Izincwadi ziyindlela yokwelashwa engcono kakhulu yokuqonda futhi ukufunda kwazo kungafaka ubuningi bamanani nolwazi. Izincwadi zabesifazane esizicacisayo namuhla zithuthuke kakhulu kunalokho okumele kuqondwe njengabesifazane, aziyona ingxenye yokufunda okukhethekile kwabesifazane, kodwa zonke izinhlobo zobudala nobulili.
Ukunikezwa amandla kwabesifazane kusho ukuthi ukufundwa okubhaliwe okufana nalezi zincwadi kuqede ukuhanjiswa. Kepha masingakhohlwa ukuthi siyakudinga ukulingana kwabo bobabili ubulili, ngoba sonke siyafana. Ukulingana kufanele kusetshenziswe usuku nosuku futhi kuningi okusamele kusetshenzwe ngakho. Ukuze ungahlali enqikelweni yokungazi esinakho izincwadi ezisebenzisekayo futhi eziqondakala kalula, zonke zibhalwe kusuka emphefumulweni ukuzama ukwamukela lolo shintsho kwezenhlalo oluminyaniswa abesifazane abaningi.
Kungani sidinga ukufunda izincwadi zabesifazane?
Ngoba kuyinkinga abesifazane abaningi abayilwile amakhulu eminyaka. Akuwona umbuzo wokukhumbula lokho abesifazane abazwayo nabakwaziyo, kepha ngoba kungukufundwa komhlaba wonke kwazo zonke izinhlobo zobulili. Kufanele ubike ukuthi yini ukubona ngeso futhi isithombe sobufazi. Kufanele uphakamise izwi lakho, ngaphandle kwalokho liyaphuma libuyele kokukhohlwayo. Uma uzwela ngokungabi nabulungisa okuningi, kukhona abesifazane abazinikela kakhulu zwakalisa imizwa nemizwa futhi ngenxa yezincwadi zinikeza izwe ithuba lokuthatha lelo thuba lokuqonda. Lezi ezinye zezincwadi ongazithola ezingakusiza uqonde kangcono ubufazi kangcono:
Sonke kufanele sibe ngabesifazane
Incwadi eqoqa konke ukukhathazeka mayelana nomlobi wayo uChimamanda Ngozi Adichie, lapho eveza khona konke abona ngakho ubufazi ngekhulu lama-XNUMX. Ayinikezi kuphela ithuba lokuba yincwadi efundwa ngabesifazane kuphela, kepha ikhiqiziwe ukuze bazwisane nabo bonke abantu futhi ikakhulukazi ekuqeqeshweni kwabafundi abaningi. UChimamanda udala incazelo ethile yokuba ngowesifazane kuleli khulu leminyaka, ngokusobala, okufundeka kalula futhi ngokuthinta amahlaya.
Incwadi yabo
Ibhalwe nguBridget Christie, usomahlaya odumile wase-UK owaziwa ngama-monologues akhe amahle. Imiphumela eminingi ibhekane nokuhlekisa ababukeli bakhe futhi bathathe isinqumo sokumnika ithuba lokudlulisela lonke ulwazi lwakhe encwadini, ngaphandle kokuswela amahlaya. Kule ncwadi yonke imiqondo yayo ihlobene ngaphandle kokuphuthelwa indlela yokuqala ukumamatheka, njengendlela yokuletha ukubonakaliswa. Kepha akukhona konke ukuhlekisa, ngoba kukhulunywa ngezihloko ezibucayi eziholela ekuzindleni.
Ubufazi Kwabaqalayo
Lo msebenzi ubhalwe nguNuria Varela lapho elandisa khona umzabalazo oqhubekayo wokubuyisana nokulingana, nalapho kudingeka khona ukugcizelela ukuyifunda ngokucophelela. Umbhalo wakhe uchazwa ngokunemba okukhulu ngoba uphikisana nemininingwane futhi ucacisa imibuzo eminingi mayelana yaqala kanjani inkululeko yabesifazane noma kungani ubufazi buhlekisiwe futhi benziwa kabi.
Ungaba kanjani ngowesifazane
Enye incwadi yabesifazane ebhalwe futhi yaziswa esikhathini samanje. Kwenza ukuhlolwa okuncane kwe- ubekade engubani lona wesifazane 'kusukela ngaphambilini' kulokho umfanekiso wakhe omele khona ekhulwini leminyaka esiphila kulo. Isimo sakhe sokugxeka sigxekwa kusuka esithombeni esihlekisayo ngocansi, isithombe ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi nasekuxhumaneni. Umbhali wayo uCaitlin Moran uveza kahle ukuthi ukubaluleka kowesifazane sekutolikwe kanjani namuhla nokuthi kunjani ukulwa kwakhe usuku nosuku ngomzimba nengqondo yakho.
Ngibize feminazi
Le ncwadi iyi- minocomic kudalwe ngokugxekwa okukhulu kwe- inkolelo-mbono yowesifazane ozenza yena uqobo kuleli khulu leminyaka, kodwa enziwe ngamahlaya. Ukubona kwayo kubukeka ngendlela ehlekisayo ngokuthi umphakathi wethu wabesifazane udalwe kanjani izindlela zokuziphatha ezinganikeli ngalutho. Umbhali wayo uBàrbara Alca usiza ekwakheni amandla abesifazane futhi udale ukugxekwa kwegama elithi macho.
Eziningi zalezi zincwadi siza ukukholelwa egunyeni lokho kungaba khona kowesifazane, ukukholelwa kuye nokwazi ukuthi angakufeza akufunayo ngaphandle kokuzwa ecwaswa. Ukuba ngowesifazane kusho ukufana kuyefana nganoma iyiphi inkolelo-mbono yocansi bese ubheka ukuthi ungubani. Uma ufuna ukufunda okuningi faka "indlela yokukhuthaza ukulingana kwabesifazane abasebasha"Noma"amandla abesifazane ekubeni ngumama".