Ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kungumcimbi okhethekile, kwenzeka kanye ngonyaka. Abafana namantombazane bakulindele ngendlela ekhetheke kakhulu, ngoba bazizwa njengabaphikisi ngosuku olubaluleke kangaka. Futhi omama nobaba nabo baphila ngendlela ehlukile. Lapha unendatshana engena kulesi sihloko.
Namuhla sizokutshela imibono, kuya ngeminyaka, ukuze iphathi lokuzalwa liphumelele futhi ukwazi yenza izimemo ezihamba phambili. Zama ukuthi naye abe yingxenye yawo wonke amalungiselelo futhi athathe izinqumo zabo.
Iphathi yonyaka wokuqala
Kwamanye amazwe unyaka wokuqala wengane umcimbi wokuzijabulisa. Njengesethulo, kwenza ukuvezwa kwemibono, izipho ezibalulekile. Ngokwemvelo ingane izizwa ikhungathekile, Akaqondi lutho ngokwenzekayo kepha kungomunye umcimbi wezihlobo nabangane babazali ababelana nabo ngalowo nyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Kepha ungakhohlwa ngaye, uyena ophambili futhi uzofuna ukusebenzisa isikhathi sakhe esiningi nawe, futhi ikakhulukazi uma ezizwa ekhuthazeke kakhulu ngabantu abaningi abaseduze kwakhe.
Leli qembu lokuqala empilweni yakhe akufanele kube yinde kakhulu, ngakho-ke sincoma ukuthi esimemweni ukhombise isikhathi sokuqala nokuphela komcimbi. Kwenze ngesikhathi lapho umfana wokuzalwa enqunyelwe kakhulu ukudlala, futhi aqondise ukugujwa kosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa ngalezo zikhathi. Isibonelo ngemuva kokulala kwakho. Ukuhlobisa ibhaluni kuyindlela engcono kakhulu, ngaphandle kwama-piñata nezinhlamvu ezibizayo ongazazi okwamanje.
Ngokuqondene nezimemo ongazenza Sincoma isithombe sosuku lwakho lokuqala, noma usuku lwakho lokuqala. Ngokuqondene nesipho abazali abavame ukusinikeza izivakashi, amasaka amaswidi ezingane awafaneleki, kepha kunalokho ithoyizi, incwadi yokugeza ... Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, qopha konke! Ngokufanelekile, ungakwazi qasha insizakalo yochwepheshe bezithombe ngalo mgubho ongokomzwelo, futhi ungakususa lokho.
Izimemo zokuzalwa ezenziwe ngabantu
Futhi manje ake sikhulume ngezinsuku zokuzalwa zezingane, nezimemo. Ukuzenza nokuzinika abangani kuyingxenye yomgubho, noma ngabe ukuqinisekisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi yiqembu leWhatsApp. Uma indodana noma indodakazi yakho usuku lokuzalwa ngenyanga eshisayo ungenza izimemo ngesimo sepolo ekhayaZimnandi kakhulu futhi kulula ukuzenza. Kumele unamathisele ikhadi endukwini, bese unquma ukuthi ubhala usuku nendawo yokubungaza ku-ayisikhilimu uqobo noma esigxotsheni.
Ungafaka futhi isiqeshana sephepha esinosuku, isikhathi nendawo ngaphakathi ibhaluni futhi indodana yakho uyinike abangane bakhe. Abanye bangaze bangalivuli, kepha kuzoba yisipiliyoni impela ukuzama ukulihlephula. Ungabayisa nasenkulisa noma esikoleni, ukuze ikilasi likwazi ukwabelana ngalesi sikhathi.
Ungakwenza futhi izimaski zezilwane, ngokwesibonelo nangemuva kokubeka yonke imininingwane, abafana namantombazane bazoyisebenzisela ukudlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi udlale imidlalo ngokwakha amaqembu angahleliwe, ngokwesibonelo izinja endaweni eyodwa, amakati kwenye, izinyoni ... nakho konke ongakucabanga.
Imibono yezimemo lapho sezikhulile
Umndeni ngamunye uyazi umfana noma intombazane enosuku lokuzalwa, iyazi ukuthi bathanda ini kakhulu, ama-dinosaurs, uhambo oluya ehlathini, ama-rocket esikhala, impilo engaphansi kolwandle, amakhosazana, siphakamisa ukuthi yenze ingqikithi. Kusukela eneminyaka engu-5, kulula kuye ukuthi akhethe indikimba yakhe yokugubha.
Kunezindawo nezikhala esevele zinakekela konke, impela indodana noma indodakazi yakho isivele iye ezinsukwini zokuzalwa zabanye kuzo futhi ifuna ukuyigubha ngokufana ncamashi. Ukulingisa kuyinto evamile kule minyaka. Kuyisinqumo sakho uma ufuna ukukwenza kanjena noma uma uphakamisa omunye umbuzo.
Kusukela eminyakeni engu-9 uzokwazi ukuthi yini i- your iqembu labangane ofuna ukwabelana nabo. Noma uzokumangaza ngokucela usuku lokuzalwa eyedwa nomndeni wakhe kumahamba nendlwana. Noma ngabe kuyini, yonke into idinga isimemo, isenzo somkhosi esenza lolo suku lube yinto ekhethekile. Futhi kuzoba yena noma lowo onquma ukuyihlanganyela.