothise ngezingxenye ezilinganayo.
Ezinye izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziyavuma ukuthi ukuba nengane yakini kuhlale kuyinzuzo ekukhuleni kwengane. Hhayi kuphela ezingeni lomzwelo, kodwa futhi nasezingeni lokuqonda. Ukuba nezingane ezimbili kuyinselele engakufanelekela ukuyithatha.
Izinzuzo zokuba nengane yakini
Kungaphezu kokusobala ukuthi ukuba nezingane zakini kuyasiza ekukhuleni kwengqondo yanoma iyiphi ingane. Le yindlela enhle yokufunda ukuhlobana nabanye. Ingane yakho izofunda nomfowabo ukuthi aziphathe kahle, uzothonywa yisibonelo sakhe futhi azizwe ehambisana naye, a isibopho esihlukile sokuthinteka.
Inzuzo yokuqonda yokuba nengane yakini ilele ekusebenzisaneni. Izingane zizodlala, zifunde komunye nomunye futhi ndawonye, zifuna izixazululo ezivamile. Lokhu kusebenzisana akuthinti kuphela ileveli yokuqonda, impela inethonya layo ekukhuleni ngokomzwelo. Ingane yakho izozizwa ingaphansi kwesizungu futhi ngeke incane ezinkingeni zokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, ukudangala noma ukwesaba. Kunengqondo, ngoba lapho unomfowethu uzozizwa uhambisana kakhulu.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi wazi ukuthi ingane ngayinye izobamba iqhaza, into ejwayelekile kakhulu ukuthi endala ithatha isivikelo kakhulu. Yize lokhu kungenjalo empeleni kuzo zonke izimo, Indima yomvikeli empeleni ithathwa ngumfowethu onamandla, onekhono kakhulu futhi ozimisele.
Inselelo yokukhulisa izingane zakini nokuthi yini okufanele uyigweme
Njengoba sesishilo, kuyinselelo ukukhulisa izingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa, ikakhulukazi uma sibheka ukuthi kuya ngokuya kube nzima ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo ezingokomzwelo, ezomnotho nezingathintekayo zengane. Kuzoba okufanele, unganqikazi. Kepha kufanele ucabangele ezinye izinto okufanele zigwenywe ukuze ukuthuthukiswa kwakho kokubili kwenziwe ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Kuzobuye kudingeke ukuthi ungenelele phakathi kwabafowethu uma kunezingxabano nokulwa.
Kuyinganekwane ukuthi kufanele ubaphathe ngokufanayo, ngoba ngasinye sizohluka, bazodinga izinto ezihlukile futhi kufanele ubhekelele izidingo zabo. Okubalulekile ukugwema ukuqhathanisa, njengoba sishilo, ngamunye uhlukile futhi unelungelo lokuba njengoba enjalo, akayona noma angaphansi komfowabo, nhlobo. Izingane zakho kudingeka zikhule ngayinye ngejubane lazo, ungaziphoqi, lokhu kungadala ukungezwani phakathi kwazo futhi kulimaze ukuthuthukiswa kwaleyo bhondi ekhethekile eyakhiwa phakathi kwezelamani.
Zizwe ukubaluleka komfowenu
Akubalulekanga nje kuphela ukuzwa ukuhlangana nomfowethu ngesikhathi sobuntwana, ngenkathi sikhula. Ngempela siyaqhubeka sikhula ezimpilweni zethu zonke futhi kubalulekile ukugcina leso sibopho njengoba sikhula.
Kuyacebisa ukwazi ukuthi ungathembela kulowo mngane we-adventure, okuvikele emaphusheni amabi noma ezilo zekhabethe. Ngalowo mxoxi wezinkondlo, okwathi kamuva, wayevame ukucula nawe ebusheni. Kubalulekile ukwazi lokho ngolunye usuku uzokwazi ukubuyisa yonke leyongcebo oze nayo, ngoba unenhlonipho yokwazi ukuthi umndeni wakho.