Isibonelo yilona thuluzi elihle kunazo zonke thina bazali esinalo lokudlulisela ulwazi ezinganeni zethu. Siyisethenjwa sabo esikhulu futhi bazozama ukusilingisa kukho konke, kufaka phakathi izindinganiso zethu zokuziphatha. Kungakho namuhla sifuna ukugxila kukho izibonelo zokufundisa izingane ngezindinganiso zokuziphatha ngaphakathi kwesisekelo somndeni.
Umndeni awugcini ngokuhlinzeka ngezidingo eziyisisekelo (ukudla, indawo yokuhlala kanye nokondliwa), kodwa futhi wenelisa nezidingo ezingokomzwelo nezingokwengqondo ukuze izingane zikhule kahle. Futhi ukukhulisa ingane akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba azizi nencwadi yokufundisa futhi singenza amaphutha ngokulandela amaphethini azuzwe njengefa. Yingakho kufanele sime endleleni, sihlaziye futhi sibheke ukuthi hlobo luni lwemfundo esilunikeza izingane zethu futhi uma luhambisana nalokho esifuna ukubanika kona. Imayelana nokuyeka ukuziphatha ngokuzenzekelayo ngaphandle kokucabanga, ukusenza sazi ukuthi izenzo zethu zinemiphumela nokuningi phambi kwezingane zethu. Iningi lempilo yabo engokomzwelo izothonywa yilokho izingane ezikubonile nezakubona zisencane kakhulu.
Amanani yilezo zimiso zokuziphatha eziqondisa ukuziphatha kwethu. Ngokwezindinganiso esinazo, sizoziphatha kanjena, futhi zizosisiza ukuxazulula izingxabano nokubhekana nokuphila. Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nezindinganiso empilweni ezisisiza sazi okulungile nokungalungile.
Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi yiziphi izindinganiso zokuziphatha ofuna ukuzinikeza izingane zakho ukuze kube yizo ezihamba phambili empilweni yakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzibonisa nazo. Uma sesibakhethile sekuyisikhathi sokufundisa izingane ukubaluleka kwazo. Ayikho indlela engcono yokufunda ngaphandle kwesibonelo salabo abasondelene kakhulu nathi. Ake sibheke ezinye izibonelo zokufundisa izingane ngezindinganiso zokuziphatha.
Izibonelo zokufundisa izingane ngezindinganiso zokuziphatha
- Njengoba sesibonile, into yokuqala okufanele yenziwe Thola ukuthi yimaphi amanani esifuna ukuwafaka ezinganeni zethu. Imayelana nobungani, inhlonipho, ukuphana, imfundo, ukubekezelelana, ukuthanda imvelo, ukuthobeka, ukubonga, ... Kukuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi yiziphi ozibona zibaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho ibe nazo kulo mhlaba.
- Uma usubenze bacabanga, Ingabe ngenza ngokuvumelana naleli nani? Isibonelo, usafuna ukuthi indodana yakho ithembeke, kepha bese ikuzwa uhlala uqamba amanga. Umlayezo obanikeza wona uphikisana ngokuphelele futhi lokho abakubonayo kuyohlala kunqoba ngaphezu kwalokhu abakuzwayo. Ngakho-ke uma ufuna indodana yakho iqotho, kufanele uqale ngawe futhi ukusebenzise empilweni yakho.
- Babuze ukuthi bayakuqonda yini. Ukuchazela izingane ngezindinganiso akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yimiqondo ejwayelekile kakhulu engadala ukungabaza okuthile. Into enhle kulawa macala ukubabuza ukuthi banemibuzo yini ukuze bacaciswe. Ukwazi ukuthi ngabe baqonde yini ungafaka izibonelo zezimo ukuze izingane zikhethe indlela eyodwa noma enye. Ngale ndlela bazofunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuziphatha futhi bazi ukuthi yikuphi okulungile.
- Musa ukubaphoqa ukuba benze ngendlela ethile. Ngoba ngaleso sikhathi bekungeke kube amanani, bekuzoba yimithetho. Amanani kufanele afakwe ngaphakathi futhi aguqulwe, kucatshangwe ukuthi kungcono kakhulu kuwe nakwabanye. Asikwazi ukubaphoqa ngoba kungaba nokuzuzisa. Izingane kufanele zizenzele izinqumo futhi zenze amaphutha uma kudingeka. Asikwazi ukubavimba ekwenzeni amaphutha empilweni, kepha singabasiza bavuke lapho benza.
- Banikeze izibonelo. Impela usuku nosuku ungacabanga ngezibonelo eziningi lapho lezo zimiso ozikhethile zingahle ziqale ukusebenza. Noma okuphambene nalokho, ungabona izimo lapho lezo zimiso zidluliswa khona. Batshele ukuze ukwazi ukuyijwayela futhi uyiqonde kangcono incazelo yayo. Ukuthi uyakuqonda ukubaluleka kwayo nokubaluleka kwayo.
Ngoba khumbula ... lokho izingane ezikubonayo ekhaya kuzoba inkomba yazo empilweni.