Izingane azigcini ngokukopisha lokho ezikubonayo, nazo zidinga ukuzizwa ziyingxenye yomphakathi futhi zazi ukuthi kwenzekani kubantu abangenalutho.
Enye yezindinganiso noma imuphi umzali afuna ukugxilisa ezinganeni zakhe ubumbano. Izingane zenza ngokubonayo, okusho ukuthi abafundisi abaphambili yilabo abahlala nabo nsuku zonke. Okulandelayo, futhi njengoba sinikezwe usuku lobumbano lwamazwe omhlaba, sizogqamisa izindlela ezingokoqobo izingane ezingafundiswa ngazo ukuba zisekele.
Fundisa ngamanani
Amanani, afana nobumbano, avezwa ngezindlela eziningi empilweni yansuku zonke: ngemikhankaso kaKhisimusi, kuma-NGO, nomakhelwane ababhekana nesimo esinzima somnotho noma somzwelo, amalungu omndeni uyagula… Uma ingane ibona ukuthi abazali basiza kanjani, futhi bayasizana, babambisane emisebenzini ehlukene futhi bavumelane ngezinto zansuku zonke, kuzoba lula ukuthi babone okulungile futhi bakwenze futhi. Ingane ingatshelwa izindaba zabantu abadlula esimweni esibi, ikhulume ngabantu abajwayele ukucela, yabantu abasala bengenamakhaya ngenxa yokungabi nabulungisa ... Impela uzoba nguyena onentshisekelo futhi ofuna ukwazi kabanzi.
Kungagcini nje ngokusiza ekhaya, izingane zingabona labo abasekelayo, ukuthi babamba iqhaza kanjani emikhankasweni yokusiza izingane ezinamathuba ambalwa, imindeni engenazo izinsiza ... akhawunti, nokuthi ngezinsuku bazobona ukujwayela nokulungisa. Amanani afana nobumbano awafundiswa nge incwadi kuyachazwa, kusetshenziswa nsuku zonke ukwenza isifaca ezinganeni futhi uziqinisekise. Lokho kumgcina empeleni futhi kumenza abambe iqhaza, kuze kumenze abaluleke ezinqumweni ezithile ezithathwa njengomuntu omdala kakhulu.
Ukuba izingane ezisekelayo
Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kugxile ekwaziseni ingane ukuthi umvuzo omkhulu wokusebenzela ukusiza abanye, ngokuba munye, umuzwa olandelayo.
Othisha bokuqala ngabazali. Kufanele bakhulise ezinganeni imizwa yozwela, usizo, uzwela, ukuphana, ubumbano, ngiyaxolisa… Abancane bahlala endaweni yomphakathi, futhi kusukela besebancane kakhulu kumele baqonde ukuthi bayingxenye yomphakathi, wemibuthano eyahlukahlukene ekhulayo. Ingane isekhaya nabazali bayo, esikoleni noma enkulisa nasezinkingeni zomphakathi. Akayena umuntu ozimele yedwa, okumele azi ngaye ukuthi kufanele aphile kanjani, futhi ngawo, azwele abanye futhi acabange ngabanye.
Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kugxile ekwaziseni ingane ukuthi umvuzo omkhulu wokusebenzela ukusiza abanye, ngokuba munye, umuzwa olandelayo. Ukusiza kuletha injabulo, futhi ukubona ukuthi omunye umuntu uzuza kanjani ngokubambisana kwakho kuwumklomelo. Ungabachazela ukuthi usizo lwabo luyadingeka ekhaya nasekhaya, futhi ukhulume ngalezi zindaba ngokujulile nangokuvulelekile. I- abazali Bangadinga ukusebenzisana kwabo, ofunda nabo bangahle bangaqondi okuthile noma bafune ithoyizi, futhi banethuba lokuphindisela ngesenzo sobumbano. Lesi senzo sizobuyiselwa kubo ngesikhathi esifanele.