Ukucindezeleka kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nabantu abadala, kodwa-ke, izingane eziningi kanye nabantu abasha bahlupheka ngeziqephu eziqhubekayo zokuxineka. Kunezici eziningi noma izimbangela ezingadala ukuthi ingane ihlupheke ngenxa yengcindezi. Kusuka ezintweni zesikole ezifana nezivivinyo noma ukuxhashazwa kuya emindenini ebanga njengokuhlukanisa kwabazali noma ukushintshwa kwendlu.
Uma lokhu kwenzeka, abazali kufanele bayisombulule inkinga ngokushesha futhi Yiphathe ngosizo lochwepheshe omuhle. Ungalahlekelwa yimininingwane futhi unake kahle izimpawu ezicace bha ezingakhombisa ukuthi ingane inesimo esibucayi sengcindezi empilweni yazo yosuku nosuku.
Ziyini izimpawu zokuxineka ezinganeni
Kwesinye isikhathi akulula noma kulula kubazali ukubona ukuthi ingane yabo icindezelekile. Kodwa-ke, kunezimpawu ezimbalwa ezingasiza abazali ukuthi babone impilo enengcindezi ephilwa yingane yabo. Izimpawu azifani ezinganeni nasezinganeni. ubusha ngoba zizohluka ngokuya ngeminyaka yazo. Okubalulekile noma kanjani ukubuka ukuthi ingane ihlushwa ezinye zezimpawu bese uzama ukuxazulula ukucindezeleka ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Ukucindezeleka ezinganeni ezingaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu ubudala
Uma ingane ingaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu futhi icindezelekile, kungenzeka ukuthi izokhombisa noma yiziphi zalezi zimpawu ezilandelayo:
- Ingane icasulwa kakhulu kunokujwayelekile futhi uthukuthela njalo futhi ngakho konke.
- Unezinkinga ezinkulu zokulala ngendlela efanele. Kuyinto ejwayelekile kuwe ukuzwa amaphupho amabi nokwethuka ebusuku njalo.
- Kukhona ukubuyela emuva okuthile ekukhuleni kwengane. Kungenzeka achame futhi noma abe nobunzima bolimi.
- Ingane izoba nezinkinga ngokudla futhi ulambile.
Izimpawu ezinganeni ezindala kuneminyaka engu-5
Endabeni yezingane ezineminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu ubudala, ukucindezeleka kuzozibonakalisa ngezinye izindlela ezihlukile:
- Ingane ecindezelekile iyohlupheka ngokuzumayo kakhulu futhi ukuzwa imizwa efana nokunganaki noma intukuthelo.
- Ukuziphatha kwengane ecindezelekile ngeke kube okufanele kakhulu. Kujwayelekile ukuthi alwe nabangani noma nezingane zakubo futhi akhombise ukuhlubuka phambi kwabazali.
- Esimweni sesikole, ingane enengcindezi izokwehlisa ukusebenza kwayo ngendlela ebonakalayo.
- Akakhombisi ukuba nentshisekelo ngalutho futhi akakhuthazeki ngaphambi kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi.
- Izinkinga zokudla nazo zivame kakhulu. Udla kancane ngenxa yokushoda kokudla.
- Ngesikhathi sokulala, ingcindezi idala ukuthi ingane iphuphe amaphupho amabi cishe nsuku zonke, okukuvimbela ukuthi ungalali futhi uthole amahora adingwa ngumzimba wakho.
- Ingcindezi izodala ukuthi omncane ahlupheke ngezinkinga ezithile zempilo njenge ikhanda, izinkinga zesisu nezimo ezihlobene nomlomo namazinyo.
Yini okufanele abazali bayenze
Uma kwenzeka ingane inanoma yiziphi izimpawu ezichazwe ngenhla, Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bahambise ingane yabo kochwepheshe abaziyo ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nengcindezi enjalo. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, kungumsebenzi wabazali ukulandela uchungechunge lwamathiphu angasiza ingane ukuthi isuse ukucindezeleka okushiwo:
- Omncane kumele aphumule kahle futhi anginazinkinga zokulala.
- Ukudla kwengane kufanele kube kakhulu enempilo futhi olinganiselayo ngangokunokwenzeka.
- Ingane kufanele izijwayeze ezemidlalo njalo.
- Ukuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwabazali nezingane kubalulekile lapho ungacindezeli ngokweqile. Kuhle ukukhathazeka ngabo futhi ubuze ukuthi bazizwa kanjani nokuthi banezinkinga yini. Ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane kuyabasiza bazizwe bethandwa futhi beqondwa ngabazali babo.