Enye ye izindinganiso ezihamba phambili ongazifundisa izingane zakho, lokho ukubonga. Ukufunda ukubonga nokwazisa imizamo yabanye abantu yisifundo esiyisisekelo emfundweni yezingane. Kepha lokhu akuyona indaba elula yokufunda ukuthi ngiyabonga. Izingane zidinga ukuqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukubonga nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani impilo yazo yonke.
Ngezindaba, singafundisa izingane zonke izinhlobo zezifundo. Ngendlela elula nokuthi bangaqonda kalula. Ngale ndlela ungakwazi gxilisa ezinganeni zakho ukubaluleka kokubonga ngezindaba nezinganekwane millennia esize izinkulungwane zemindeni emhlabeni jikelele.
Ufudu olumhlophe
Le ndaba yokubonga iyi- inganekwane yendabuko yesiko lamaShayina.
UMao Pao wayengumfana oneminyaka engu-15 owayehlala eChina. UDlapho esemncane wayelungiselela ukuba yiqhawe, ngakho-ke wayethanda ukugqoka imvunulo efanele. Ngelinye ilanga ngemuva kokuqeqeshwa, waya eMfuleni iYellow wayozipholela emanzini awo, wakhumula umfaniswano wakhe wangena emanzini. Ngesikhathi ebhukuda, wazithela kumdobi owambuza ukuthi wenzani kulowo mfula.
Uphendule wathi ufuna okuthile angakudayisa emakethe. Ngokungazelelwe, umdobi wagxumela emanzini efuna isilwane wakhipha ufudu oluncane olumhlophe. Umdobi wayejabule kakhulu, ngoba wayefuna ukuthengisa leso silwane futhi athole imali enhle emakethe. Lapho uMao Pao esondela, wabona amehlo amancane kofudu futhi ngokushesha wamhawukela.
Wacela le ndoda ukuba imkhulule, kodwa wenqaba ngoba wayedinga imali. Insizwa, Wamnika izingubo zakhe ukuze akhulule ufudu. Wayegcina ingubo elula futhi ngaleyo ndlela, asayine isivumelwano. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akukho okungahambi kahle ngaye, wamthatha wahamba naye. Le nsizwa yamshiya echibini futhi ufudu lwaya ngokuthula lwabhukuda.
Kwadlula iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu kanti uMao Pao wayesephenduke umphathi-jikelele onesibindi futhi abantu bakhe babebhekene nezikhathi zempi. Ngesikhathi sempi ehlulwayo, iqhawe lasala lodwa eshiywe yibutho lakhe futhi ebaleka lapho ehlangana noMfula Ophuzi ebuntwaneni bakhe. Wacabanga ukuthi uma engafika ngaphesheya angasindisa impilo yakhe, kodwa umfula wawunendlela ende futhi kwakubonakala kungenakwenzeka.
Ngokungazelelwe, uMao Pao wabona igobolondo elikhulu elimhlophe lisondela futhi lapho efika kulo, lolo fudu kusukela ebuntwaneni lwakhipha ikhanda lalo. Ngaphandle kokucabanga, Wangena kuyo wazibamba waziqinisa, ngaphandle kwenkinga ufudu lwamyisa kolunye uhlangothi emfuleni futhi ngaleyo ndlela wasindisa impilo yakhe.
Ibhubesi negundane, inganekwane ye-Aesop
Ibhubesi lalijabulela ukulala lapho igundane elincane laqala ukudlala nokumkitaza ngomzimba. Ibhubesi lavuka lafutheka layibamba igundane ngenhloso yokuyidla, kodwa igundane elincane lakwazi ukucela umusa.
-Linda! Ngonyama ngicela ungangidli, bengizidlalela nje. Uma ungidedela ngihambe ngolunye usuku ngizokuvuza ngandlela thileMhlawumbe ngolunye usuku uzodinga usizo lwami.
Ibhubesi lahleka, wayecabanga ukuthi igundane elincane alisoze lamenzela lutho, kodwa njengoba wayehlekisiwe, wamyeka. Wasindisa impilo yakhe wadedela igundane.
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, abazingeli babefake inetha eduze komhhume wengonyama. Bayibeka emagatsheni ezihlahla ukuze bakwazi ukumbamba ngaphandle kokubona kwakhe. Ngenhlanhla embi, lokho ibhubesi lapho lidlula ogibeni labanjwa enetheni.
Ibhubesi labhonga kakhulu ngenkathi lizama ukubaleka, lapho ngenhlanhla, igundane lezwa ukukhala. Washesha wahamba wayobheka ukuthi kwenzakalani. Ngaphandle kokucabanga, wakhasa enetheni waqala ukulidonsa kuze kube yilapho ibhubesi selizikhulule ogibeni lwalo. Manje, lelo gundane elincane lasindisa impilo yengonyama enolaka, yize emkhulu kakhulu futhi enamandla kakhulu kunaye.